my parents ALWAYS yell, find things wrong with me and DESTROY my confidence and ANYTIME i try to have a nice reasonable talk they say quit overreacting or should we put you in counseling? and i literally HAVE to be perfect...anytime i get something for about 4 months they'll say didn't i JUST get you that how could you even ask for something else...my younger sister is treated like an angel...it makes me cry and feel bad i'm only going to be a sophmore..WHAT DO I DO??? PLEASE HELP!!
thank you!
GO YANKEES
27 in 07!
2007-06-21 14:25:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well thanks......anyway i guess...bosox fans try to put your feelings to the side and help this yankee fan!
2007-06-21 14:29:41 · update #1
aww lmnchcgfl2000 i'm sorry...i'm glad u exsist!
2007-06-21 14:34:09 · update #2
my sis is 8 and lives to hate me...
2007-06-21 14:44:23 · update #3
My god! Why can't some people put their feelings about teams aside just for a minute & help this girl out? Having said that Don't let it mess u up. I know how u feel. When i was small my parents would act the same way while my younger brother got away with murder. I'm sure ur parents don't mean by it but they unintentionally are hurting u b/c of how they treat u while they treat ur baby sister as if shes perfect. try & have a talk with them & let them know how u feem without fighting with them. Don't let it destroy ur confidence. If u ever need someone to tak to u can email me ok? Take care & i hope u feel beter
2007-06-21 17:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by Scooter_loves_his_dad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
Why don't you talk to your sister? Is she aware of how you are feeling? Maybe if she talks to your parents, she can help them see that you aren't overreacting. If that's not happening for you then why don't you write your parents a note? Also, when you talk to them do you use the words "you" at the beginning of a sentence (like "you yell at me all the time") and "always"? Some parents dislike those two words and think that their kid is overreacting. So try to say something like, "I don't like it when you ______. I feel as if you are always doing it. It makes me feel __________." You know, just tell them how you feel and when they say you are overreacting, don't argue-just kinda ignore it and move on. If they put you in counseling, you shouldn't worry about it-tell the counselor your story that you've been trying to get through to your parents and then the counselor will tell your parents and your parents will know that you aren't lying then b/c obviously the counselor believed it if he/she is telling your parents.
Hang in there-you just have a few more years till you're off on your own. For now, do your best to work with your parents until you can move out.
'Hope I helped!
2007-06-21 21:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok, first of all, GO REDSOX!!!!!!
but thats not the point.
It sounds like you need to tell your parents or someone that you trust that you feel like they are destroying all of your self confidence. and tell them how you feel about your little sister. I know exactly what you mean by the "didnt we just get you that thing", I hear that to. just say that If it was four months ago, you would accept that answer and walk off. I wish I could give you more advice but I need more details to help more, you can Email me at twixmix180@yahoo.com if you need more help.
good luck!
2007-06-21 21:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by bored1800 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm the third child in my family.
When I was in health class my teacher said I ruined the lives of my brother and sister just by being born.
Maybe I should just move away and never look back. Make it as though I never existed.
2007-06-21 21:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by lmnchcgfl2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your sister needs to get older, she'll understand.
until then, just chill out by yourself.
go to counseling , tell the counselor what's happening at home,
and how you don't get enough attention.
tell your parents that you WANT to go to counseling.
watch little miss sunshine, its the best movie.
2007-06-21 22:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wudda helped but the yankees suck, so sorry, you missed out.
2007-06-21 21:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋