hes really hot, and he flirts with me one day and avoids me the next. did i mention hes Hot?
2007-09-14 10:42:22 · 16 answers · asked by ammba6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thinh he likes you he's just not sure if you like him so give him a clue!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-22 04:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by Gabby M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's just having fun and not really interested in hooking up. A lot of hot guys love to throw out a little attention to girls just to see how the girls react.
Find another guy, even if he's not as hot, that is really interested in you and quit wasting your time on a guy who is so impressed with himself.
2007-09-22 16:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by Diane M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Missy154 is right. Unless otherwise told... and he WILL tell you if he likes you, then just take him for who he is.
You're not the only one. I think all girls get themselves into this situation at some point. I'm in it with several guys... one in particular. I went on a date with him (I've told this story on here before, so I won't go into it all over again, ) but, now I feel he's not interested anymore. sad because he was really into me on our date, now I'm sitting thinking "I wish he would call." Or I wish I knew what he was REALLY thinking about me.
but according to most guys, and expert Greg Behrendt, of "He's Just Not That Into You", expect the worse, because it's not a good idea to get your hopes up for nothing.
2007-09-14 17:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Gina D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's playing a game with you... he probably does like you, but maybe not enough to start dating you or have you as his girlfriend...
he likes the fact that maybe you could be interested in him and could have you dangling there in the background ... its like a security thing... like having a girlfriend without having the committment/real thing!
if you're happy with the fact that things are casual then theres no harm in seeing him every now and again, but if you're looking for more i think that maybe this boy isnt for you, he's too much of a game player!... of course you might be happy with this, in which case you could play along with him!
2007-09-14 17:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by Rєвє¢¢α 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from a girl who is goin through the same thing...they dont even realize they are ripping ur heart out when they dont show u attention they are boys and have tons of other stuff on their minds that we cant understand...its fine
2007-09-22 15:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by BluEyes<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if he's either 1.) a player or 2.) is shy....it really depends what he's doing thats giving u mixed signals....i mean do u kno if he has a gf or not etc?
2007-09-14 17:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys flirt. Unless he tells you otherwise. End of story....
2007-09-14 17:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol.well maybe he thinks that if he flirts with you every day, you may feel uncomfortable. Guys are weird like that.
If he flirts with you, apparently he likes you!! congrats!!
2007-09-14 17:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be a "player" but if you are interested in him then ASK him. Do prepare yourself mentally for his response though.
2007-09-22 04:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by ~RiMaS~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, that sounds like my situation.
2007-09-14 17:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by Chantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"listen, do you like me? because i think youre flirting with me, but i dont know. im totally okay if you dont, but im also okay if you do" or something like that.
2007-09-14 17:55:00 · answer #11 · answered by Its Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋