when ever something goes wrong its always my falt! I dont know if i can take it anymore. My story is i grew up in a foster home my whole life and he took me in we have a child together and one all the way. Hes just so hatefull twords me and i have no where to go, no family no money and only one friend but she cant help me she has problems of her own and i dont want to put strees on her. i just need some advice...should i try to work it out or should i go to an batterd womans shelter.
one more thing when ever he gets mad he always tells me to leave because its his house and his mone...and he doesnt even care if i dont have anywhere to go and he makes sure i take our son...i dont want to make him out to be the bad guy he does take care of us but is it worth it? please help...
2007-06-22 14:38:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First get a job. Start saving and when he tells you to leave, at least you'll have something to support your family. He might be able to take your kid unless you prove he is not a fit father.
OR
Try to sit down with him, tell him to talk to you without threats, tell him how you feel and ask him why he's treating you bad, what are his insecurities towards your relationship. Then try to work it out with him. Build a new and stronger foundation with him.
either way you still need to be able to stand on your own.
2007-06-22 14:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by ♥NF♥N♥TY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start planning now. Try to hoard as much money as you can...
Go to a woman's shelter. They can help you there.
And never look back.
2007-06-22 14:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are being abused so terribly why stay?! Go to the state for help, go to the welfare office or to your local village office and find out what you can do, sometimes they have temp shelter for woman and children in your position.
2007-06-22 14:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by krazyinchicago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should dump him!! u dont deserve to be treated like that no one does.. u should havve to put up with his mess, he has a prblem and u shouldnt have to deal with it
2007-06-22 14:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by I_wuv_you! hehe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him hes a jerk..
2007-06-22 14:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋