Family & Relationships - 14 September 2007

Happy Birthday to the best sister in the world.!!!I love you and appreciate that I have a sister like you...that I have been able to share all my fears with ,and all my success....I love you this September 14th with all my heart.

2007-09-14 02:04:35 · 8 answers · asked by ღOMGღ 7 in Family

My gf & I have been in a long dist. rlship for almost one year now on plans to be togther again soon as we r capable, but we r very much in love, n tryn our best to be together again since we had to leave each other cuz of parents problems. anyhow, i just found out recently by going thro her email, that one of her exes has emailed her, n she replied bak to him, reminiscing about old times with him. (keep in mind, i specfically told her not to ever talk to this guy again..espcially him, n she promised she wouldnt ever...)n wats worse is that she pretty much told him she doesnt have a bf..she didnt use these exact words,.. soo anyways.. wat do u think i should lol..i couldt break her head in half if she were here now, but good thing she isnt...im thinkng of callin n tell str8 up n break up with her....or?? any other suggestions??... or i can just wait for more emails 2 see how far they will go...(2 girls..pls be smart about ur email thing..its so easy 2 find out everything.)

2007-09-14 02:03:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

top of my husband while having sex??? doing it in the dark doesn´t make me feel less embarrassed...I am afraid of the tecnical part...how can I overcome this?

2007-09-14 02:01:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently 21 weeks pregnant with our first child. My husband and I will be married for 2 years soon.
Since I have been pregnant, my husband doesn't seem interested in having sex with me. I weighed 98 lbs before I got pregnant and am only up to 108. I keep in shape and so far, all I am is belly. No other kind of "fat". The only reason I'm mentioning this is because, I don't know if it's because my body looks different. Is why he doesn't want to have sex with me?
This has happened twice now. The first itme, I initiated it and we ended up doing it, but I swear I felt like I was "making him".
Yesterday, I tried to initiate it and I could tell he didn't want any part of it.
It makes me cry and makes me feel like I look gross to him or something.
We haven't been "intimate" very much lately at all, and yesterday when I asked him what the problem was- he said "it's hard to go from not messing around for a while to messing around again". He's my husband. Why would that be so hard?

2007-09-14 01:59:00 · 11 answers · asked by Julie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think about a person that suddenly went out where she s living?
with a man; and then no more contact : she erased/ msn;orkut, her photo stock site, anda more...what could happen?

2007-09-14 01:57:29 · 2 answers · asked by alex a 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 01:42:05 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it wasn't an ugly break- up... my mom made me break up with him... He was my first real love... Should I just see how he is doing and get the closuer I never got?

2007-09-14 01:41:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lived with someone for 6 years and loved him deeply. He wanted us to 'experiment' sexually, in particular with another man (for me,not him, but while he was in the room). I eventually caved in and allowed it, but broke up with him soon afterwards because I couldn't cope with the self-disgust. It's been nearly a year and I am in another relationship, but I cannot forget this man and all the good things we had apart from his bizarre sexuality.
I am 46 and have had several relationships in my life, but had never experienced one where I felt my partner knew me as well as he did. I still ring him now and then, cry when sad songs come on the radio - all that crazy stuff.
I think I just need some other people to reinforce to me that I did the right thing so I can move on. None of my family or friends know why we split: they think I was cruel to have broken his heart just because they think I was bored. I can't tell them I broke my heart too, they will want to know why.

2007-09-14 01:33:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-14 01:31:06 · 15 answers · asked by Davey J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband told me i need therapy and that he does not want to listen to my feelings anymore that he thinks they are stupid because he does not understand them. I just had a baby three weeks ago by the way and I feel really fat and ugly right now and he told me to go for a walk then. Am i crazy or is this the most unsupportive thing ever

2007-09-14 01:30:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous 3 in Marriage & Divorce

now is that bad or is it just me..cause to me it seems like we do it a little bit more than we should..and he talks about how he wants us to be together forever. But it doesn't seem like we have as much fun anymore we do the same thing over and over again. WHAT DO I DO???

2007-09-14 01:28:44 · 12 answers · asked by Ann 1 in Singles & Dating

I was in a relationship for a short amount of time but I've known him for 5 years prior. We hooked up and I became pregnant so we decided to make it work as a family. We had our problems as most relationships do but I didn't know how big the problem was till we moved in together. He got the aptartment and I paid the small bills. He was there for every dr. appointment and all the false labors. The baby came and I had a had a shower after, he didn't come because we were having arguments at the time. I was upset and moved out for 2 weeks. We talked I came back to only move back with my parents again 4 months later. Reason being he was controling. He didn't want me to hang out with my friends, he didn't want me to have company at "OUR" apartment not even his mom came over to see our son. We both use to hang out and do things together and after the baby it all stopped. I don't know what happened. He doesn't help me with out son no money no nothing. I've tried to talk to him about the babies needs he wanted things done his way or no way. He has made ideal threats to who he would call to get custody of our son. It made me real stressed out because I couldn't believe he was acting this way. Infact he has even denied our son to his current girlfriend. So I did what any smart woman would do I went to child support. Whether or not it was wrong I had to I have to take care of my son. Over the months his mom came around and statred to get our son on weekly or every other weekend basis. Im not sure if he goes to see him but the way our son acts as if he's there but not interacting with him as a father should with his son. We don't talk, we don't text there is no communication at all. I don't want him back I want him to be a father to his son, but I will not beg for him to be in his life.

2007-09-14 01:19:07 · 11 answers · asked by Lady "T" 1 in Family

I don't want another failed relationship. I want to work hard to make this one work. I don't want to be a person that gets married 3-4 times. I want one woman in my life and that is her. The relationship isn't the same but I want it to be healthy again. She seems to be making an effort to see and spend time with me but its still not the same. help me

2007-09-14 01:17:48 · 4 answers · asked by micha_gil 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 32 years old and I divorced my wife in 2005. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for the past 2 years. Over the past 6-8 months our relationship has hit rock bottom. There has been some dishonesty and trust issues dealing with our relationship. No cheating that I am aware of but a lot of trust issues. We lived together we lived together for seven months then she decided she wanted to get her own place because of my instability. I admit I haven't been stable for the past 2 years. I have moved 5 times over the past 2 years. Everytime my lease end I move. Now that is one of the major problems. I need stability. She has lost trust in me and no longer have passion for me. She says she loves me and want to work on this relationship but I haven't been intimate with her for 3 weeks now. I'm not talking about just sex but everything else that comes with a relationship. I miss her so much and I am so in love with her. What do I do? Stability is my priority right now.

2007-09-14 01:14:37 · 5 answers · asked by micha_gil 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He wanted her to tell him in person that she was leaving him, he wasn't satisfied that she told him on the phone and he also wanted her to bring some shirts that she had of his and he would give her her stuff back. She was to go to his house for a short time. He ended up drugging her, making her sign notes that she owes him lot's of money that she will pay back, when he is the one who owes her money. Then he raped her. My question what's the best thing for her to do? Who should she tell about this?

2007-09-14 01:12:14 · 11 answers · asked by shirlandjerry@yahoo.com 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has got to lose some weight, and get into shape! It is getting so bad that I am just not that physically attracted to him anymore. I tried setting a good example by going to the gym, and I started cooking healthier meals. I've asked him to join me at the gym, go for walks, play tennis, organize volleyball games, etc. He is just not interested. I don't expect him to look like Brad PItt, but I'd really like to see him take more interest in how he looks, and take better care of himself. This is a problem for me and I don't know how I can tell him so without hurting his feelings. Any advice?

2007-09-14 01:04:34 · 17 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We heard the news today of a couple faced with this news. The wife had cancer and without treatment would die, she than fell pregnant and decided to stop treatment to save her unborn child, thus sacrificing herself and their marriage on the chance her "unborn" would be saved. But what about any other children ? Would it be better to continue treatment and save the marriage and maybe have IFV later if need be ? Brave, but ...

2007-09-14 01:02:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am doughtful i don't know if i still love my boyfreind or what. i have even stayed with this married guy since he's wife doesnot come home offen but i am worried that my boyfreind will find out what can i do

2007-09-14 00:59:52 · 24 answers · asked by lovenote 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in the middle of planning my wedding. I want it to be specail and all but I am getting fustrated. I am the one doing all the planning and I can't afford to hire a planner to help me. My doesn't seem to interested in helping me with any of it.

2007-09-14 00:54:36 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4 in Weddings

ok. there are two cars in the dark, one has tinted windows and the other dont. Both have their dome lights on. I know the person in the tinted car can see the person in the other car, but can the other person see them?

2007-09-14 00:52:29 · 4 answers · asked by lida 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I have been away from home for several months. I have missed my wonderful wife. We live in Las Vegas. We have seen several of the shows - including her favorite, Toni Braxton. Also - O, Zumanity, KA, La Reve and Celine.

I would like to do something special - like maybe the new show - Love - but I also wanted to treat her to the day at a spa and us have a nice night at the hotel.

My dilemma - Love is at a hotel with no spa. I am thinking we could do another show at another hotel with a spa - but the show might not be as good. Or we could do just a night at a hotel/spa and maybe some shopping

Ladies (and guys if you want to answer) - what sounds good?

2007-09-14 00:39:41 · 1 answers · asked by vegasrob89118 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-14 00:31:55 · 9 answers · asked by choco fego 3 in Friends

my best friend is a guy and he just asked his girlfriend of 1 year to marry him i known him for 15 years i never felt anything for him until the day i found out he propose to her i feel like julia roberts in my best friends wedding what should i do please help

2007-09-14 00:30:25 · 15 answers · asked by Brenda m 1 in Weddings

i was wondering if i could get married in a church, as my partner has been married before and had to get a divorce as his partner was cheating on him and wanted him to leave
so it wasnt his fault.
they got married in a registry office.
and ive never been married.
but ive never been christened either.
do i need to be?

2007-09-14 00:02:04 · 17 answers · asked by crystaluk662 2 in Weddings