ask for forgivness
2007-06-21 11:24:39
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Why is everyone sick of you? I don't know whats going on but Move away and start a new life on your own, it'll be good for you, to start new, you will feel better. It's not worth it to cry or to die, show everyone that you will do fine on your own, because one day, especially your family, will regret it. So have a good life and I wish you all the best.
2007-06-21 18:39:11
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answer #2
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answered by Red_Rose 5
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Moving: you will have the same problems where ever you go.
Dieing? Come on! Is it really that bad? Nothing is worth that!
Cry: Cry for a few minutes and then pick yourself up and take charge of your life!
How about doing some self evaluation. Why are they sick of you? What part of your personality is causing them to feel this way? If you don't know, try asking them. They will tell you if you are really serious about change.
Work on changing. Don't do it for them. Do it for you! You will feel much better about yourself once you do!
Good Luck!
2007-06-21 18:28:49
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answer #3
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answered by Laura H 3
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Are they sick of YOU or just some actions that you do? Because if you're on drugs or drinking to excess, then people would say they're sick of you doing those things. Then if you found a way to quit or slow down, then they'd like hanging out with you. Or are you rude and angry all the time? In which case you could just find positive things to say to them, leaving the negativity out.
There are ways to alter your behavior in front of others while still being yourself. You just learn to censor what you say in front of certain people at times. This is normal.
I wouldn't think about moving away or dying, but you might cry about it for a little bit. Find one of those in your life who you trust the most and ask them why it is that they feel this way. Then work on things one day at at time.
2007-06-21 18:26:11
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answer #4
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answered by Anonymous
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Look at what is making you think they are sick of you. If they are sick of you talking to them about something, stop talking to them. If they are sick of questions, stop talking to them. if they are sick of the sight of you, go make some other friends and don't see them.
There is no reason you should move, or die, or really even cry because your family is not putting up with you. Make new friends. Talk to a counselor.
Me, I talk to myself -- best friend I have, and rarely do I put myself down or things like that.
2007-06-21 18:30:56
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answer #5
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answered by mj69catz 6
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Don't die; you can cry if you want to. Get over I'll bet the temporary emotional break down this person is having & spend the weekend camping & come back & feel better. The feeling you are having is one that I feel sometimes, but it goes away. You just have to run it out of your system & move on.
2007-06-21 18:26:13
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answer #6
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answered by stepss1 3
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I could say that I have felt that way before, just like you, but saying that, in a way, can never be in truth because I am not you and no one can know how someone truly feels. All we can do is relate.
Relating to people is important because if there is something common between two or more people, thats when it becomes a relationship.
At this moment in time, you probably feel like you can't relate to people, or that they cannot relate to you, which in turn makes you believe that they are "sick" of you, when in fact, they are really just having a difficult time of understanding you (or you are having a really difficult time understanding them).
Not everyone can relate to each other at any given time.
The trick is to understand and accept that just because you feel like people in your life might have "had it" with you, you must stay strong and realize that with mistakes comes forgiveness and with forgiveness comes reconciliation and eventually, two or more people can find a way to relate to each other once again.
Time does heal. It might not feel like it now, but trust me, by experience and by a majority of listening to other peoples experiences, in time, wounds heal, people forgive, people learn to accept and people once again learn to love and appreciate.
So my advice, is if you are feeling depressed and down about it, find someone you can talk to about it, open up a bit, and if you are confronted with hostility, just give people time and space.
Do what you need to do to get by, keep up your responsibilities and keep on living!
Crying is also a good form of release, because your emotions are so strong, so tense.
Moving away is not always the best option; to move away is - to run away. If you are being harmed physically or emotionally though, seek help and yes, get away from imminent danger, but if it's just that depression that's making you feel like moving away - remember instead of running, get help.
Example: You see a someone hurt on the side of the road - You are scared, you are nervous and you feel like there is nothing you can do, so you call 911. You get help. You can't fix everything but you helped.
Moral is, get help. If you feel like there is nothing left you can do or you are confused about what to do - All you have to do is say "I need help." And most people will admire your honesty and do their best to help you, believe me.
Stay strong. You are a good person. You are worth it =)
2007-06-21 18:43:49
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answer #7
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answered by xapryl 2
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Talk with them without getting defensive and see what the problem is. I say without getting defensive because if you do it only builds walls, and makes matters worse. Learn what the problems are openly. Then learn to discuss not yell as to what is wrong and maybe why. Tough thing to learn, and sometimes tough thing to realize and work through, but yes we all go through it. Communication, open, and calm communication is the key. Kids do not always see the reasons or why's for parents concern, and parents do not always see or understand the child's reasonings and concerns.Being a dad my advice is to start with mom, they are better than we are and can explain to dad. Hang in there all will be alright, and remember many of us have gone through this and survived you can to. Believe me when I say parent do love their children, been through it with mine, communication is the answer. Hope it all works out, just don't give up.
2007-06-21 18:32:12
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answer #8
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answered by Pengy 7
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move away? maybe. Cry? for sure. Die? no.
If everyone is sick of you that is a pretty good sign that you need to make some serious adjustments with who you are/how you behave/how you are coming across. Ask them what it is specifically that they are sick of. They may have some good insights about you that you didn't realize.
2007-06-21 18:26:58
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answer #9
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answered by babydoll 1
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It is your choice on how you view your situation. You can rise above and do absolutely anything you set your mind to. Or, you can choose to be a victim and stay in the cycle you are in now. Whatever the cause, whatever the reasons it is you who can change it. Stop focusing on what other people are doing, liking, demanding, in your face about....and focus on how you can change the situation. Once you have shifted your focus to a more positive outlook and concentrate on what it is you want, better and wonderful things will happen. You are in control of your own destiny - remember life is not a dress rehersal........*smiles*
2007-06-21 19:11:43
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answer #10
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answered by kelstar 5
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that's a little vague. what makes you think people are sick of you? if that's really the case, move on. who cares what they think? you don't die. you may cry some but then you get on with your life.
2007-06-21 18:25:26
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answer #11
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answered by racer 51 7
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