Family & Relationships - 14 September 2007

We met about a year ago at a stop light,and he asked for my number.We had a brief affair,because i was dating someone at the time,he knew about this.Then he sort faded out my life,i was dating someone else,then someone else.Then we started hanging out again,then again we stopped talking.He then met someone,and we still hung out.And by hanging out i mean only that,we've never done anything since we first met.Now he's single and we still are hanging out.Now i know i'm attractive,i never have trouble meeting hot guys.I know he's attracted to me physiclly,and we're great friends,but he's always the perfect gentlemen,and i wanna kiss him! What should i do?

2007-09-14 09:33:11 · 3 answers · asked by Angela T 1 in Singles & Dating

im a guy (16 years old), better than average looking. I am having desires of getting a girlfriend and now they are at their maximum. I'm a high school senior btw, in an all boys school. And being brown i just find white girls more attractive (dunno why). Any suggestions of where i might have a chance of getting a gf?

2007-09-14 09:30:39 · 23 answers · asked by mephisto 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm 25, and have been in a few relationships. A few months ago, I slept with my brother's wife. He found out and gave me a black eye, which I reported to the police. My mom isn't speaking to him because she knows about the black eye, but not the affair. What should I do?

2007-09-14 09:30:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok so my friend (Who is in college...im a senior in highschool) wants to set me up with this college girl. But he told her i was also in college , because she didnt want a highschool kid...So she thinks im a college freshmen..I just talked to her for the first time on the phone today, and she sounded awesome..So easy going, and i like that. So should i go ahead and play it off like im in college, or tell her the truth?? I thought maybe telling the truth would make my chances with her better than if i lie but i dont know what to do...

2007-09-14 09:29:43 · 32 answers · asked by SRV-RIP 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 09:26:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 09:25:50 · 35 answers · asked by anywho 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Has your partner ever asked you to look at porn with them. How did you react? Did you like it?

My husband has asked me a couple of times over the 12 years we've been married, but i'd find it embarrasing and uncomfortable with him looking at other women. Experiences/advice would be welcome. Thanks.

2007-09-14 09:25:37 · 75 answers · asked by Catherine1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

A man is sitting with his wife and family at the dinner table. The man and woman were both married once before. In the conversation, Santa Cruz, CA, is mentioned. The son asks the man if he has ever been to Santa Cruz. The man answers that he has been to Santa Cruz many times and says, "My wife came from Santa Cruz."

1. In your opinion, does this sentence produce any confusion as to whom "my wife" refers? (The new wife does not come from Santa Cruz.)

2. By not saying "ex-wfe", could this indicate that the man still has some emotional attachment to the first wife?

Please answer yes or no to each question, and feel free to add any commentary.

Thank you.

Ed

2007-09-14 09:25:12 · 12 answers · asked by Ed 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK so my husband who I ahve suspected of cheating for a month finally made a really stupid move... he bought a hotel room for tonight using money out of our checking account.
So I of course am going to the hotel to take pics of his car, any other suggetions of things to do while at the hotel???
I am going to be sitting here forever at the hotel...

2007-09-14 09:23:54 · 16 answers · asked by baghussy222 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a date on sunday we r goin to a dodger game n i have no idea wat to wear wat do u suggest??

2007-09-14 09:21:24 · 19 answers · asked by ISIS 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband is more traditional Im more of a liberal. The issues here I can make my own decisions when it comes to everyday things that need to be done. I work and put my paychecks right along with his. He will fuss at me at times and say I have no control over you and your going to do what you want to do anyway. His mom did not work outside of the home mine did. How do you combine both of these worlds. Before we were married he helped with chores now hardly. How can we meet in the middle?

2007-09-14 09:20:17 · 4 answers · asked by indigodreams41 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If so I'd love my wife to learn

2007-09-14 09:18:28 · 18 answers · asked by chillypowder 3 in Singles & Dating

He treats me like sh!t. He's always trying to hurt me someway. Like today i got locked out of the house so i rang the doorbell, he opened the door a little and said "F*ck you fat piece of sh*t" and hit me with the door. I didn't get in till like ten minutes ago. Hes been a prick from as long as i can remember, he's 17, only one year older than me. My mom doesn't care, shes to afraid of him to do anything. He's a big pot head, everyone knows and my mom just feeds him money for his habbit. He's stole money out my purse numorous times. I know for a fact he's in a gang, because i went snooping in his room a while back and he had a gun in his boxer droor, and a knife in his bathroom. Im to scared to do anything because wth, i might get killed. He has a really bad temper and no one will get close enough to talk to him. He got arrested last year for trying to go after my dad, and we still dont know why. What do i do? Im kinda scared being in my own house.

2007-09-14 09:16:28 · 3 answers · asked by xorenée 7 in Family

My mom is 41 years old, my step dad is 34 years old. They live in my house on a army base. I've been married for one year most of that year they have been there. My husband is goin to Iraq in 6 months we need some time alone BUT my mom wants to divorce my step dad.(yeah my life is fun) BUT shes been saying that for 5 years. (They have been married for 12 years). She says she doesn't want to move out "i hate him." My dad thinks everythings fine. He was in a car reck so he's not all there if you kno what mean. What should i do tell her to grow up and get a divorce or tell them to move out? I don't want my mom to be unhappy. My husband is the best. I just want to be with him for the little time we do have together before he goes.(sorry if my spelling is wrong please help me)!

2007-09-14 09:16:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not trying to sound spoiled so please, no rude answers.

I got married about a month ago. Before the wedding, I recieved several gifts, and at the wedding we received a few, totalling approximately 30 gifts. I sent out 100 invitations total. I'm just wondering if this is a new trend, to not send a gift or card when you've been invited to a wedding. Approximately 100 guests showed up to the wedding, about 1/2 of the invitees.

I wouldn't normally be mad about this, I would be happy with just a congradulatory card, but most people didn't even send(or bring) that! I just wonder why people I spent time (and money) inviting wouldn't even acknowledge my marriage? These aren't distant people, some are my first cousins! I just don's understand how people can be so rude not to even send a card.

I know etiquette states you have a year to send a gift, but honestly, how many people receive gifts 6 months to a year later? I just don't get it.

2007-09-14 09:15:52 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A man can only have so much sex per day, so a quickie in the morning and some more at night every day would just make him to tired to cheat. Shouldn't that stop men from cheating?

2007-09-14 09:15:32 · 21 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

so i've been married four days under a month and have only had sex with my husband once (on our wedding night..)
i've tired to get him in the mood and he doesn't become interested. I've even dressed in ligerne and cooked him dinner and all he said was 'you look cute' and then wondered away...when we go to bed he turns on the tv instead of giving me any attention. we started to fool around one night and i couldn't even get him hard...i don't know what to do anymore- i don't even know how to act around him. please help me. what do i do- i'm getting stressed out and depressed.
please anyone have any advice. i tried telling him i want more sex and he told me to stop pressuring him and that it has to be spontanious- yet he never innicates anything..

2007-09-14 09:13:35 · 42 answers · asked by stephanie 6 in Marriage & Divorce

http://www.bobkahn.com/images/flowers.jpg

2007-09-14 09:12:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

and they swear to the bible and to god that they are not lying...but you know the truth....because I heard it with my ears....he told me that these girls were not calling him on his cell phone..but he is lying....this is the past but he still lies about it.....but how can you lie and swear to god

2007-09-14 09:08:07 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The maid of honor from hell has not purchased her dress, attended any wedding-related functions, or even called or sent a text message. The wedding is in 3 weeks. Any suggestions?

2007-09-14 09:06:44 · 17 answers · asked by WinstonPug 3 in Weddings

when THEY ARE BORED.

Maybe if they put as much into their relationship as they do trying to find someone else, they wouldnt feel the need to cheat.

So people. what are your excuses for cheating?

2007-09-14 09:06:42 · 11 answers · asked by waywildcherri 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Last year I dated a man who seemed normal, sensitive and a great boyfriend for all of 3 weeks. Then he began to unravel. Turned out he'd been released from a mental institution 3 weeks before I met him. He'd been in there for threatening to kill himself because his bank account was overdrawn. He also had bipolar, was on anti-depressants, smoked weed every day, couldn't get an erection. All this emerged after teh first golden 3 weeks together. He started talking about wanting to kill himself and asked me why I didn't want to kill myself too. I wanted to end things in light of this and he went berserk and said I was a "cruel b*tch" to break up with him just because he was mentally ill. He argued that EVERYONE is mentally ill and that I should help him get better. He sometimes said it was my fault he was mentally ill. Was I right or wrong to admit I couldn't cope with his stuff and break up with him?

2007-09-14 09:05:07 · 51 answers · asked by LOL 1 in Singles & Dating

I currently have a 3 year old and an 18 month old. I am also 6 months pregnant. Last night I face-to-face caught my fiance cheating on me with a stripper. Any words of advice on how to deal with all this emotional pain of being a single mom of 3 by myself and dealing with what he did to me? I'm not getting back with the guy. I can't put up with this!!! Please help me!!!

2007-09-14 09:02:18 · 20 answers · asked by ekj6585 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like somebody else much more and the girl i'm talking to now, kathy well i'm not really interested anymore. my heart is telling me that i should be with Mia. how do i tell Kathy i just want to be friends now?

2007-09-14 08:58:24 · 1 answers · asked by ٩(̾●̮̮̃̾•̃̾)۶ Gatorade 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 08:58:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mate is absolutely amazing when it comes to talking to girls. He can talk to anyone, and it seems to me they immediately fall in love with him. Why the hell is that? He said himself its not his looks... some girls I no agree. So what is it that girls like about him. Is it his confidence?

2007-09-14 08:53:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does any body knoee thatt songg
i goess


come and get my love
take me in your arms
life up above
come and get my love
ur all i need
your all im dreaming

2007-09-14 08:52:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just now saw that Yahoo! has an article that's supposed to give women advice on how to keep their men from straying. To say the very least, I find this VERY off-putting, because it carries the assumption that it's the woman's fault if her husband or boyfriend cheats and that men somehow aren't responsible for their own behavior.

2007-09-14 08:43:49 · 17 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend asked me to lend her £100 last thurs until monday. As I only had £100 I said no but I can lend you £60, as long as it's just until monday because I have no money. On monday I reminded her of it and she said she was at the doctors and really sick. Then she got sent to hospital with a kidney infection. I told her I had no money and really needed that money asap but as she was in hospital I would sub myself until friday until she got out (risking my job doing that byt he way but had no choice) on thurs(yesterday) said I don 't wanna be a ***** and I know you are in hospital (went up to see her twice,took her clothes from my wardrobe, soap etc would have gone more but had no flippin money) but I have NO money, not a penny, please as soon as you are able can you pay me back. she said yeah I will. Today text her this morning asking her how she was etc. No reply. Text her again asking when she was out, no reply. Text her again and she finally replied that she would put it in my bank

2007-09-14 08:42:44 · 24 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Friends

Some people come into our lives and quickly go.
Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts.
And we are never, ever the same.

i found this on a website and it got me thinking, what or who has left footprints on your heart?

cathybaby x

2007-09-14 08:42:12 · 44 answers · asked by Qqq 4 in Other - Family & Relationships