i think that there is no girl who can understand me.. i bet there is no girl in this world except my mom.?

Question

As far as i know i have lots i have many times serious realtionship girl... But sum how it comes to end .. i thought it happends bcuz of my nature..

i know i am grumpy , stubborn and short temper.. sum times i shout or yelling on them.. but to be very honest there is nothing inside in my heart ...

it just happen for few mintues when this things came out i am become calm n cool....

but girls they never understand me ... they think that i am weirdo or strange kind of character..

Answer 1

You're just going through a tough period in your life right now. Don't concentrate on finding a girlfriend. Enjoy being young, and love will follow.

Answer 2

You should ask yourself why are you grumpy, why are you stubborn and have a short temper.. You must be unhappy with yourself.. You should try and change, people don't like being shouted at, you should try to stay calm.. Sometimes if you say harsh things people don't forget, and you would even remember saying them, it can be scary. If you are looking for a relationship then i think you have to change in yourself. Maybe you are hurting or someone has hurt you, it seems you find it hard to trust, its understandable, but you have to ask yourself why.. Good luck

Answer 3

When you become mature, you will learn to control that nasty temper. You will learn to compromise, and you will learn that just because you are grumpy does not mean that you have to take it out on others. If you don't make an effort to do all of this, you will never be happy in a relationship. You can sit back and say that it is just you, and there is nothing you can do about it if you want. The truth of the matter is that you need to grow up and take responsibility for your own actions. Adults have learned to control those negative actions. Just because you are older, does not make you wiser. Some people call themselves adults, but act like spoiled rotten kids. They will never be completely happy with themselves and their life. They will just blame anything else for their actions. You need to own your faults and to try to change them in order to make yourself a respected human being.

I recently dated a guy that was everything I could have asked for, except that he acted just as you describe. He said that he loved me dearly, but I could not respect him. I felt like I was dealing with a teenager instead of a man. I felt bad, but I broke his heart. He says that he is working on his problems now, and I admire him for it, but that should have happened when he was in his teens and twenties, not later on in life. He wasted so much of his life being unhappy and you will to if you don't do anything about it.

By the way, a mother's love is unconditional. She may not like the way you act, but she loves you despite it. You are her child. No one else will love you like that.

Answer 4

how come u say that the girls dont understand you. The understand you very well and thats why they leave you, because,as your yourself said you def write and sound like a weirdo. no one can help u. you are beyond redemption

Answer 5

may b they cant understand u.and as i am a girl i would like 2 tell u something tht isgirls r more sensitive than boys did u get it.try 2 deal it carefully

Answer 6

Go to anger management or forget ever finding anyone. You cannot act like a child and start screaming whenever you don't get your way.

Answer 7

True. There is nobody like mother. Even then you shall have to marry with a girl and adjust.

Answer 8

u will surely get your kinda girl.wait for some time.u r not strange......there r people who r short temperted n stubborn.every one cannot be calm all the time.

Answer 9

Try to become calm and cool guy.

Answer 10

They understand you just fine, just get your mom to arrange marry you like usual.