My mom got in a fight with my stpe-dad and now he is not in our lives but i miss him. Is this ok after he called my sisters names and cused at them and told them there worthless one sister is 15 and one is 22 they had to call the cops
2007-06-21 08:29:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am very sorry that your step dad feels this way. He probably hurt your sisters by the things he said but it doesn't mean your not allowed to miss him. After all, he is still your step dad. He might be going through some hard times and didn't mean the things he said. You should talk to your mom about how you feel and tell her that even though he said some regretful things, you still miss him. Hopefully your mom will be understanding and let you see him once in a while. Don't feel bad about missing him, it just shows how much you care.
2007-06-21 08:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by dogtreats100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should pursue the relationship if u feel that way, but r u smart enough to keep it on the down low ??
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U must know U need him if U R missing him, but U have 2 B careful not to cause him trouble. Just B there 4 him and hopefully he will B there 4 U. There will B ways U 2 will be able to spend time together if U R careful and smart about it.
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2007-06-21 15:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by glen_loves_fun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I come from a divorced family and now both of my parents are remarried. Sometimes things get tough with five sisters. My step dad has said stuff to us, but I know he doesn't mean it. It comes with the stress of everything. If my mom and step dad were to divorce I would most def. keep in contact with him. He is a big part of my life now and he always will be regardless of what happens.
2007-06-21 15:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Meghan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey, most people have good qualities and some bad qualities all rolled up into one person. I am sure you miss the good things about your step dad. But the name calling and cussing are bad qualities you certainly do not miss. So, it is ok to be angry with him for the bad things. And it is ok for you to love him and miss him. Talk to mom about this and maybe you can still talk to him sometimes. Good luck to you!!
2007-06-21 15:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by oldknowitall 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are allowed to miss him....if the cops were called was he being abusive???? If so He isn't good for you......I know that you need a dad.....but you need one that is good for you and that will build you up with Love and telling someone that they are worthless isn't love.....even if they didn't get off the couch and do their chores......
2007-06-21 15:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right or wrong in missing someone. Everyone has good and bad behavior, something about him must have made your mom like him to begin with. Don't feel guilty because you miss him, but if he hasn't contacted you, then you probably shouldn't contact him.
2007-06-21 15:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in a similar situation and it's cool to miss him but i wouldnt tell my sisters or mom if i was u because all it will do is cause trouble...go ahead and contact him if you want but just keep it on the low
2007-06-21 15:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by DaniMarie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its OK to miss him but what he did was wrong...you cant curse and call they names...talk to your family about it,maybe you can get closer...
2007-06-21 15:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋