have no family here and no friends just aquances. family lives 650 miles away. have 2 kids.
2007-09-14 11:34:35 · 10 answers · asked by babyherc1r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, if she has no feelings for you what would be the use in staying married to her? Marriage is about love too and if she has fallen out of love with you then you will only do yourself harm by staying. Staying for the sake of the kids is no reason to stay together. You have an ego, you have pride too and all that will be shot to pieces if you stay. Maybe youre wife will change her mind if she knows you wont be around anymore. Maybe she will decide that she does have feelings for you....but that will never be realised unless you value yourself and leave. Maybe save some money and get rent a flat yourself. Use this time to plan your departure, maybe it will really make your wife think about her actions and her feelings. Good luck with this....it must be a terrible time for you.
2007-09-14 11:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Will she attend therapy? I suggest therapy, either as a couple, or go yourself to help sort things out. With 2 children involved this is not a decision to be made lightly. Take your time, be sure, and get help. If divorce is a consideration consult an attorney BEFORE moving out of the home, to understand all implications for child custody. May the Blessings Be
2007-09-14 11:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is really hard for you with kids and no immediate support system. the real question you have to ask yourself to you want to stay in a loveless marriage just for the kids. if she is talking to another guy and isn't in love with you then it is just a matter of time before she either is cheating on you or leaving you. i think if you stay in a loveless marriage you will start to resent your wife and your kids will pick up on the tension and how the home life is off balance.
the healthiest thing you can do for you and your kids is to decide what you need. life is too short not to be happy.
2007-09-14 12:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand what you are going through. my wife also lost feelings for me, and cheated on me. now i am not saying that your wife will do the same, but communication is the key! I'm sure you have tried to talk with her, but are you asking the right questions? how are your children holding up? do whats best for them...and usually that is not staying together for the kids! stay strong, everything happens for a reason man, good and bad. good luck to you brother, i wish you the best
2007-09-14 11:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by joc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-10 11:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to tell you this but if your wife says she has no feelings for you, then there is absolutely nothing that you can do except move on. Be a good father and find someone who does love you. Good luck.
2007-09-14 13:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, sorry to read that. especially dealing with this without any support, i know the feeling. helpful would be if you gave out a little more details on how the marriage was before this happened. either way, all you can do is talk to her, express your feelings and be open with her. good luck.
2007-09-14 11:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by not this way 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce and custody of the kids.
2007-09-14 11:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by gromit801 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has no feelings 4 u its time 4 u 2 pack up your bags & go home
2007-09-14 11:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by mtnhotte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her to the curb, brother. Once women say that they have no feelings for you anymore it's because they've already found your replacement. Sorry but it is what it is.
2007-09-14 11:44:03 · answer #10 · answered by tramari25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋