Well, I have never met my father's family because he went around town telling everyone that my brother and I were bastards; he has also denied me being his daughter and forced my mother to go to court. My mother's family... I just hate them. They verbally abused me calling me fat and ugly, etc. My cousins completely ignored me and when I was living with my aunt, my cousin's friend had this huge sweet 16 and everyone in my family was invited, besides me. They apparently thought that it was funny. Since then, I have stopped talking to my cousins... and I am grateful for that because my life is somewhat better. My mother and I moved to California and my life is almost perfect because my family is on the other side of the country and I never talk to them. Now I just need to get away from my mother who always yells at me and who has BURNED me on the forehead and I now have this huge scar... and she wouldn't take me to hospital when my skin was sliding off my face.
2007-06-21 17:42:46 · 7 answers · asked by creep show 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My mother has also said that I'm "going to get raped" (wtf?!). Anywho, I do not think that I have ever been loved (besides friends) and I am sure that they don't even appreciate the things that I have done for them. When I get older, I want to make sure that my children do not have to go through this. I don't want to be like my mother, I do not want to be like my family. I want to be a good person.
I just want to be happy. I'm sick of my family constantly putting me down (I have great friends though that appreciate me!)
2007-06-21 17:44:44 · update #1
Yea! I'm planning on changing my last name once I leave for college.
2007-06-21 17:50:35 · update #2
Give them a fake address. Change your cell phone number, email, anything that they can use to contact you. Make sure any friends you stay in contact with either don't know where to find you, or wont tell you family where you are. You can always get a restraining order if you have to. Good luck on the move, hope everything works out for you.
2007-06-21 17:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by kjhbh, 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help as soon as you can, if you don't know where to go consult the school counselor, aviously your family is more danger to you than good, so is better if you go but don't wait live and find a good church they might help you also, you can lead a good life, be happy, and best of all you dont have to be like them, pray about it and you will see something good will happend and you will cry of happiness i know because something very similar happend to me. i ask god to help me
and i stared looking for a place to live and found more than i could imagine and i been here ten years now. good luck
2007-06-22 00:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by Joeul7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!
You certainly need a loving, kind, gentle family to tell you how sweet and beautiful you are.
You must have lots of strength and coping skills to live through this.
If you want to break off contact with your family, you need to either be able to support yourself or find a foster family. Once you get yourself taken care of, then you can stop contact with them. If they try to contact you, you can get a order of protection.
You will need someone you trust to help you through all these changes.
Good luck.
2007-06-22 00:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by Eve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, what your mother did was assault. You need to go to the police. She is threatening you and you are not safe. They can offer you public assistance or if you are still underaged, put you in a foster home. Either way, get out now!
2007-06-22 00:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by wenchiepirategirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell them where you are going, your address or phone number. Just suddenly cut off all contact with them and people who know them. Unless they want to invest $$ in finding you after that you should be allright. Good luck
2007-06-22 02:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kristal E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its simple move out in a state by yourself and dont tell ANYONE where you are going its like your starting a new life and making new friends. Go and get your name changed too that way there would be no trace of anyone finding u
2007-06-22 00:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by blabber_mouth626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask to borrow money, that usually makes relatives disappear.
2007-06-22 00:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋