Family - June 2007

My sister and I are 2 years apart. She is 17 and I am 15. For the past year she has been a complete jerk to my parents and myself. Now, she spends her entire time with her boyfriend, is never at home and is always lying to my parents. Because she is never home I get stuck doing all the chores. She lies to my parents about where she is going with her boyfriend. Also, she never follow their rules. She hardly ever is home by curfew and when my parents put her on restriction she simply doesn't care. Almost every day she will tell my parents that she and her boyfriend are going "fishing" but really they are having sex at his house. It makes me so mad that she gets away with all of this. Also, she is so mean to me. I often will invite her to go to the lake or river and she gets mean and never wants to go. We used to be really close and got along but now it has all changed. Is there anything I can do? I have tried talking to my parents but nothing seems to work?

2007-06-22 05:43:31 · 5 answers · asked by Chelsea 3

I am a single, 23 year old female. I graduated from college last year and have a good job living 100 miles from my mom. My mother has always been very protective and almost nosey. That was fine as a child, but now I feel I should have some more space. I didn't know a lot of people when I first moved here so I've tried to branch out in a variety of ways, including online communities (MySpace, dating sites, forums, etc). My mother feels that since these are public, she should be able to read and comment as she pleases (like she did my childhood diary). There is nothing bad on any of them, but they are not meant for her. I want public profiles so I can find/be found by friends. But even as adults, my friends are a bit put off by my mother's presence. I've hinted that it bothers me, but it hurts her feelings. She lives .5 miles from her mother and calls her every day. She thinks I don't love her since I don't tell her EVERYTHING about my life. How do I deal without blocking her?

2007-06-22 05:08:53 · 13 answers · asked by Alli 4

even though my mum says i can i just can't . even if someone ask me out i can't tell them y is this? xxx

2007-06-22 05:05:31 · 19 answers · asked by random.princess 4

We all make our mistakes in life, but I can look back at my years of growing up, looking at all the events that took place, and wonder about my parents, what in the hell were they thinking. Ever do that?

2007-06-22 05:03:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother is not that bad and she is a nice person but I don't want to be her daughter. Everything she's ever taught me eventually led me into trouble. You know, she's all diplomatic and wouldn't do anything that would cause a conflict, e.g. when I once got sick and a teacher gave me a wrong pill which could actually kill me, mother didn't do anything about it. I am not a bad person, but when I'm around her I get really pissed off and want to get away from her as soon as possible. I have this idea of what my 'real' mom should be like and I do everything I can to be like her, but that annoys my mother 'cause she would've behaved differently, hence the never-ending rows. I am so tired of this...

2007-06-22 05:02:07 · 5 answers · asked by Smiles 1

The boy is a close friend of both of my boys, same age. His parents have been verbally abusing him and told him to just leave if he did not like the way he was being treated. So he left. (Boys' story) I have spoken with the mother (before I knew where her son is) and she is all over the place emotionally. She denies that her husband verbally abuses their son, (she said this before I even heard otherwise). She is free with advice for my children, but I just listened and did not offer advice. I promised that if her son came to my house, that I would not let him stay there overnight and help him stay away from his home. I promised that I would not let him stay with us in that way. The woman accosted her son in the park next to the school two days ago and cursed him out publically. My sons were having lunch with him at the time, and she threatened to call the police on the three of them, which she did.

2007-06-22 04:58:59 · 17 answers · asked by cydthekid 3

my last Question 'neice not wearing bra'
i spoke with her and told her she need to wear bra. but she ignored me and still not wearing bra on the contrary in home she started wearing thin clothes. i cant talk to her mom abt this and she knows this

2007-06-22 04:55:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok today i argued with my mom about something i wanted to buy out of "MY" own money and she wouldn't let me . y is this ?and i feel no 1 likes me in my family they like my lil sister more ! i just can't wait till i'm 16 i'll be freeeeeeeeeeeee! :'(

2007-06-22 04:44:57 · 63 answers · asked by random.princess 4

and were taking my sister with us, my step dad wont let us take our lil step brother, and ill miss him. he doesnt have many friends or anyone to talk to except at school. were movng only an hour away but i dont think i can deal with the heart ache. what can i do?

2007-06-22 04:44:42 · 1 answers · asked by daiva f 1

Scientists are trying to prove that eldest boys are smarter, on average, on standardized tests, etc. than their younger brothers. However, these scientists unfortunately neglect the impact of eldest sisters in this equation. If a family gives birth to one daughter, then has a son, then another son, will the eldest daughter be smarter than her younger brothers, or will the eldest brother be smarter, even though he is not the oldest sibling? Discuss.

2007-06-22 04:42:09 · 1 answers · asked by Sassi 3

I realized that they had already invited the whole family.She invite mysef because I asked when it will be his graduation. i feel is my obligation tu buy somthing , but i am not well economic , what i shoul do?
sorry about my english.
they never visit my kids

2007-06-22 04:38:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Brother is 14 years old he is a smart boy but dosnt apply him self to anything...he is vary uncontrolable....and i feel he is slowly killing my father..he steals fom my dad and lies to him and makes threats at him like he going to hit him or going to kill him...my dad is also tryingto to teach him responsiblity so my dad is sorta making it easy for him...dad gives him one job and tells him u can work for hour a day on either job...but my brother dosnt do the job my dad gave him...example like cleaning the kitchen or doing some outside work that is not hard but my brother dosnt do it cuz he is either to tired or dosnt want to cuz he dosnt want to do it so when my dad gives him a consequence then he blows up and starts getting very viloent...my question is what should we do...my dad is also very sotfty and refuses to send him away or call the cops on him...what advise should i give me dad to help him control my brother?

2007-06-22 04:20:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've had this problem for a long time, like sense i was old enough to have anything valuable, money, ipods, you name it. everytime something goes missing i ask about it and no one has it.. predictable, so i buy myself another and it is gone.. the sister that does it moved out but the problem is still here, she has a house key so she comes when she wants, we changed the locks and she stole my house key and she still gets in. how do i stop her? we've talked to her and my father has talked to her and the problem still exists! hellppp!

2007-06-22 03:56:08 · 25 answers · asked by jessica h 1

I've been with D for almost 3 years. While we've had our differences we've always resolved them and we are very much in love.
He and his family are rich conservative all american white collar people. He is very sheltered and conservative as well. I dress gothic/emo, I have piercings and tattoos, etc. and I was in the foster system.
Despite how different we are, we love each other more than life itself; we know we're the ones for each other.
His family has been supportive of me but always weary... until they got into my livejournal (now deleted) and saw the communities, music, movies I was into. It scared them.
I explained to them the best I could. His mom hates me and thinks I'm a horrible person and a horrible influence and that I should never see her son again. His dad respects his wishes, but is skeptical. His stepmom is weary.
D stood up for me and his mom pretty much disowned him. What should we do?
How can I earn their trust back?

2007-06-22 03:25:00 · 5 answers · asked by orangeflavoredfairy 2

i'm 14 turning 15 this year and my dad still doesn't let me go on sleepover,go to friends birthday parties,hand at the mall with friends,i've never even been allow to go trick or treating. He evens still gives me a bedtime at 9:30.Another thing is that my allowance is $10.00 a month. I can't eve afford to buy a shirt.I'm not even allowed to have a boyfriends til i'm 18 in college(and he's still thinking about hanging that to after college.)But still it gets so lonely now cuz all my friends stop inviting me to there parties and stop talking to them because i never get to hang with them afterschool. I tried to explained to HIM HOW IT FEELS BUT HE JUST SAID"FORGET IT" So he went on a buisness trip for the whole summer so i thought that I could get like some type of freedom well its like June 22 and he just call and said that he's be coming back on the 29. My whole family keeps talking about how they miss him. Am i a horrible person for wanting him to stay longer?

2007-06-22 03:18:16 · 48 answers · asked by Jennifer 3

2007-06-22 00:30:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

they do this about 4 times a year with about a weeks notice
however when we visit we have to stay in a local hotel and buyy our owm food and pay the lodgins
what would you do ?

2007-06-22 00:24:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

This I found in a book every 2 days or more I will ask another question like this have a golden chance to get points!

2007-06-22 00:04:59 · 10 answers · asked by Marmar 2

and everytime you see them you think back to all the awful memories and experiences...

2007-06-21 22:34:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i neva get any sleep and i rebel against everyone aswell

2007-06-21 22:16:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my sister are not really close when comes to personal lifes of our own. Out of the blue, last week she mentioned that she wanted to get marry at the age of 23 this coming nov. As a big sister, I cant take the blow. It was just too sudden. Even though we are not that close, I still gonna miss her presence around. Worse still, she did not even inform me about her big day. Let alone my family members. Dont know why they treated me like stranger. I didnt do anything at all. I want respect coz I got pride and gonna lose face when relatives will start to ask when I'm getting married as I'm in the late 20's. I feel so sad and felt neglected. I felt alone and I poured out my feelings to my bestfriend. I cried everyday and seemed to lost my focus in life. I learn to hate my family since they have been keeping lots of secrets behind my back whereby as part of the unit, I have the right to be involve in the family affair. I'm ignoring everyone and cant face them at home.

2007-06-21 18:55:07 · 10 answers · asked by freezing lady 6

My boyfriend of 4 years is going out of town to the lake to camp with family at at a family reunion. Well.. I didn't want to go because I hate camping and i am not that much of an outdoors person. He's only gonna be gone for 2-3 days and it seems stupid but it feels like I wont see him for a long time. We do everything together 24/7 and I feel lost without him. What should I do this weekend to pass the time faster? Have you ever felt like this?

2007-06-21 18:52:03 · 8 answers · asked by greenturtle 1

Yes or No

Has he disappointed you in any way?

Has he helped you in any way?

What about the prospect of heaven? What do you think?

Would you like to spend eternity in a place filled with love

Would you want to love others unconditionally and be loved unconditionally?

Would you want to spend the rest of your lives in heaven with your spouse, children, friends, mom, dad, sister, brother, grandma, grandpa, etc etc in heaven?

2007-06-21 17:52:00 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, I have never met my father's family because he went around town telling everyone that my brother and I were bastards; he has also denied me being his daughter and forced my mother to go to court. My mother's family... I just hate them. They verbally abused me calling me fat and ugly, etc. My cousins completely ignored me and when I was living with my aunt, my cousin's friend had this huge sweet 16 and everyone in my family was invited, besides me. They apparently thought that it was funny. Since then, I have stopped talking to my cousins... and I am grateful for that because my life is somewhat better. My mother and I moved to California and my life is almost perfect because my family is on the other side of the country and I never talk to them. Now I just need to get away from my mother who always yells at me and who has BURNED me on the forehead and I now have this huge scar... and she wouldn't take me to hospital when my skin was sliding off my face.

2007-06-21 17:42:46 · 7 answers · asked by creep show 1

okay first off I am 18 years old ... female... and my parents are divorced....... I REALLY NEED SOME HELP.I am a good kid... I have been working scene I was 15... okay this is kind of long.... and I am going to try my best to explain everything
my parents have money... ALOT, but i dunno if they worked for it or they were given it by my grandparents ....
my mom and dad DO NOT GET ALONG.. they both bad mouth each other to me, but every time i mess up they gang up on me... my father was told me things like " my mother is obessed with money and big d****" and my mother will tell my that my father is crazy and needs help!!! my dad lives in a gated community... has a new family.. n ever now and then he wants to talk to me.. i have an older brother who went to private school.. star football player...he is my family's pride n joy!! but then he got caught sellin drugs n is in jail.. buy my dad said he is more of a man then he will ever be because he is sitting in jail for his friend

2007-06-21 17:41:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am in my early-mid 20s and live at home and work f/t. i am attempting to shed the 30 pounds i gained while in college with a sensible diet and exercise. i have lost about 15 already and have some more to go. generally, i am pretty good on the diet but when i do cheat, and my mom sees me, she launches into a lecture/tirade about how if i want to reach my goals i shouldnt sabotage myself. it is not supportive and helpful at all. it is mean and judgemental and makes me feel bad and want to eat more. she yells at me like im a child if she sees me eat something "bad" or makes suggestions about what choices i should make at dinner. i find it completely overbearing and obnoxious, esp. considering i am in my 20s and am generally pretty good about my eating. me, my therapist, and my father all tell her to be quiet because it's obnoxous and counter-productive but i still hear a lecture at least once a day. how can i get her to stop?

2007-06-21 17:29:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, earlier this evening I asked her politely and maturely if I could permanently dye my hair. But she said no - I'm not old enough.
But this is something I REALLY want. What would be the best way to get her to change her mind? Ask again? Make a presentation? Write a paper?
What should I do?

2007-06-21 17:28:28 · 8 answers · asked by Gemma 2

My brother is 13 and he is going through this stage of "he is never wrong". It drives me insane!!!!! Will he grow out of it. Please tell me this is just a phase.

2007-06-21 17:27:02 · 4 answers · asked by saved1044 2

I feel bad by how I was treated by my family.Well I found out that my grandmother was dying of colon cancer.I hadn't seen her in almost thirthteen years, I was around 12 at the time.She would help me out so often, she sometimes helped me buy my schoolbooks, clothes, whatever I needed she was pretty much there for me, she even took me and my brother in when we were homeless.So thirthteen years went by and I never went to visit her, so when I went to go see her on her death bid, I just broke out into tears..my cousin cursed me out, called me all kinds of b words, my other family members didn;t really say much too me either., after thirthteen years! so keep in mind I'm working full time and going to school full time.I stayed for three days, and I left knwing that my grandmother was dying, So my aunt cursed me out and told me to never call her again, and that I think "I'm a celebrity", and how could I not come see my grandmother

2007-06-21 17:26:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it a good thing for females and female athletes?

parents what do you think of her as a female role model?

I know she went to college in Arizona and has like 7 olympic medal

but having achieved so much, do you think it is still right to bare it all for playboy?



ummm juss kinda off topic

My hometown is Irvine, California and she is from Irvine too!!!

2007-06-21 17:23:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous