Family & Relationships - 14 September 2007

2007-09-14 10:39:11 · 11 answers · asked by Ultimate Guitar Hero! 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

When cuddling with my husband at night I get so restless. I toss and turn. I get itchy and wiggly. I can't sleep until I have wiggled for about a half hour. I am like a cat twirling in place before I find the right spot to lay. I am aware that it is mental but I can't seem to stop myself. Does anyone suffer like me? Any advice on how to end this?

2007-09-14 10:36:01 · 9 answers · asked by meedebi 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I want a guy to NOTICE ME!!

2007-09-14 10:29:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 10:25:50 · 10 answers · asked by TOOMUCH 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Flat out, I'll be honest and say I'm starting to feel threatened in my new marriage. My husband & his ex-wife have been divorced 7 years. From all accounts, it was a messy break-up with her moving several states away to follow a new boyfriend who she later had her 2nd child with. At the time my husband & I met 2 years ago, he told me that he was organizing his finances & job to move to be closer to his son. When we decided to get married, we both agreed that we were ready to make this move together, because I too feel it is difficult to be a long-distance parent. Now a year later & much more time passed in-person with my new stepson, his mother and her family, I find myself in this awkward situation of an ex-wife who seems to regret her choice from 7 years ago and a stepson who constantly seems to be passing along flirtatious comments to my husband on behalf of his mother. My husband doesn't act flattered, but he also hasn't put an end to it. I feel slighted & insecure.

2007-09-14 10:24:10 · 18 answers · asked by stepmom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my mother called a family meeting today and told me and my 3 other brothers that my little sister, was pregnant, and she's only 14, her boyfriend and her have been going out for 2 or 3 years but I really didnt think it was that serious, I'm 15 and never had a b/f b4 and she's gonna have a baby, she's a sl*t I think and I just think thats what she is, my mom told us to be nice and not to judge her that sometimes stuff like that happens but I'm angry thats disgusting and disturbing. I'm not ready to be an aunt and right now I hate my sister she's an idiot, I cant even look at her the same way everytime I do I feel disgusting just looking at her what do I do

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14 minutes ago
I used to care about her we used to be best friends but by her doing this it just ruined it, shes a child and needs to be kept in a childs place I am definitley not jelous that she has a boyfriend, because she also is going to have a baby and the reason I dont is b/c i choose not too I have been asked out if u must know, but i said no Im focusing on my school work and Im going to get good grades and u know what Im not going to make excuses for her Im not going to feel bad what if she hadnt ended up being prg and we just found out u guys wld be singing a different tune so please dont tell me Im jelous

6 minutes ago
I actually plan to go to college and have a life of my own, I dont even want to talk to her which I havent and I never do I know I'll get over it but its just the thought of it (I will love th child an I will never let anyhting bad happpen to it I know its not his/her fault its my idiotic sisters

2007-09-14 10:18:08 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't mind kids being at my wedding, and there will be lots. But there is one person on my fiance's side that has a demon child. He spits on people, he bits scratches, and yells for no reason. She has no control over him, mostly because she doesn't disipline him at all. If she goes I want her to leave little Damian at home. How do I tell her to leave her kid at home when there will be tons of kids who are invited.

2007-09-14 10:15:36 · 32 answers · asked by Utena 4 in Weddings

I have a huge crush on this guy in my college program. I see him everyday and will be in his classes for the next 2 years. I feel an attraction between us ( though i have been wrong in dept. before)
Its 3 weeks into this program, should i ask him out? should i wait til he does? should i just wait..i dont want any weirdness between us if he says no since we;ll be working closely together for the next 2 years. Hes very mature and very nice. What should i do?

2007-09-14 10:14:29 · 34 answers · asked by TheDeeds 3 in Singles & Dating

are you happy when they finally do? :)

Thank you for your answer! :)

Have a wonderful wekend! :)

2007-09-14 10:11:03 · 29 answers · asked by Moon :) 7 in Friends

I have been with my partner for 3yrs & now due our 2nd baby.
we argue alot as his ex causes us alot of stress, they have a 4 yr old daughter together. He tells me i cant go out,& gets funny with me should i confront him or say the wrong thing or say something he doesnt like. Its like i have to stay quiet & not have an opinion.
He lives of my daughters maintenence, hes lost his job & doesnt support us.
To make things worse our baby is due anyday, and despite my pains and pre-labour symptoms he has still left me to go on a mates stag do 50 miles away. hes there for 2 nights.he lost his phone and his mates phone is dead and he left me with no contact should the baby come. when we did speak he swore and shouted at me cos i questioned him about where his phone was.
Hes made sure i have no friends or family.
Hes making me feel so alone & isolated, and im scared of him.
I know no different, is this normal, if not what should it be like? what do i do, please help x

2007-09-14 10:09:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

theres this girl in my 3rd period class and i think i like her what should i do HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-14 10:08:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My dad and I have drifted apart dramatically since he started dating his new girlfriend. I have not seen him since Christmas and have not talked to him in over 2 months. My mom says I should have a song just in case, but I honestly do not want to see his face. So....it the spirit of keeping things cool, what song would be best for a dance I want over as soon as possible, that's fun (so I can actually enjoy myself), and has nothing to do with a father's love, inspiration, or other crap.

2007-09-14 10:06:13 · 14 answers · asked by MommieNichols 1 in Weddings

If you knew someone and knew they were getting married but you didn't get invited, you wouldn't go up to them and ask where your invitation was, would you?!?! This happened to a good friend of mine at her workplace. Another girl heard people talking about getting invited and she hadn't received her invitation, so she asked my friend where it was. The two of them aren't even friends. How and why could she do that to my friend?

2007-09-14 10:04:48 · 21 answers · asked by Leigh S. 2 in Weddings

My husband and i have never had a honeymoon and we have been married for almost 4 years. My husband has been deployed and is not ordered to return until next June. By the time that month rolls around we will have been apart for a whole year. When he comes home i want to do something, just the two of us. Unexpensive but fun and romantic for the both of us. If anyone has any ideas please let me know. Thank u so much for ur time!

2007-09-14 10:03:57 · 6 answers · asked by ladyjwitt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 10:02:51 · 17 answers · asked by braves fan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just can't think of how my life would be without her... I don't think I would even want to live it or ever have a child if she won't be the mother of my child.........................

2007-09-14 10:02:26 · 13 answers · asked by RICK 1 in Singles & Dating

help

2007-09-14 10:02:13 · 2 answers · asked by nadia_andrews31792 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i have a bestest bestest best friend that i would die for and she asked me if i could go somewhere with her but i have a dance to go to, tonight with another friend and i don't know wat i should do go with the one that i luv or the one that i luv so much i would die for her if i had to???? HELP PLZ! THANKS!!

2007-09-14 09:58:52 · 14 answers · asked by FML! 2 in Friends

He wrote me a note asking if i could go somewhere to eat with him, and im not interested, how do i tell him that i cant go, and that im not interested in a nice way?

2007-09-14 09:54:33 · 16 answers · asked by cordlesshamilton 4 in Singles & Dating

I just completed the forms, how long should I expect it to take? The guide suggests about 10 - 12 weeks, is this a bit too hopeful?

2007-09-14 09:53:45 · 5 answers · asked by Everyday's the same again... 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Sex and Money are the top to things most couples fight about. What is wrong with the idea of increasing what you can so you fight less? In this case it would be sex, so why not just have more sex and fight less? Isn't fighting less a go thing?

2007-09-14 09:49:47 · 12 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 09:49:31 · 12 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-14 09:49:06 · 7 answers · asked by Leandro2@@8 4 in Singles & Dating

How many men out there are in an urgent need to be married? How many men are in dire search for a good wife? How many men would love to do the whole start-a-family thing? You are a highly educated individual that has his own house, his own car, and his own money but no girlfriend. So you are eagerly searching for a woman to marry. You are not content with just find a serious relationship with a girlfriend. I want to know the reasons that men have for wanting to hurry up and find a woman to be married to. Do SOME men have ticking clocks hidden somewhere?

2007-09-14 09:48:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend who i met over the summer said she needed to end the relationship because I wasn't the one for her even though she told me so many times i was perfect and was a great bf for her. I would buy her flowers and write her letters, be there for her when she needed comforting, was romantic, got close to her family, opened doors for her including the car door ever time, lead her by the back, made sure that i wanted to pay for dinner and the movie every time, and spending time trying to think of ways to suprise her. She said i was the most gorgeous guy she's ever been with too. Basically making her feel special and like a princess how 99.9% girls out there want to be treated. I even let her know that when she wants time with her friends or family, i understood completely and that she should. Then she goes back to school (146 miles away from each other) but we said we'd see eachother on weekends and make it work. She breaks up with me cuz she says the feeling isn't right . WHY??!!!

2007-09-14 09:46:47 · 8 answers · asked by FutureFederer 2 in Singles & Dating

It is a sentence (a life sentence!).

Marriage is an institution in which a man loses his Bachelor's Degree and the woman gets her Masters.
Marriage is a thing which puts a ring on a woman's finger and two under the man's eyes.

2007-09-14 09:42:54 · 19 answers · asked by girl24gr 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok me and my current gf have been going out for 10 months and i thot i loved her but sense iv met this other girl im not sure anymore. my gf and i have gone on 2 breaks becaus she wanted to date some1 else and now iv fallen for some1 else. when i look at it, it seems that im the 1 that puts the most into the relationship and all she seems to want now is sex she dosnt seem to care bout anythng else. on top of that its a long distance relationship and with the other girl i see her every day. i dont kno wat to do, i want to be with the other girl but i dont want to hurt my current gf... some1 please help me

2007-09-14 09:40:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 09:40:04 · 20 answers · asked by boston_chika 2 in Singles & Dating

I started dating a wonderfuk guy 2 weeks ago.when we talk I tend to wear a subject out.After he has already given me an answer.How do I stop myself from doing this.

2007-09-14 09:35:00 · 5 answers · asked by michelle h 1 in Singles & Dating

We use to always have sex, everyday! Now we do it once every 2 wks, if that : (( We live together, fyi.
He says we have a relationship where sex doesnt reallly matter. He loves me more than anything. I believe sex is 90% of a relationship, if the sex is not good or not happening it wont work or last.

Do you think he is cheating or not sexually attacted to me anymore??

2007-09-14 09:34:12 · 68 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating