when i feel like someone is being unfair or mean to me i talk back and it's with people that i really shouldn't talk back to...what should i do?
2007-06-22 15:35:35 · 8 answers · asked by S. S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When I'm in a situation where I should bite my tongue, but REALLY feel the need to say something, I'll usually just say "Yeah, okay... you're right. Whatever" and walk away.
2007-06-22 15:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming the people you should not be talking back to are your parents or authoritative persons. My advice, don't be disrespectful, take all that anger and aggression and write down in a journal or something, bury your face in the pillow and scream all the obscenities you want. Everyone has to vent, but you still have to respect others. Your obviously a good person imo, because you said you know you shouldn't do it. hang in there, it gets better eventually.
2007-06-22 22:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by sammie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny! it happens all the time!
i would recommend....
just sush when anybody is saying somethin mean to u(its very hard to do tat tho)
just leave that place immediately and go somewhere else but dont show any kind of anger or sign tat shows tat u r walking away
drink cold water (it works coz it cools down ur rushing and boiling blood)
say sorry abt disrupting u but i just remembered tat i got to do chores/homework/prepare the file for the office tommorrow
or say i just rememberd to make a phone call abt somethin very urgent (school/office)
^all those things listed above are just to avoid the suitation by backing off.......hunny it doesn't make anyone smaller or less valuable by saying i m sorry or just by being keep quiet
2007-06-22 22:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by Daisy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and walk away to calm yourself down. You can return and talk to these people in a rational, mature way. If you can't walk away or anything like that, just nod at them and do whatever it is you need to do. You'll have to pick your battles.
2007-06-22 22:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by Quonx. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel u but if they really upset u and dont want them to do it again and will respect u then do it once just to let them know u will not be disrespected or else u will always be treated unfair in life if your not strong i should know iam a target on my mom side but i make them shut up and let them know it needs to stop iam not the problem its them
2007-06-23 18:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by dvcgurl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and TRY to understand their point of view, think about it.If nothing else, tell them to stop and let you think about what they said for a while.Reason it out and be honest with yourself and if you are being done wrong tell them why you think so.
2007-06-22 22:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you definitely need to talk back. Otherwise, people are just going to continue to step on you.
2007-06-22 22:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by johnny suede 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
jus say nothing or petend they r singing, or a simple"uh" or"orh"
2007-06-22 22:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋