Family & Relationships - 14 September 2007

reported to doctor but not the police. How do you start an investigation.

2007-09-14 06:51:51 · 6 answers · asked by 2sexxxy32 4 in Friends

He has been chatting with a women on his myspace account which I had no idea he had.I found it by accident and woke him up to confront him.He says he knows it was wrong and knew it was wrong when he was doing it.He says he loves me and our two boys more than anything and he just got caught up in it.He says he wont do it again and that it would never have went any further he swears.Believe me I am no pushover and I am angry and sad but I feel like it was not the worst thing he could have done,but not the best either.Anyone in a similar situation?Any advice?

2007-09-14 06:50:21 · 27 answers · asked by willandgabe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 06:49:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Like a year ago I found a LOT of emails that my husband sent to different girls saying he was hot and wanted to have a date with any of them..is those I don´t know..places were they can see pics and then write to each other..When I found this I was so nervous I couldn´t believe my eyes..I was shaking all over..Then I confornted him, and he said he was just playing to see if those adds were true..that he never had nothing with anyone..He told me he was going to erase that email address, now like a month and half, I tryed to get the password for that address because I got suspicious he was using it again.I finally got to go in hes mail, and there I saw again that this time he was chatting with people..I actually talk to one girl, and she thought I was him..She was saying that she was in love for what she had seing on the webcam..and trying to get together..I went again and told him...He denayed it again..saying that he never did that, and don´t really know what else...Don´t know what to

2007-09-14 06:45:57 · 15 answers · asked by BabeA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad left me right after i got out of the hospital with a brain injury and went to my sisters because she had things, and he wouldn't pay rent,i just turned 18 and have to finish high school in the same town he left me in and find a job but i have like no home I'm staying with friends 7 miles way from school for now but i don't know what to do I'm so ready to kill him but thats wrong to even say letalone do. so do i just try as hard as i can to finish school and move as far away as possible or what or say f*&% it all ? and just so you know he has also left me in another state so i missed a year of school so i had to find a way back so i could try to finish. but this is so hard

2007-09-14 06:45:44 · 3 answers · asked by keket 3 in Family

The death happened about four weeks ago. The marriage was abusive for years and there were lots of warning signs that something like this might happen. It's hard for me to understand why the girl still acts like nothing has happened, even though her entire life has been turned upside down.

2007-09-14 06:42:20 · 60 answers · asked by hbangelicat 2 in Family

My husband's ex spends the child support my hubby sends on her bf. She has admitted it! She pays for his car note--- is this right? Of course not. I wonder of all the people out there getting child support, what really goes to the kids.

2007-09-14 06:38:13 · 24 answers · asked by Lucci 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend that I have known for about a year and a half. We both do TaeKwonDo together. And I just realized that I think I like him. The only thing is that he is two years younger than me. I'm in 10th and he is in 8th. I am also a higher rank then him. He is a brown belt and I am a 1st degree level 3 black belt. And there is NO WAY that I am going to tell him that I like him, because last time I told a guy that I liked him he didn't like me back and it was just awkward. What should I do?

2007-09-14 06:37:31 · 15 answers · asked by mcolson14 1 in Singles & Dating

He wants me to become a muslim. Im a christian and believe strongly in God i could never become a muslim. He says he will leave me he says i have a choice to become a muslim or be without him. I couldnt even think about becoming muslin if he really loved me he should accept and love me for who i am. i dont know what to do? he is the only guy that i have ever loved this much he has my heart i cant see myself without him. he says i have to decide soon.

2007-09-14 06:37:15 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I guess it would be safe to say that I am a shy person, kinda... I love to talk to people and meet new people. However, when a guy approaches me or seems interested I freeze up. I just don't know what to do. As long as the guy just wants to be my friend then I'm okay, but anything more and I don't know what to do, I get really nervous. I guess the idea of someone liking me just weirds me out. Really thought that I would grow out of this! I dunno, any comments/suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks!

2007-09-14 06:36:39 · 6 answers · asked by lovinlyfe38 1 in Singles & Dating

my date picked me up and told me he wanted to go somewhere special..... i was blown away when he took me to a junkyard! he made me get car parts with him, held my hand with his greasy one and said "I love a greasy woman" and tried to propose............ should i say yes cause he was being sweet?

2007-09-14 06:34:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My grandfather is 94, has many problems due to age, of course. He's nausea all the time and is not eating. There is slim to nothing of a chance that he will get better and he will live longer. My grandmother has been saying for months that she keeps hoping that he'll get better when it's been obvious to me and my family that he isn't going to imporove. My grandmother seem to be in denia, if you ask me. They've been married for 63 years and she doesn't know what to do without him. She feels she has nothing to live for (she hasn't talked about suicide) without her husband, not even for me, her closest relative and she doesn't want to do anything, including be involved with something with other senior citizens. She won't face the fact that he isn't going to live long which is making her worst, I think. She isn't willing to do anything out of the house, away from my grandfather, afraid he'll fall or something. There's not much to do. What can I do about my grandmother?

2007-09-14 06:33:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

been having an affair with a woman from another country that he had met online. Through his emails, I discovered he fell in love with her. I forgave him and gave him a choice either me or her. He told me that he loved me more than he loved her but I'm doubting it. He told me that he needed to keep in touch with her only for a couple of months to make sure she was ok. She had no idea he was married. I agreed only because he was telling me he was going to do this for a couple of months. It's been 6 months. When he's with me he's very dedicated to our relationship but looking at the phone bill, he's the one calling her. Sometimes he'll call her several times in one day. I need for men to come forward who have fallen in love with the other woman but have stayed with their wife to tell me the truth. I was a couple of months pregnant when it happened. i told him not to stay with me bc of baby. he told me that he with me bc he loves me. i don't know if thats the truth. i feel lost!

2007-09-14 06:29:34 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

now if i am going to cheat on my husband, i am going to pick a person that is ten times better than him.

so, like many of you, just have to know who and what this other woman is about. i started asking him and damn near harassing him to give me information about this chick. i know he could say any thing to shut me up.

i asked how is her hair, he says she wears a weave. my "real" hair goes to the middle of my back. i asked was she fat or skinny, well in that department she got me beat by a few pounds, so i am like whatever. then i asked what does she do for a living, he says she is a dental hygenist (so now he's messing with a broke, bald headed hoe).

i am like dude, why would you get someone that doesn't even compare to me. you know what this fool says "because she listens to me and give me good conversation." wtf is that. i listen to his dumb @$$ all the time and his conversations about what, he ain't even talking about nothing.

why do i even bother?

2007-09-14 06:29:16 · 23 answers · asked by karMA_DAME 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is a little comfortable with it but the ex is a few states away!

2007-09-14 06:27:55 · 25 answers · asked by ~Charity~ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i goes like this...

i love you, i love you, i love you i do,

but dont get big headed i love your sexy friend too.

what do you recon any good?

2007-09-14 06:27:25 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 06:26:51 · 18 answers · asked by Panther 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 06:26:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you have to have ushers at a wedding?

2007-09-14 06:24:22 · 10 answers · asked by Jo.1981 3 in Weddings

been to pre-marital classes yet, but feeling overwhelmed on just giving up the single life and having more responsibility as far as a husband and children are concerned. My question is, is it normal to be nervous, doubtful and just plain old scared. My fiance has been married before and is the father of two boys ages 10 and 13 who will be living with us. I have no children and have never been married. Please serious replies ONLY. Thanks in advance for your responses.

2007-09-14 06:23:55 · 25 answers · asked by AnneMaria 3 in Marriage & Divorce

just one thing!!!!!!!!!!!!!


i wont answer...not enough room for details. hahaha

2007-09-14 06:22:59 · 39 answers · asked by Francesca 5 in Marriage & Divorce

It was annunced this week that every 30 seconds someone in the world commits suicide, one of the main reasons given was family problems! So is your family still a reliable source of help when you really need it ? what do you think ? How great is your family to you, could you live without your family, can/could you do without them ?

2007-09-14 06:21:57 · 3 answers · asked by Latin Techie 7 in Family

are you good?

i am really good!!!!!!!

2007-09-14 06:21:20 · 21 answers · asked by Francesca 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 06:20:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First, I'll tell you about myself.
I'm 5 foot 4, weigh 185 pounds, my choice of clothing is seriously skewed towards shapeless shirts and pants that make me feel secure and look masculine, I am really shy, never had a boyfriend, very rarely had any friends in real life...
So I wonder, am I screwed in this life? Or do I have a chance of finding a man who is not a total looser, who appreciates me for who I am and won't look at the surface of things, that I'm fat and shy? And where would I find such man?

2007-09-14 06:17:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this girl in my third period that I really want to make friends with.For some reason I'm really drawn to her and she seems like she wants to talk to me,too.I just never have anything to say though so we've only talked once....how should I go about making friends with her.

P.S. I'm a girl.

2007-09-14 06:16:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me.... My folks are in town... I must behave! LOL

2007-09-14 06:15:36 · 14 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-14 06:14:26 · 8 answers · asked by Moore55 4 in Singles & Dating

is there anything in particular that i should do or accomplish b4 i turn 18 ? ....i turn 18 in 4 months ..ahh!!

2007-09-14 06:13:14 · 10 answers · asked by velma dinkley 4 in Singles & Dating

Everyone is always saying they will never understand the opposite sex. I figure if we share what we have learned it will greater help.

1) I've learned that you can't expect men to remember every little detail. Don't ask them do you remember the date it was that we had our first kiss. Just accept the fact that it may not remember the date and time it happened but it still is something special to them.

2) Also when you are in bed in that sexy lace number men aren't truly focused on what you are saying if it isn't bedroom talk. They are just thinking to themselves wow she looks smoking hot in that. I mean would you rather they think you look sexy or care what you are saying at a time like that?

2007-09-14 06:11:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating