Okay, I guess it would be safe to say that I am a shy person, kinda... I love to talk to people and meet new people. However, when a guy approaches me or seems interested I freeze up. I just don't know what to do. As long as the guy just wants to be my friend then I'm okay, but anything more and I don't know what to do, I get really nervous. I guess the idea of someone liking me just weirds me out. Really thought that I would grow out of this! I dunno, any comments/suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks!
2007-09-14 06:36:39 · 6 answers · asked by lovinlyfe38 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 20...kind of embarrassing...I blush when a guy is interested...badly...lol
2007-09-14 09:05:06 · update #1
I consider myself to be a shy person too. You shouldn't be nervous if a guy likes you. Guys are just people. Some are actually probably more scared than you are when they approach you. Treat them like you would everyone else, get to know them and be their friends. As the friendship progresses then you can see what will happen after.Try to show more confidence in yourself. Once you have confidence you'll be good to go.
2007-09-14 06:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say hold old you are, but presuming you are pretty young, I would not worry about "freezing up" in such situations, rather, find a subject of conversation (sports, his car, a class you enjoy, music, whatever) and feel your way from there. If this seems too much trouble? I would say you're merely not ready for any type of male/female relationship.
Believe me, when you're attracted to someone - you'll know it and won't have such a tough time, you will, automatically figure it out! Let time takes its course and don't force this issue within yourself.
Grace
2007-09-14 13:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem as you. once i thought that i was an asexual/lesbian or smth. but now i'm starting to think it's just a social anxiety. i considered even going to a shrink. i hope things even out eventually, for both of us
2007-09-14 13:41:51 · answer #3 · answered by Nadina Z. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothings wrong with you just be s bit more confident ;)
2007-09-14 13:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile every time.
2007-09-14 13:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by Street Smart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been the same way with girls.
2007-09-14 13:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jewish FiLiPiNo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋