My sister had a miscarriage and I want to know how to make her feel better.She won't eat or sleep and it's really bothering me.How can I try to make her feel better?Right now she's in the nursery staring at everything she bought for her baby.
2007-06-22 07:01:05 · 21 answers · asked by Keri 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just be there for her.
2007-06-22 07:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Spend some time with her and let her cry on your shoulder.Get some books that tell her how long she has to wait to try for another Baby.If It has only been a few days since her miscarriage she does need to mourn and in her own way.If it has been weeks or Months She needs to get medical help for her depression.Try and get her to have a girls night out just you 2 stay home and rent some funny movies to get her to laugh and some of her favorite confort foods.Good luck.
2007-06-22 14:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that things happen for a reason. God had a plan for her, and right now a baby is not a part of it. She can always have a nother baby when she is ready.Tell her she will survive this, and i will pray for you and your sister.
Try takeing her out, spen time with her. But most of all talk about how she is really feeling. Haveing a miscarage is one of the worst things a woman can go threw. Give her time and she will heal.
2007-06-22 14:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes bad things happen to good people. Tell her she is loved and that although she might never get passed the pain of losing her baby, she needs to look forward to the blessings that are all around and in store for her. Assure her that nothing good will come from "laying down and dying" and that you need her just as much as she needs you. Just give her time to grieve and let her vent to you when she's ready. The last thing you should do is pretend it never happened to get her mind off things. She'll come around when she's ready.
2007-06-22 14:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ellie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way you can make her feel better. This is a loss, and it can be tempered with time. Be there for her, and tell her you care and will listen to her whenever she needs.
I hope she realizes that most women have a miscarriage in their lives and that it by no means reflects on her future fertility. I wish you the best of luck. Your sister is lucky to have you!
2007-06-29 09:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry thats really sad that almost happened to my sister the best thing for her is to get up out of the house dont let her dit there and stare at all the baby stuff.
2007-06-29 19:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her. Listen to her. But try to keep her in that grieving stage. Take her out. Go shopping. Go to the salon. Talk about fun stuff. It is sad, and if I were to have a miscarriage, I'd definitly be sad too. But be there for her, and try to show her the positive side.
2007-06-22 14:15:48 · answer #7 · answered by Jaebaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's going to have to grieve in her own way, and there's nothing you can really do to stop her grieving. Just be a good sister, be there for her when she needs you and encourage her in eating, sleeping, and trying to overcome this. Be someone she can talk to, a shoulder to cry on and just generally be there for her.
2007-06-22 14:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by andrea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well take her out like to lunch or coffee and tell her that this baby needed to go back to God and that one day when its ready it will come back to you! Or you could try and tell her that God thinks that you aren't ready for that baby and will be blessing with one sooner or later! I am so sorry to hear that and my mom went through one and she hated it but then i came along and yes i's call myself a miracle baby lol!
2007-06-22 14:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time can heal a broken heart. She needs to go through her grieving period and there is nothing you can do about this except let her know that you are there for her if she needs you. She will get better with time...
2007-06-22 14:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by Orion777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the worse thing you can do is tell her that she can try and get pregnant again or things like that. She is grieving the loss of this one and just be there for her and grieve with her and listen to her.
2007-06-22 14:05:03 · answer #11 · answered by Lynnae_1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋