My mother is not that bad and she is a nice person but I don't want to be her daughter. Everything she's ever taught me eventually led me into trouble. You know, she's all diplomatic and wouldn't do anything that would cause a conflict, e.g. when I once got sick and a teacher gave me a wrong pill which could actually kill me, mother didn't do anything about it. I am not a bad person, but when I'm around her I get really pissed off and want to get away from her as soon as possible. I have this idea of what my 'real' mom should be like and I do everything I can to be like her, but that annoys my mother 'cause she would've behaved differently, hence the never-ending rows. I am so tired of this...
2007-06-22 05:02:07 · 5 answers · asked by Smiles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you can't change who your mother is. she loves you- even if you don't see it... it can suck that she doesn't treat you the way YOU want her to~ but she is doing the best the she can- the way she knows how.just love her for who she is.
when you have a kid of your own you can be the mom you want to be...
2007-06-22 05:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you are a teen, and the truth of the matter is that your not suppose to understand everything your mom does, matter of fact you don't even need to agree with it all. (If for the most part she is a good mom, just not your "ideal" mom) try to cut her some slack.. remember she does not think just like you.. and I am sure she has reasons for the things that she does and she may not always explain them to you. Nor should you expect to understand her completely. I am sure there are many of these situations that you cannot over look, because you have your own opinions..and it really sounds like you have a sense of right and wrong; but remember, You may change how you feel about your mom once she is no longer in control of you.. (e.g. once you are 18) at that point you can sit back and laugh at her silly opinion..do your best to keep yourself out of trouble, without disrespecting her. If she tells you to go play in the busy street, you might want to get some hand's-on help.. but in the mean time.. if it is just that she hasn't seen every situation the way you think she should... cut her some slack... she is not you... and you are not her... try to find good in her everyday.. and let some of the bad blow off.. above all.. let her love you..in her quirky kinda way! and love her back!
2007-06-22 12:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by me_d_70 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you and your mother have very different personalities. Actually that is not abnormal. Take from her what you can learn that is good for you, and otherwise make your own way. But be careful, you are still young.
Try not to tell your mom about your "real" mom. That could be annoying. Like you said, she's a nice person but different from you. I'm not much like my mom either, and my daughter isn't much like me. (I think she's more like my mom....lol.)
2007-06-22 12:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it's so typical to say that, but you have to be happy that you have easy problems, there are people who don't have parentsand people who don't have house, i ain't trying to make you sad but the time you sick of your mum is in anyone's life. it will pass out sooner or later just try to behave as a good girl
2007-06-22 12:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try living without her, I bet you change your mind.
2007-06-22 12:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by ducky doo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋