Family - June 2007

I tell you to enjoy their Grand Children. I had a great time celebrating with my two youngest Grand children this afternoon, took off work early. My Daughter picked me up, and we went to Chuck E. Cheese, it was my Granddaughter's first Birthday.

So, it was my Daughter, her two year old son, and her Daughter, the Birthday girl, who turned one years old today.

I can tell you, I had just as much fun as the two kids, and their Mother. I love my Grandchildren, they mean the whole wide world, to me. I am so bless.

2007-06-21 11:01:33 · 7 answers · asked by That one 7

I have minded my two grandchildren for the past 5 years every day , and tomorrow I retire the family are moving 20 miles away ,I will get to see them very often . While it was tough at times ( I am an eldery gran) should I be glad my work is done and look forward to the rest are they any grans outhere that are 'eldery ' and how did they feel when they retired from childminding .

2007-06-21 10:54:08 · 3 answers · asked by MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION 5

My dad...step dad, freaks out sometimes and gets really mad. he has never hit me before, but he has said some pretty mean things. he calls me all kinds of names: baby, sack of *crap*, loser, f-ing liar, and thats not all. sometimes it seems like he will never calm down. he has thrown things before, but never directly at me. and he always cusses at me for the stupidest reasons. please help me. i want to know if you would consider this emotional abuse. and maybe you could tell me what you think i should do...

2007-06-21 10:40:20 · 9 answers · asked by about_to_lose_it_17 1

Hello everyone. I have bit of a dillema here. My father, who is in his mid-sixties, was diagnosed with cancer last year. To help him, I moved into his house with my husband and 2 daughters aged 12 and 9. However, my 12 year old daughter has just said she has to get out of the house - and prefebebly go back to our own house. She's only able to take a shower once or twice a week, so my father can have one every day, and she says that his constant moaning, complaining about life, wanting to kill himself, and exposing his illness to her is tiring and scaring her. She says that every day, her being quiet and shy, he forces her to listen to this, and also gives her little privacy, even though she has her own room. She and I are too scared to hurt my father, and he doesn't physically hurt or harm her, and I feel I can't leave him. I have little other family here. Should I listen to my daughter and move out, or stay with my father?

2007-06-21 08:56:02 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I was really considering joining the United States Marine Core. Long story short I wanted to join back in HS (4yrs ago) but my parents talk me out of it. Which is good in sense I wanted to join infantry back then with my friends(2 of them past away in 2005). But now my other friends are going and I am having a hard time getting my parents to back me up. They say “people like us don’t go to the military” its mostly because we come from a family with money. But to me serving ones country is more then money its pride and joy. Has anyone had this? Lack ness of support? I know boot camp is really really hard and it makes me second guess myself but I am sure I can make it with my parents support.

2007-06-21 08:50:24 · 11 answers · asked by ViperKilla 5

My bf and I have been together for a little over 2 years and my mom and dad has never met his parents yet?

He lives in Corona and his parents wanted to come to the city I live in to eat at this one restaurant and I thought it would be a good idea to invite my parents so they could meet each other. Well, when i brought it up, he was quick to answer with "not yet". So if not yet, when?

2007-06-21 08:48:39 · 3 answers · asked by Tulip 4

My mom got in a fight with my stpe-dad and now he is not in our lives but i miss him. Is this ok after he called my sisters names and cused at them and told them there worthless one sister is 15 and one is 22 they had to call the cops

2007-06-21 08:29:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father died on what will be 10 years next month. I want to commemorate his death , do something special, what should i do?

2007-06-21 08:27:41 · 9 answers · asked by Jetglam 1

financially screwed over by a close relative? if so, did it cause you to reflect on your entire relationship and past events? were you able to forgive that person? if yes, how? i haven't spoken to my mother in 4 years after she manipulated me into a biz. deal and then d**ked me over.

2007-06-21 08:22:37 · 5 answers · asked by colormehappy 5

I wanted an iPod so badly!! My dad makes enough money to buy some luxuries he makes around $1100/week. I did EXREMELY good on my finals.

social studies-98
ela-96
math-98
science-97

so do i deserve an ipod?

2007-06-21 08:17:59 · 10 answers · asked by SomVietKid 3

Boys in their early teens are very curious about women and sex. I have no son myself but I wonder if living in a family where a boy sometimes sees his mother naked can cause him to get a desire for his mothers body and get excited , or is there no such risk ?
I mean usually they get excited from seeing a naked body but can it happen if it is his mother he is seeing naked ?
Do you know if such problems occurs ?

2007-06-21 08:12:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had an excellent Fathers Day with my daughter. We had a nice buffet brunch together and then we saw the new Fantastic 4 movie which we both liked.

2007-06-21 05:52:15 · 8 answers · asked by paul s 4

My 9 year old daughter has a very unstable relationship with her Dad since she was 1 years old. He comes around when he wants, doesnt pay child support, doesnt help with anything. In the last year, his brother died in a car wreck and about 2 months later he got his deceased brothers wife pregnant. She already had a 8month old from the deceased brother. Neither my daughters father or his girlfriend (my daughters aunt) work... they stay at home and sell pot to pay the bills. So now my daugher has a new half sister (that is also her cousin by marriage) and her Dad runs a major grow operation. I know my daughter really loves her Dad and she is always asking about seeing him. She hasnt seen him in almost a year, since I told him she couldnt go to his house on the weekends (cause of the pot). I've offered to let him come over to our house or meet at the park, but he wont. My daughter cries her self to sleep at night over her dad, I dont want to keep her from her dad... what do I do?

2007-06-21 05:27:40 · 12 answers · asked by Cbauer 2

what should i get her she is going to be nine july first

2007-06-21 03:49:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my brother so much! But, why do i keep making fun of him. What should I do? He is a very sensitive person.

2007-06-21 03:43:02 · 11 answers · asked by 1001 3

2007-06-21 03:11:13 · 12 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7

I'm afraid he won't be around much longer.

2007-06-21 03:03:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean he has refused to takecare of you,and have no mum,relatives are no where to help you in life. how do you survive.

2007-06-21 00:19:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister is 13, I just turned 15, she's dating someone who's nearly 17. I've told her he'll take advantage of her, etc., and she's just saying I'm jealous. What do I do?

2007-06-20 22:32:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's coming back on (7/7/07).Something creative I can do?Please tell me!

2007-06-20 22:28:04 · 11 answers · asked by Maverick 2

My best friend of 15 years her 7 year old son and 9 month old baby all live with me in my home. She recieves help from the goverment to support her children as both fathers are deadbeats ones in prison and the other is on the run. She goes from one relationship to another only to discover she has landed another loser that brings her even more drama then the last. If they turn out to be semi decent then she runs the other way. She is a victim of child abuse and its no secret that she is attracted to those with similar traits as her father. She is a very inteligent beautiful woman and is a graduate with honors. She needs therapy but is just to damn stubborn and bull headed to get help. As a result of the child hood abuse its clear she has a split personality. The last boyfriend she had I got a gut feeling he would eventually cause problems for me so I forbid her to bring him to my home but she did anyways and sure enough problems followed. She now has a new b.f. and red flags going up.

2007-06-20 21:00:29 · 11 answers · asked by LLcoolsack 1

Okay I been married for 3 years to my first husband we have a one child and we want another, BUT he always goes party with his parents on the weekend or helps ppl out when they need help with things, but whenever I ask him for something he says he worked all day and shouldn't have to work at home and I understand, but why do things with other ppl and for other ppl? I'm not asking him to go to Italy or whatever. I'm asking him to spend time with us like going to the park and he doesn't. I have to beg him. But his parents crap on him they only call him when they want something as to where me and his child want to spend time with him as a family b/c we love him. So I don't know what to do. I want another child, but I don't want the same thing to go on. When I was pregnant the first time he wouldn't drink or party. He was good then, but now he's 30 I think he needs to grow up. What does everyone else think? Should I give up or just deal with it?

2007-06-20 20:50:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a 14 year old girl and my parents are starting to ground me more often than they spank me. I hate getting grounded. I'd rather get a spanking and get it over with. Sure, it is awkwad, I agree, since I may be a little old to get an over the lap spanking, but, even though it hurts like heck, I'd rather get spanked than get grounded. Am I weird?

2007-06-20 20:47:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

not a joke, i know someone who says her own biological father actually hates her, and actually says so to her.

2007-06-20 19:02:21 · 15 answers · asked by hotsophisticate 1

My mother is very mentally sick. Each an every morning for years she gets up and vomits. I have tried talking to her, she just says back off mind your own business. I only want to help because i love her. How ca i help?

2007-06-20 18:22:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I try talking to my mom and she's always rude to me; and then I just get a job and she's all bratty and says "You're gonna' quit", etc. I think that it's completely rude and I hate coming home sometimes. But whenever I wanna talk I forget and then I walk away upset. How can I stop myself from becoming upset if she doesn't give two-sh!ts what I say?

2007-06-20 17:30:10 · 8 answers · asked by Baah 1

Please write your any memorable situation in your life.

2007-06-20 16:57:37 · 7 answers · asked by PUNDALIK D 1

She graduated from high school last May. When she goes to stay a few days with her friends, she will call me and everything is nice. I love you Mom, how are things going, I miss you, and it's perfect. But, when she gets home things are go to shi_. I can ask for her to do something around the house and she may get to it in 2 days. And I get attitude if I ask again.But, if one of her friends call she jumps up and does whatever they need.
Now, she decided tonight she needed to move out. I feel so sad. We got into in again. My oldest daughter helps alot and I don't get no lip out of her. She doesn't have a job and we are restoring her car. I tried to ask how they are going to pay for rent, food and utilities. And I just get attitude.
I did go deliver a kitchen table to the house. I wasn't sure if she would be home or not. I asked and She wasn't sure. We are supposed to go to Oklahoma City this weekend for a company dinner. I couldn't get a answer then for sure either.

2007-06-20 16:49:09 · 15 answers · asked by beckster 2

My uncle was in a car wreck. It was raining and the car went out of control. In the end he ran into a tree and nobody else was hurt. He wasn't hurt that bad, but he can't move his neck. He also has glass in his skin. The only reason he survived was because he was wearing a seat belt. Ever since the wreck he's always saying I can't believe I was wearing a seat belt. How do I deal with my uncle that is like a father to me who could've died?

2007-06-20 16:23:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't say at home with my mother. She collects my child support and I don't see any of the money. How can I collect my own check?

2007-06-20 16:17:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous