Family & Relationships - 14 September 2007

Why is it when you treat a guy really good, He ends up screwing you over it's happened to me a lot lately. My last bfeven said I treated him batter than all of his ex girlfriends but he ended up hitting on my best friend while I was under the same roof...mostly I wind up getting cheated on....I've never cheated on any guy before in my life in I'm never going to. But I'm tried of being THE Nice girl who they mess with just for the fun of it.
I mean do you guys like girls who cheat on you in treat you bad? Cause I'm really starting to wounder.

I'm 17, 5'3. I have brown curly hair, hazel eyes, In I weigh 105 I am also curvy....IS there something wrong with that I need to changed. I'm also still a Virgin which I'm trying to stay true at least till I graduate, So No I'm not easy!

I've been told I'm fun to be around and I have a good pleasantly all by guys...yet the **** me over in the long hall...IS it something I'm doing? I mean do I need to start being a *****? To guys?

2007-09-14 12:03:10 · 9 answers · asked by Sara D 3 in Singles & Dating

whats your most embarrasing moment

2007-09-14 12:02:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend is home for the weekend from college the same weekend that I am home. The last time I was home I hung out with her!

I tried to call her 3 times today to see if she wanted to hang out and catch a movie before 9. She never picked up and i left her 3 voice mails!

I'm staying at my boyfriends tonight and tomorrow night hence the reason I asked to see her before nine. She FINALLY called me back at 6:00 P.M. and asked if we could hang out at 8. I explained to her how I tried to call her and how I'm seeing my boyfriend!

She got VERY ANGRY and told me I could just spend tomorrow with him and how she was insulted that I wasn't spending time with her and How I wouldn't be able to see her again until the beginning of October!

WHY IS SHE GETTING SO UPSET??

2007-09-14 12:02:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Isnt it important to have a positive mental, physical and spiritual side like in the beginning of the relationship?
My wife has turned into a hog and a moron within 3 years of our marriage! Whats up with that? WORD UP

2007-09-14 12:02:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, my "department" at work is two but really one. (Complicated) Anyway, I planned on inviting just the people that work on my side of the department, that I know better. The problem is, ALL of them are probably going to get me gifts or throw me a shower at work. They are just those kinds of people that love to have parties and stuff. So there's a 90% chance that people who I didn't plan on inviting will get me a gift. I really was trying to keep the guest list down! What do I do?

2007-09-14 12:01:15 · 9 answers · asked by BlackDahlia 5 in Weddings

People still get married at Easter; But the practice of marrying at Christmas seems to have died out.

Several of my ancestors married on Christmas Day

2007-09-14 11:59:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I reeli lyk this guy, we hav been reeli guiis friends 4 sum tym nuw, and get on reeli well whn in eachuthas company! We r reeli flirty when 2getha and can tok 2 eachotha buwt anithing! I reeli lyk him and think he feels the same way, we wurk 2getha and he woks me home everynyt, even tho its miles away from his house! Shud I make the 1st move or him? im scared incase he doesnt feel the same way! help!!! i reeli lyk him...

2007-09-14 11:56:10 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in late high school, I'm fairly social, and I have a decent number of friends.

However, I never really go to parties or anything. I spend too much time alone instead of with friends, and the reason is that I'm not comfortable pushing my boundaries; I'd like to go to parties and such, but I'm just afraid of whatever it is might happen/go wrong. Not to get all angsty, but I'm just a self-conscious person.

Anyway, I'd like to go to this party, and I'd probably enjoy myself. But picturing the walk there, the experience of going in the front door and being in an unfamiliar place, is a little intimidating. I went to a party a while ago and left pretty quickly after getting afraid, and intimidated.

I can almost see myself as an old dying man wishing I had done more fun stuff and hadn't wasted all my time, when I could have been doing stuff. But I still don't want to push myself and wind up making an *** out of myself.

Anyone else been in a similar situation/got advice?

2007-09-14 11:56:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I become super turned on if an attractive woman starts groping my face or gives my cheeks a playful tug.. I don't know why that is..but the few times that has happened, let's say I "pitched a tent" right away! I don't know if most guys share this reaction when a woman does this to them.

2007-09-14 11:52:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After 24 years of marriage my wife left. Said that she didn't love me anymore and wanted her freedom. I was devastated. To keep busy, I dating casually, telling all who I dated that I just wanted a casual relationship and that I still loved my wife. I dated "Mary" for 6 month but our feelings started to get stronger and since I still wanted my wife, we ended our relationship on great terms. A year later my wife filed for divorce & my feelings for her dwindled and Mary came back in to my life. I was thrilled. I fell in love with Mary and treated her like a queen. 11 months later she left me for someone else. Now after 3 1/2 years my wife wants me back saying she made a big mistake leaving me. I don't love her and I very much love Mary. My wife neglected me most of our marriage and I found out how nice other women are. I want Mary back Although I know she is just a player, I love her. Don't know what I've done to deserve all the hurt I've they have both given me. Thanks.

2007-09-14 11:52:23 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My once best friend went through a tough time with her parents divorcing. I tried to help her get through it the best I could but in the end she began to become controlling and eventually began to blame me for things I didn't do.

I along with some others decided it'd be best to leave her alone for a while so we wouldn't get into any other messes she started, but soon when school started again we heard she'd been getting worse. She got drunk at a party people were telling her not to drink at then when her parents found out she blamed them and got them in trouble. She's also letter herself become controlled by some guy she only met a few months ago and won't listen to anything we say.

I don't know what to do about her anymore, but I do want to help in some way. Do you have any advice on how to handle this situation?

2007-09-14 11:51:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wife eats bad chinese, pizza, sweets etc... 24/7
She also now belches and farts, not girly farts with a cute giggle, but the sound of a fog horn. She has put on 40lbs and is acting like skank! What should I do!
About ready to send her packing back to the old trailer park!

2007-09-14 11:50:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay...I'm 22 years old, and I'm just getting back from Iraq. When I get back, I plan to get together with a girl I use to work with before I joined the service. I knew her for about a year, and then I left. I haven't seen her in about 3 years...but we've been chatting quite frequently. Anyway, she seems really experienced, judging by her blogs...she is pretty excited that I'm coming back. I don't even know if anything is going to happen between her and I...but if it does, I think I'm doomed. I'm a virgin, and I'm wondering if I should let her know before the "relationship" goes any further, or even starts. I want to tell her, but again, she seems more experienced and would probably not be interested in me then. What should I do?

2007-09-14 11:45:07 · 24 answers · asked by PianoMan 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive had some sex experience and Im 18, but no matter how many time me & my man have sex, I cant seem to have an orgasm. Ive tried the positions and extercises in cosmo, but they dont seem to work!! What are some ideas that can help me. ????

2007-09-14 11:36:22 · 6 answers · asked by Aness 2 in Singles & Dating

have no family here and no friends just aquances. family lives 650 miles away. have 2 kids.

2007-09-14 11:34:35 · 10 answers · asked by babyherc1r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Most people I know have a lot of drama in their relationships, which baffles me in my 30's. Is it the excitement and heightened emotions? What is it? I am very laid back and very little gets to me. I feel boring in comparison. I think people should be free to be themselves and if you click, great. If not, move on. Life isn't that serious, so what is up with all the drama, seriously? I see it all the time. Fights out of nothing, crazy insecurities...you name it. Is it just our society today? I am really curious.

2007-09-14 11:30:33 · 1 answers · asked by shoegal0675 2 in Singles & Dating

Is Love Evil? Or a drug?
Question Details: If Love makes a 50 year old virgin feel down cause he has no one and commits suicide..is that not evil?
If a girl falls in love with a killer is that not evil?
If a player uses words of love to get laid is that not evil?
If a girl commits suicide cause she feels the absence of love..is that evil?

2007-09-14 11:30:12 · 3 answers · asked by Lone Knight 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is in the marines. I met him threw my older brother because they were stationed togeather. Well me and him been going out for 5 months now. I fell in love with him so fast because of we have alot in common and in fact hes the one who said he loved me first. I never really felt this way about a guy and never thought i could fall in love so fast and have love for someone this much in 5 months. Hes comming to visit me in a month because hes stationed out out of the country and is stayin with me for 5 days and is going back for another 2 years. I would go and visit him but u have a huge fear of flying. I think about this every night on whats gonna happen with me and him because i wont be able to see him for 2 years and hes 3 years older then me and it really hurts because i love him so much...I just need an opinon on what to do or advice on that. Because im really hurting from thinking about that

2007-09-14 11:23:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This will be our first baby. But she has been more aggressive and a little more passionate.

Is it hormones or is she just turned on that she is pregnant (We been waiting since we where 7LOL).

2007-09-14 11:19:20 · 12 answers · asked by Blackman married to Redhead 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Since i've had my two daughters im not so sexually active...is there something wrong with me? Do having kids do this to you. I could seriously go with out it......whats wrong with me

2007-09-14 11:15:44 · 5 answers · asked by *~* Amber *~* 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 11:15:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, he died of cancer and it was September like these days and it happened in 22 days, it had the kind that expands really rapidly, and it was quite a shock to me. So apart from the funeral, I never have been in his grave, I guess I denied the fact he's dead and secretly telling myself 'he's in a trip'. Sometimes he was really mean spirited and abusive verbally and physically but the last month before he was diagnosed, we spent a month together in the summer and we have worked out our issues and I realized how much he meant to me. There are times i really miss him and have these dreams that nothing has changed but when I wake up, everything is changed. For the first time I want to go to his grave, but I'm afraid I will be shattered. I tried to be strong for so long. Seems now I have to let go and accept that void. I wish i knew what to do. I am afraid that if I go there again all my anger about the past will surface again and my anger that he died so quickly. it's strange...

2007-09-14 11:09:47 · 26 answers · asked by sarah kay 5 in Marriage & Divorce

basically. how do you rationalize with a complete fool? everything they say is nonsensical, immature, and just silly? but you ahve to deal with them daily... what do you do?

2007-09-14 11:07:54 · 11 answers · asked by just bees and things and flowers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am so embarassed. I went up to a guy named Tavin and asked himwhere his friend Mason (Guy I like) was. He said he didn't know. A couple minutes later, he dragged Mason to me! I didn't know what to do, so I randomly asked for his e-mail adress. He said he didn't want to give it out. Then he asked if I had one. I said yeah, doesn't every girl? He said what is it? I said it was long, and he said, I'll remember it. So i told him. and then he said bye and walked away. Why wouldn't he tell me his e-mail!? And is it good that he asked for mine...will he really remember it or just say he did?

2007-09-14 11:04:46 · 8 answers · asked by amanda f 2 in Singles & Dating

there this kid that always calls me at midnight. he/she says that he/she goes to my school and that one of my friends gave him/or her my phone number. i want to find out who this person is bcuz he/she keeps asking what my friends, friends moms and my bra size is!! he/she also asked what my guy friends cup size is!! i know its one of my friends but how can i let them tell me the truth?pleez!! i cant turn off my phone bcuz i use it as an alarm clock.

2007-09-14 11:04:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

for the past 5 months i've seen constantly seen this girl all the time during work and she always looking at me and i finally talked to her and introduced myself and we were both constantly looking at each others eyes and smiling alot and i know i'm reading too much into this but i sensed there could be a good connection here. Obviously, i'm goin to talk to her and see if we click. she is really beautiful as well. whilst i was talking to her i complimented on how she had a nice name. (not much of a compliment but



should i compliment her again to do with her physical appearance like her eyes which really stand out?

2007-09-14 10:51:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Besides just telling them..

2007-09-14 10:47:48 · 5 answers · asked by JAVACHIC 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My FI and i are paying for our wedding ourselves. After the tuxes, the flowers, the dress, the cake, the rings, the reception hall and the food, adn the DJ there wasn't anything left for favors, is that really bad? We didnt even have enough to have the place decorated, i feel really bad about it...

2007-09-14 10:46:36 · 35 answers · asked by alaska_flower2004 1 in Weddings

I just started high school, there was a guy i liked a couple years ago (2) and he was like a grade higher than me so i didn't see him at all in 8th grade. He's a good looking guy, strong built (6'2), football, wrestler.etc.he has this gf that he has been on and off again since like he was in 7th grade and i think she is like 1 or two grades older than him. i like him a lot but i haven't talked to him since like 2 years ago, and i see him every corner in the hallway. We had chemistry and i know it. But how can i make him fall in love with me? or just ask me out? he's popular and everything so i can't just talk to him and he's a sophmore and i'm a freshman. I'm really pretty and everything(half asian) i look about 16. i'm only 5'3. any tips? and what should i do about his girlfriend and how will i make him dump her? their always hanging out and hugging and kissing and it's sad. i know he liked me back then and he wrote really cute things in my yearbook. What should i do?

2007-09-14 10:45:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hes really hot, and he flirts with me one day and avoids me the next. did i mention hes Hot?

2007-09-14 10:42:22 · 16 answers · asked by ammba6 1 in Singles & Dating