Family & Relationships - 14 September 2007

As far as i know i have lots i have many times serious realtionship girl... But sum how it comes to end .. i thought it happends bcuz of my nature..

i know i am grumpy , stubborn and short temper.. sum times i shout or yelling on them.. but to be very honest there is nothing inside in my heart ...

it just happen for few mintues when this things came out i am become calm n cool....

but girls they never understand me ... they think that i am weirdo or strange kind of character..

2007-09-14 22:47:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ladies, when you visit for the 1st time the flat/room of a man (that you date or intend to...) what do you expect from his place? Please be specific in what you like and what you don't like. Thank you

2007-09-14 22:44:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know i am her friend, so no one better than me to decide, right? And i do know what she likes, so i can base it off that, but i also want to ask for some opinions. She really wanted to adopt a star, but i checked into that and hear its basically only a big scam. I thought that would have been a kind of "cute" present for her though because of how badly she wanted it, and it was just a dorky thing to do.

Shes turning seventeen, and im wanting to get her something pretty good. And no, i cant afford her a car haha but i was thinking of an ipod but thats so simple and ordinary. I want something that will make her go aw, or just laugh at how dorky it is, kind of like that star thing, but actually be a cool present. Someone please help me out with this! We are just friends by the way, so i dont want anything too flirty

2007-09-14 22:43:56 · 2 answers · asked by J o b o 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

a friend of mine told me about some things that happened when she was young
she is trying to say oh but it was nothing not abuse i disagree
what do you think?
there is 8 years between her and her brother and she can remember things happening when she was around 3 and up till she was around 5
she said that he would wash her in the bath and slide his finger inside she remembers it hurting even now she is almost 40
she also remembers being in bed and him trying to get her to do things and him touching her and the worst thing i think that has affected her because she has a weight problem is him bribing her to do things with food like saying heres a lovley cake you can have it if you do or let me do this
she has convinced herslf that it was nothing just kids stuff and she dearly loves her brother but i think she needs help to come to terms with this and as she still remembers and thinks about it she says it was only a few times and that it was not abuse as she was never raped

2007-09-14 22:41:29 · 34 answers · asked by alfiegirl 2 in Family

Stop and think for a minute, why do you think this is happening, is there a win win answer to this?

2007-09-14 21:54:45 · 12 answers · asked by BFCP 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Last Monday..

while watching tv i sat near my gf and stripped her...but when i touched her breasts she bcame very angry...
I'm very sad to have depressed her...


TO GIRLS...

Is dere any problem in doin so ??

How would u feel if u had such an experience ???

2007-09-14 21:44:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

know that you will never be able to let go of yourself completely and love that way again?

2007-09-14 21:43:10 · 12 answers · asked by Soundproof 6 in Singles & Dating

I fathered a child with this woman years ago and every month she wants more and more money. I mean the shag wasn't even that good love. When is it ok to stop given her my money?

2007-09-14 21:42:49 · 8 answers · asked by LUDWIG WITTGENSTEIN 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im meeting my date's parents tomorrow on our way to our first date, i am 16 years old. I need any advice you could think of and that would help SOOO MUCH!!! thanks alot

~Mark Chang

2007-09-14 21:40:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, i've had no help with this from my friends, so it's all up to you guys!
Theres this guy that i really like, and we had something a few years ago, but i stuffed it up, and now i really like him and me being me, texted him confessing my feelings, and he says that he's not sure, he just doesnt want to be in a relationship with anyone at the moment. What does that mean? that he's being nice by saying that he doesnt like me? Or what?

2007-09-14 21:36:19 · 13 answers · asked by Me 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are about to move into our own place tomorrow. The problem is that for two weeks he's told my friend that we're going to use her friends truck to move. We've set up pickup times and everything. Not even a few hours ago he told her where to meet us at. Then, a couple hours later, he tells me that he doesn't want to use the truck anymore. When I asked him why, he says that he doesn't want to pay her and her friend anything, even though they asked for nothing, and that it would be cheaper to use a rental; which is a) not true and b) IMO selfish, especially when I told him how I felt about it, and he said "f***k what [I'm] talking about."

Now, aside from all of that, I want to know if I am right in feeling that he has no etiquette, and therefore wrong because he made all these plans and canceled at the very last minute, or am I overreacting and I should just submit to whatever he wants to do?

2007-09-14 21:34:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife had an emotional affair (no sex)with her happily married classmate but he checked her advances by cutting off the relation.I found her unsent love letter and confronted her.She said it was only a crush and that she never really wanted to divorce me and all that crap.We have two wonderful kids who we love very much.We are living seperately for the last 2 years and my kids are with her now though I can visit them anytime. She refuses to come and live with me ,her parents also want to end this relation.She is sometimes sorry for her affair,but is nagging me a lot.I simply don't know whether she loves me or hates me as she is so passionate either way.But she says she will not live with me or give me divorce unless I deposit some money for the kids.Surprisingly,she has more money than I do.She comes up with a new condition,like I should cut off seeing my mother and brother who gave me a second life by doling out some of their money.How to deal with this deceiving domineering wife?

2007-09-14 21:33:04 · 14 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 31 and have 2 kids, 11 and 8. My little sister is turning 17 tomorrow and I have no idea what to get her for her birthday. I'm not up on the latest high school trends, so I don't want to buy something she won't use. Is cash a good idea? If so, how much?

2007-09-14 21:28:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok well my bf and i have been together since August 2005 which is alil over 2 years.

ok well things have been pretty good but the last year things havent been as good. we fight more and its about dumb things. we have talked about breaking up but havent. well anyways..here is the story..

i had my wisdom teeth pulled out and he had come after work and he was nice and stuff, brought me a little stuffed cat, a card, and a rose. well he said he would stay til midnight and i was happy about that. so i fell asleep and when i woke up at 11 he was gone. i called him and asked why he left and he started changing his stories. 1st is was cuz he said he was going to leave at 11 (not true) then he said its cuz he told his mom he would leave at 11 (he is 22, and his parents hate me) well i got upset and was totally ready to break up with him so i did and he came over at like 2am and all he did was start a fight with me while i was in pain. i told him a boyfriend wouldnt have left. am i wrong?

2007-09-14 21:27:24 · 6 answers · asked by litlmizbeautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is not talking to me,doesnt wana hang around with me....he's more interested in his friends than his wife.he wasn't like this before marriage thou!!!do people really change after marriage or he the only one changed?????i really dont know wot to do!!!!

2007-09-14 21:23:33 · 8 answers · asked by isha o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

dumb question but should a couple:

husband/wife

boyfriend/gf

buy one gift w/ both names on it or two gifts w/ each of their names on it?

okay,

what if both people are in the wedding (as bridemaids, groomsmen) then how does the gift thing work, lol....thanks!

2007-09-14 21:21:03 · 20 answers · asked by camillabrightside 4 in Weddings

for example if you just get married, but you have never been in a relationship or with anyone, and don't have any experience, will that marriage last?

2007-09-14 21:15:00 · 9 answers · asked by Cupcake.....:) 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been with this girl that i really love for a year now. ive been in the army for nine months and i have three months left. i miss her so much. But when ever i come out to see her, all we do is argue! she keeps bringing my past into the relationship. like my ex girlfriends and all the girls ive slept with. all i want to do is be happy with her and have a good time that i have with her. what do i say to her when she brings my past up so we dont argue. because i think it might end our relationship.

2007-09-14 21:14:48 · 4 answers · asked by Kem 1 in Singles & Dating

.. Does he love me?

I mean I prepare little gifts etc for him all the time, and for my b-day etc he will at the last min basically get his mom to pick somethings up. He says cause he is lazy, but he does love me etc.. whats up with this?!?

2007-09-14 21:10:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been married 4 five yrs, recently i found out that my hubby has been cheating on me for almost 1yrs. i used to scroll his phone and find this particular number. so one day it rung and he refused to answer it, i decided to answer. it was a female voice when i sai hullo she switched off the phone i asked my hubby who was the owner of this phone no_he told me it was for one of his male friends i insisted then he told me it was for the friends wife i went met his friend and asked him what business was his wife having with my hubby but instend the friend did not know about his wife calling my hubby late in the night so we organise to meet his wife she came but denied the affair and said that my hubby was just her friend. i tried to ask my hubby again but this time he was very tuff and he told me not to ask him nosense. i have even gone to his sisters to ask them for advise but all in vain the only advise me to ignore him.please advise me thax in advance.

2007-09-14 21:05:26 · 7 answers · asked by halicate 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm currently in a state of mild depression, I've already gone through a bad depression 3 years ago. I'm in Australia but I'm Italian, I don't have any friends here apart from my housemates, that are all part of my boyfriend's family.
Now, I know that being around someone in my state isn't easy or fun, but yesterday he told me this: "It's frustrating seeing you like this, it makes me really angry, it makes me livid. Sometimes I think you're just taking the piss". And this after I had another crying attack, which I'm not proud of but that I really can't control.

Now, I already feel quite lonely and isolated sometimes (I've been here for 8 months) but last night I really felt helpless, as if I really didn't know what to say or do.

He loves me, he really does, and I understand that it's hard for him to see this part of me. But sometimes the things he says make me feel even guiltier for being like this, or he uses sarcasm and ridiculises what I'm feeling.

What should I do?

2007-09-14 20:52:43 · 15 answers · asked by Steghetta 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When it comes to using men, they operate like a double agent. It's just reprehensible, yet they simply don't care. What gives?

2007-09-14 20:45:38 · 10 answers · asked by What? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was on a date with my female friend at a restarant..she kept asking me if I wanted to try what she was eating..she seemed to comfortable on me using her spoon and fork. Is that a good sign?
Also, when I was driving her home, she tickled me in the car then I tickled her back. She tried to tickle me again and I was acting like it didn't tickle (holding it in) She said, aww your holding it in" Was she upset that I wasn't showing that it was tickling me? or did she think it was cute that I was trying to hold it in? Should I tickel her the next time I see her because she seems to be open on tickling

2007-09-14 20:45:37 · 7 answers · asked by ee 1 in Friends

2007-09-14 20:38:48 · 10 answers · asked by Chathura P 1 in Singles & Dating

i have found a cute,intelligent n studious guy in my class.i think i love him.i proposed him.he said he also feels same for me.but he can't say I LOVE U.bcoz he thinks anyone cant say what will happen in future.n he thinks he doesn't have bright future.so it will be better if i leave him.he said,if by chance in future we seperate from each other, he can't see my pains.so he told me that we should be just friends.

2007-09-14 20:27:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 20:04:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

The reason for this is because there was some hearsay about him still being married to this woman...even though we have been living together for the pass 3 years and was dating 3 years. He did tell me when i met him that they were divorce. however some suspicious **** has been going on with his baby momma and his 14 year old daughter. rather not go into detail but.. is there a way i can obtain marriage records to protect.. actually we talked about marriage in the pass, but having so many financial problems couldnt quite get around to it.

2007-09-14 20:03:44 · 4 answers · asked by tekellamorrow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the guy I like ( he somehow likes me too ) ..very handsome , smart , gentelman ..and the list go on , a guy like that , there would be alots of girls chasing after him ( cause he is really a charming guy ) what can I do to stand out in his list of girls .to not be just another girl and dont do the same things other girls do to him .. ??

2007-09-14 19:59:22 · 1 answers · asked by Music 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am fifteen, my gf lives 35 minutes away, she has a ride to the beach to meet me, but no ride back. I can't take her home because she lives too far away. any ideas?

2007-09-14 19:57:09 · 6 answers · asked by Jason B 2 in Singles & Dating

My step father was already caught cheating on my mom three times and my mom got pissed off . I lost my respect for him actually I didn't respect him at all . She found out that he did this and avoided talking to him for weeks . But then he gives this f u c k i ng dumba s s another chance . What the hell is wrong with her? This guy keeps on telling me to save water when washing the dishes and I do to the point where a lot of water doesn't even come out and I ask myself " He's probably saving up money for his other wife " . I'm having trouble , I just don't want this guy in my life anymore . He is so proud of himself , his pride is always something he has to protect . His version of fatherhood is tyranny , I miss my real dad he treats me with a respect that a son deserves . What do I do?? My mom is just falling for the same damn trick!??!?!?!?!?

2007-09-14 19:57:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce