what will you do,if you do not have a dad?

Question

i mean he has refused to takecare of you,and have no mum,relatives are no where to help you in life. how do you survive.

Answer 1

My best advice would be to make friends. Or to find religion. I have a sorta inspirational prayer. Its for people who want/need hope. Its called "Lead me and guide me":

“My voice is heard in the stillness. You say to Me, ‘Holy Spirit, let me hear your voice. Lead me and guide me.’ I do hear you. I am right here with you. My Word says I will never leave you or forsake you. My sheep do hear My voice, and another they will not follow. I want to lead you minute by minute. You are anxious about too many things, so you don’t hear My voice. You block out My voice when you worry and are upset over the difficulties of this world. You see, My beloved, we are not from this world. You are a spirit. I am a Holy Spirit. We must communicate in the spiritual realm. My Word is the only way to true peace. If you don’t believe and act upon My Word, you won’t be able to survive in this confused world. I want you to make a decision on who you are going to believe. Will it be your carnal mind that keeps changing, or My Word that is the same yesterday, today, and forever. The Word became flesh and dwelt among us. I am the Word. Believe Me, I have concern for you. You are going to live with Me forever. Watch what you say about yourself. You seem to believe what you hear yourself saying more than you believe what I am saying about you. You are chosen by Me to do My work. This has been prepared for you from the foundation of the world. Do you think I choose junk? No, My child. You are one of My ‘jewels!’ You are my delight. I rejoice over you with singing. I love to see you happy and smiling. I only want to do you good. I am a good Father, not a hard taskmaster.
Everything is yours. Enjoy the things I have made just for you. You are precious to Me. Take good care of yourself. I love you so much.”
--Love Always,
“The Lord”

Answer 2

Totally depends on age. If a baby or very young child would need someone to take care. Doesn't matter who really. As long as food is provided reasonably.

If a bit older then there are endless options. Just about anybody with interest could be like a mom or dad.

Friends come and go no matter if you have parents or not.

Finance would be a problem if you want to go to school etc. Can't work legally too early. If you're totally abandoned in a young age I'd look for a host family. If you're in working age I'd start working. Learning anything everywhere from all opportunities presented.

If you don't have people around you who take care of you at all you can first look for social/government help, or if you like get in touch with people in various ways and create your own way. Just remember that basically there's no free lunch. You will have to pay effort in one way or another no matter what option you choose. Even if you end up in a hostfamily that takes care of everything for you, you'd better improve yourself so you at least have the ability to be independent.

Don't rely on your family, parents, friends or others. Rely on yourself. Then cooperate with others. This way you will always be flexible. And if you get good at learning and being with people, it really doesn't matter if you dad put you in a package and send you off on an airplane and next day you wake up in Africa in a land where you don't even know the language or anything. As long as you're humble, friendly, hard learning, make effort, have some courage and try your best.

that's it.

Answer 3

You can and will survive without parents. The only thing you can do at this point is strive to be the best you that you can be, even without the guidance of parents. I would suggest forming a close relationship with the Lord, because he is a friend to the friendless, and a father to the fatherless. Just pray that one day your relationship with your father gets better and that when you become a parent you will be very close to your children so that they never have to feel the emptiness that you feel.
Also, don't hate your dad. He's only a man. Besides, you can't live your life being angry all the time. You need to move forward and do what you need to do for yourself and your family.

Answer 4

honey if ur 16 or less u need to seek help from the social workers or citizen advice bureau if ur above that age then u need to build ur own life, find a little home/flat. go to college take on a course that interests u, find anew hobby, pamper yourself every once in a while, find a job, make new friends! u Willl grow into a better person n stronger n as for ur dad just forgive him n let him be one day he will come running back n that will be when ur doing well for urself but by then u will be so much wiser and you wil know what to do!

Put your head up high, look after yourself and you will end up enjoying your freedom and Independence and people will respect you for what you have achieved. There a tap on the shoulder from me! Good luck...

Answer 5

I have survived without my dad for years. I've spent longer without him and I ever did with him. It hasn't been easy, but you learn to get support from other family members and friends. And sometimes you're friends parents will choose to look after you as you were one of there kids

Answer 6

well from my own experience i dont have my dad around he rufused contact with from young. now i dont even care because i have learnt to survive with out my mum either i just made new friends i have a little boy now and have started a family of my own.

Answer 7

well i think you are grown up and try to live in a appartment with other friends and some dads are sick ,
Or try to get the help from the other family members , be strong and life is hard have to struggle,.

Answer 8

I have thought about what i would do if my dad....
Anyway, i said that i'll go to my uncle, and make an offer to him, stating tha tif he accepts me in to he family and pays for my education then i'll pay him back one day when i'm a neuroseurgeon.

Simple.

Answer 9

you can do it without him.
i know its hard and emotional, but you can.
become something, dedicate your life to something.
have fun with friends, and dont let it get you down.
easier said than done, i know, but still.
do something with your life, become the best at whatever.
he will come running back, and you can throw it back in his face.

Answer 10

If you have friends you should tell them and ask what to do thats what friends are for
or you could ask in school im　sure theres someone who could help you