When I was 30 my mum called me on the phone and needed to tell me that my father actually wasn't really my father, that it was another man. And that was a huge surprise to me. I never knew or had an inkling that my father wasn't my biological father? What has been the biggest surprise in your life so far?
2007-06-21 11:02:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When my Grandpa died in April, my aunt (with permission from my grandma) read two very loving a sweet poems he had written to my grandma when they were dating, back in the 1950s. I never knew this side of my grandpa and I am so grateful that I no know that part of him. This wont be a very exciting story for you, but it was a huge shocker to those who knew him and loved him. The man I knew was a hard working straight and narrow guy. To the point, all business. This sensitive side was not one that I had seen. In fact, my Grandpa finally told me that he loved me back when I was already out of HS, after I had told him I loved him for over 20 years of my life. (His previous response had been "you too.") Anyhow. I loved my grandpa very much and this is somwthing that was a shocking surprise to me and I am so happy about it!
I hope everything has workd out for you in your life, and with your surprise. I can't imagine how your Mom must've felt all of these years wanting to tell you but not knowing if she could or should.
Have a wonderful life with the man who you have always known as "Dad". I'll bet he was as real of a dad as anyone could've been to you anyhow. :O)
2007-06-21 11:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Noodle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
March 2 - after 10 years of marriage, I found out my wife was having an emotional affair with a man from New Hampshire.
2007-06-21 11:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by Scott O 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
After some years and four surgeries I had reached the element while the docs reported that i might desire to by no potential get pregnant - think of my ask your self quite a few years later as quickly as I have been given ill and that they ultimately found out what replaced into incorrect - yep my son arrived some months later.
2016-12-08 15:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learning at 19 that I carried a genetic disorder called fragile X syndrome. I had a 50% chance of passing it down. And I did 2x :(.
2007-06-21 11:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That life and most humans are evil, im amazed at how much people who have money, authority or color on their side can fool people. Also human connect, hatred consumes fathers mothers.
2007-06-21 11:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
going for my first scan thinking i was only around 2 months pregnant,then finding out i was actually 6 then bigger still having my son just 2 weeks later weighing only 2lb 2oz,talk about shock to the system!
2007-06-21 12:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm..... lets see when I was 9 my mom anounced she wasnt going to try for any more kids and a couple of weeks later she announced she was pregnant.
2007-06-21 11:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by codie golfs alot!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving birth to a 12lb 6oz baby naturally.
2007-06-21 11:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa T 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if it's the biggest but.
until i was about 16 i was convinced that all adults were right and once you turned 18 you couldn't do anything wrong. dumb me.
2007-06-21 11:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
my biggest suprise in life was giving birth to my little boy with out pain relief.
2007-06-22 07:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by kinkyze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋