My step mom is 8 years older than me. She is 32 and I'm 24.
My dad is over 60 and honestly I don't know why my step mom
got interest in my dad. I believe its because of money.
My dad doesn't know that her wife is cheating on him with
me. I don't believe we are committing incest because she
is not my real mom. We get drunk together, we get high
together and my dad no idea what's going on. So,
is it ok? It's not really bad is it?
I don't want to hurt my dad but I love my step mom like a
woman. I don't want my dad to find out what's going on.
I love my dad but I need hide this secret.
2007-06-22 21:26:54 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2007-06-22 21:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by stevehart53 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is a good situation someone is bound to get hurt. If she is using your dad for money she is probably just using you for sex. End it as soon as possible and maybe it will stay a secret, if your dad has a prenup she will most likely keep quiet about it too. If you are that good in bed you can definetly get a better woman your age who will love you back !Good luck
2007-06-22 21:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by Zena 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Better you stop right now or the future is dark for you and your family. Incest is not necessarily between real mom and son it is in the relation of that as well. Acually if you go by Purana's you have created a handsome burning oil tank for you. So stop right now o be ready to face the consequences.
2007-06-22 21:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Gaps 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude, you guys are adults, so try to keep your pops from seeing or hearing anything about this.
I know you know what can happen if your father finds out; being an old man, no matter how much of a jerk or nice person he could be, is a tough age to be looking for a new girlfriend.
At least act like you dont know anything,
if its for money, are you ok that your father gives her money he could be giving to you to her?
2007-06-22 21:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change both your nickname and your behavior. The fact that you have confessed to this nasty act means you have doubts about it rightness.
If you betray your dad today, your son may betray you tomorrow and you might as well feel like betraying him, banging your step daughter at your old age.
How does that sound? If you still like it go ahead with the Satanic act.
2007-06-22 22:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by Nader Ali 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you are very irresponsible and selfish. Which one are you thinking off really ask yourself that question. You are not thinking at all for your dad. If you are than either come out clean with him or stop this affair. You are afarid of facing the consequences more than hurting your dad. By continuing this you think you are not deceiving and hurting your dad even if he does not know (sound like you are not to be trusted)
If you really love this woman and wants to show you are a man for it than come out clean. Take her to be yours whatever happen. Prove this to yourself and to her. You say you love her than show it without being afraid as you are the man.
If she only appeal to you because she is a love goddess than there others like her even more if you only search. Seriously STOP and you will come out stronger than her (like humans have moments of weakness but are responsible and sensible enough to not continue this meaningless except selfish act as it only serve to hurt others) You will have to be the stronger one and prove what you say that you love your dad.
Either way the choice must be made.
2007-06-22 21:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by soundfamiliar 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, it's not incest, but it's still wrong.
This woman is married to your FATHER.
Considering the age difference, it's not a big surprise that she's cheating, but it's pretty tacky to shack up with your spouse's kids.
Basically, you have three options. Tell your dad, and you and your stepmom can move on with your relationship. Break it off with "mom" and try to move on with your life. Or, keep cheating and wait for your dad to catch you.
good luck.....i guess.
2007-06-22 21:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uhh no that not really right. You know you just completly destroyed any kind of relationship with your dad that you had, right?!?!?! He's not going to forget about somthing like that. If you truly care about your dad, end the wierd thing you have going on with your step mom. Plus do you really want to have sex with the same person your dad has??? That's not really right.... Good luck with whatever you decide.
2007-06-22 21:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you an Indian citizen or not. If not then it might be accepted in your culture.
But if you are an Indian then you are doing wrong at your part. Though she is your step Mom but still she is holding the position of you father's wife. So she is your Mom. Think if your father of any of your relatives come to know about it then where you both will go to hide your face. You will not get place to hide your face in the entire world and you both will never be able to forgive yourself.
This is SIN. Please get out of it before anyone knows about it.
2007-06-22 21:36:16 · answer #9 · answered by pritu2k 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
This woman should be shot. Regardless of relationship by blood or marriage this is totally wrong. If you love your dad you wouldn't sleep with his wife. Your dad will always be there for you while this woman is just a passing phase. Grow up!!!
2007-06-22 21:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Cease the togetherness. You don't want to have sex with your stepmom. Unless your father divorices her.
2016-03-05 12:58:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋