My father died on what will be 10 years next month. I want to commemorate his death , do something special, what should i do?
2007-06-21 08:27:41 · 9 answers · asked by Jetglam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i dont mean a celebration just something special to honor the day.. Its been a tough 10 years because he was killed.
2007-06-21 08:34:41 · update #1
I have never heard of commemorating a death, unless you're a Jehovah's Witness.
2007-06-21 08:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by Yogi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm also coming up to a 10 year anniversary of my dad's death, what I do to commemorate the day is to write him a letter about what's happened since he passed and burn it - my mum always said that the flames would take it to him in heaven,so he'd know I was thinking of him.
2007-06-21 08:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Han90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sorry approximately your mom. That had to have been extremely annoying for you, besides as questioning approximately it for all of the destiny years. possibly you ought to basically bypass away him to himself and don't push your self on him. possibly you ought to even attend the dinner and kin custom to honor his mom devoid of him. He might have fun with which you probably did that for the period of his place until he's able to connect you all interior the subsequent couple of years. Make him a dinner if that's what you do and bypass away it on the kitchen counter. permit him understand the nighttime earlier which you isn't there interior the domicile for him, yet might like if he joined you all. My husband lost his brother a pair of years in the past and that i understand he gets extremely unhappy on the anniversary. it particularly is as quickly as I dig out the albums and seem at pictures of he and the kin, and we talk approximately him via the day. His spouse constantly makes his popular dishes and he or she and the three little ones he left in the back of take a seat around the table and have fun their father. diverse human beings think of you mustn't point out the call of the deceased yet i think of it helps to speak approximately her or him and save them alive in our hearts.
2016-10-18 06:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by bizier 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always go visit at the graveyard and bring flowers. you can always buy something such as a ring or something else to symbolize your parents death with respect. i know how hard it is to loose a loved one. my mother died 2 years ago and i miss her so much. she had cancer and she was sick for qite a while. hold in there because your parent would want you to be happy and he is looking down on you.
2007-06-21 08:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about commemorating his life instead of his death? Donate in his name to his favorite charity or yours.
2007-06-21 08:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should hold a memorial with close friends and family in honor of him.
2007-06-21 08:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by Meghan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your fathers buriall site and "honor" him or pays your respects
2007-06-21 08:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by SomVietKid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
0_o like are you having a party or something? sounds morbid to me
if it were me, i might drive out to his grave site and have a little picnic there.
2007-06-21 08:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Christina V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a place he used to take you, or several through out this day..........thank him for each memory.........in a card, attach to a gas balloon and send it to the sky.
2007-06-21 08:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by Dino 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋