My girlfriend who i met over the summer said she needed to end the relationship because I wasn't the one for her even though she told me so many times i was perfect and was a great bf for her. I would buy her flowers and write her letters, be there for her when she needed comforting, was romantic, got close to her family, opened doors for her including the car door ever time, lead her by the back, made sure that i wanted to pay for dinner and the movie every time, and spending time trying to think of ways to suprise her. She said i was the most gorgeous guy she's ever been with too. Basically making her feel special and like a princess how 99.9% girls out there want to be treated. I even let her know that when she wants time with her friends or family, i understood completely and that she should. Then she goes back to school (146 miles away from each other) but we said we'd see eachother on weekends and make it work. She breaks up with me cuz she says the feeling isn't right . WHY??!!!
2007-09-14 09:46:47 · 8 answers · asked by FutureFederer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes worried because your to nice and caring it makes her feel like your setting her up and its kinda scary having a bf whos perfect ; )
2007-09-22 07:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
5 days, ouch sorry about that. Ether way buddy this can be expect, understand woman DON'T all want to be treated that way, how would you like it? Really think about that, what would be like if someone always treated you perfectly, and always treated you like everything about you was perfect? Can you say, unrealistic. Ever heard of that bad guy girls love so much? Its not so much the bad guy thing as much as that person is pretty honest, has a direction, and doesn't treat everything like a fantasy. If not that you might just have never really got that close, all that romantic stuffs cool, but how much did you know about why she feared the things she did? How much about her direction in life? (Thats more then a colleage degree) Why does she feel the way about the things in her life? Its just really all that stuff isn't near as important as were led to think, what matter is everything you do despite the love, dispite the perfection, dispite the fantasy, its about getting dirty and getting thru it, about testing it. But I'd bet you left an impression, so don't be suprise if you hear from this one again, and again. Just remember give them more then perfect, give them truth, honesty! Sometimes yes you'll sounds like a jerk, work on your style;-)
2007-09-19 14:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it. Count your blessings!!!
You weren't a "bad boy" enough for her. I'm sure that's the kind of man she wants. Many women wished they had a man like you.
You were too good for her. When you are doing right to treat your lady well and she still drops you, then be very grateful that it's over before you went down the aisle with her.
She wasn't the one for you, not the other way around. Soon, she will realize what a terrible mistake she made in letting you go.
But please don't go backwards and take her back. Let it be her lost.
Move on. And don't change the way you are. There is a woman out there who will appreciate your goodness.
2007-09-22 03:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww...you sound so sweet!
Sometimes to matter how good a guy is..you just dont feel the same. That could be it, maybe she think well It is a sweet guy whom I really care about but I need to let him go! He is not the one! I dont feel the same about him no more. There is no point in holding on to him when there is some other girl out there that is better that will treat him right
2007-09-22 09:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by gurlypunkyprep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels the relationships getting old? Weird but some girls are like that. They want to start a new relationship because they have fallen out of love with you..
2007-09-22 09:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she was a spoiled by you and you needed to give her some space. Girls do like to do some things for them selves. even trough some like to be treated that way some do not.
2007-09-22 08:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by Christina D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly, she probably found someone else. im sorry. u seem like a good guy. dont stop treating women that way just bc one girl was a ***** to u.
2007-09-22 09:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by shadows9867 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so many women so little time get out there and date her sister or her bestfriend or her mother... whatever too many out there to be worried about one.....
Condoms are easier to change than diapers
2007-09-22 06:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋