Family & Relationships - 12 September 2007

i found true loved on him i know he also loved me.. but he cheated me and even let the girl bother me. he's a military men. he said it is just normal for them, for a men to sleep with someone else, and had sex.. but it hurts. i never did the same. i wanted to take revenge but how. i ask him if he love me still and he said yes, and it was just nothing. all i have to do is to accept it. i tried, i am trying but the pain is still here.. i wanted to broke up with him, i tried not not to think bout him bout he occupied my mind. i tried not to think bad when hes not texting but i cannot. i am in deep pain. its my ego. its my pride he step on it. i love him very much but it made me feel sick. i want to let go of my feelings but i cannot. i love him so much that it tears me up inside. we are miles apart. we are separated because of our profession. if only i could find someone to replace him. maybe i'll let him go.

2007-09-12 23:58:26 · 7 answers · asked by sai 1 in Singles & Dating

he buy alot of cosmetics for the face,he eat same like a girl, he like girl friends than his guy friends and most specially the way he act is like not masculine.. i dunno but the way he act is not normal for a guy. am i just thinking to much about him?.. im just just afraid he turns out same like other guys there..

2007-09-12 23:54:08 · 11 answers · asked by Kk 2 in Singles & Dating

While I am of the opinion that a live-in is better my partner feel a marriage makes more sense. I am more for the solidity behind the relationship and she is more for solemnizing it.

Honest and sensible answers please. No kidding!!!

2007-09-12 23:53:52 · 23 answers · asked by BignTall 3 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so theres 2 brothers and the older one meets a new girl and they start dating and are together for about six months. then tragedy strikes and the older brother dies. would it be wrong for the younger brother and the girl to start dating?

2007-09-12 23:52:12 · 17 answers · asked by new h 1 in Singles & Dating

Or am I just one of the lucky ones?

2007-09-12 23:51:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And Chris Hansen showed up?

2007-09-12 23:47:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 23:47:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok, well I was at this guys (across the street) house because I locked myself by accident out of my own house. He said it would be ok if i came to his, So i did and we hung out. He asked for my myspace and my aim info and i gave it to him. On mysace, the next day, I messaged him saying:

Hey, thanks for letting me come over on Tuesday, it was fun

and my mom actually didn't get mad, so it was cool lol

Then, later that night he replied:

yeah its cool anytime =]. thats good she didnt get mad haaa

Ok, so now what do I say? I'm really bored because today we have a day off from high school... but wouldn't it be too straight foward to ask him if he wants to walk around the neighborhood or something?

idk... what should i send him?

2007-09-12 23:46:27 · 9 answers · asked by guy 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex about a month ago, he really upset me and I've dealt with that. He spoke to me yesterday on msn about getting a playstation game back off of me which i will give back to him. I have just started to see another guy this is the early stages tho so don't want to do anything to mess things up. But my problem is my ex wants to see me and personally i don't want to see him as it'll just drag up all those feelings i had for him. I like this new guy alot, I just need some advise as to how to forget about my ex and how to just get on with my life and see how things go with the new guy. Hope this makes sense, my heads a bit all over the place at the mo. Thanks.

2007-09-12 23:46:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This will be our first time away together, its a landmark in our relationship, he has booked us into a lovely hotel. I feel a bit, well-- Useless!!!------ any tips on what I could do to make it even more lovely and romantic. All my last b/f were cavemen who would never in a million years do this for me, and I just kinda need some advice

2007-09-12 23:45:49 · 16 answers · asked by staceylovbe 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 2 years is very loving and affectionate, but when im on the telephone and he is at home with brother he 'sounds irritated ' takes mick speaks to me horribly same when im present. Is he showing off?

2007-09-12 23:44:19 · 14 answers · asked by Australia 1 in Family

How weird...In the past, everytime i'd like to befriend with the girls and treat nice to them, but i ended up being belittled and teased by them....How weird of those girls....I'm no jerk though i might be foolish....sigh...

2007-09-12 23:42:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my b/f asked me to tell me how i felt and i said i liked himn a lot and hadn't felt this way so fast for someone. he left. text me all that night saying he felt the same. He text me in the morning before going to work saying he would see me later. i have had no reply since. i sent him a text at 11 last night and still no reply. what is going on. do you think it's over?

2007-09-12 23:39:59 · 6 answers · asked by aint got a scooby 3 in Singles & Dating

I need some assistance here. My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 months now and we live 20 minutes apart from each other which is not bad at all. We communicate everyday with e-mail or text messaging but we don't talk on the phone all the time. Is this bad? I see her about 3 times a week...sometimes less. Please help me figure out if this is good or bad.

2007-09-12 23:38:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we met almost two yrs back we both relocated from different parts of the country due to work reasons n became very good friends,we started sleeping around a month ago.i know he loves me and i love him too,but am afraid of ruining his happy family.I just want to stop but i dont know how cuz i have to work with him on a daily basis n i just love him.He,s always there for me.Pls advice me

2007-09-12 23:36:01 · 20 answers · asked by cat r 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a great father and helps me a lot with our son (who is critically ill and on a transplant list) but he has a problem w/porn. He has been lying to me and looking at it (on the cell phone, on the computer, EVERYWHERE) the whole 2 years we have been married. And he gets angry when I accuse him b/c he's "not doing anything". I found out last night that he has a webcam viewing account on some nasty *** website and I finally got enraged enough to leave. The problem is I love my little boy and we are both military so I will eventually be stationed away from him. I guess my question is...would you leave?

2007-09-12 23:32:19 · 22 answers · asked by ashley b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-12 23:14:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i was sexually abused growing up so i never looked at sex like a big deal cos to me it wasnt..it was just this dirty thing..i didnt connect it with love. now im happy with my bf but i always say we f*ck..i never think of it as 'makeing love' cos making love to me doesnt exist. he excepts this but because i dont see sex as being a big deal i go to swinger clubs with him and have even said he can sleep with another woman while im on my period so he can be satisfied...when i think about this part of me says to myself 'what the hell are you doing? are you really ok with him sleeping with another girl? what if he likes her better and leaves you?'. im so messed up in the head..i love him so much and im trying to do what i think is right to keep him happy (like when i let him give it me up the @r$e even though i dont like it) but part of it feels wrong. i know alot of this has to do with my past..i just wish i could see sex like other people..a special love shared between 2 people

2007-09-12 23:12:10 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 23:11:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So many times my husband tells me swapping stories during love making. Now he want to make true these fantacies real. I am confuse and afraid that what will happen if I involve. Please guide me if any body experienced.

2007-09-12 23:05:20 · 43 answers · asked by Suchi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Friend of mine, he has a beautiful wife, smart and lovely kids, good job position, but he love to cheated with others women.He told me that he never use his heart when he do that.He only loves his wife.He's 1 of managerial in a best night club in town.I just wondering, what does he still looking for?while everytime he tell to anybody about how wonderful his marriage life....

2007-09-12 22:54:55 · 21 answers · asked by Mell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he tried to kill him self he has mental issues he set my garbage can on fire what should i do ? if he set a can on fire almost killing my family and others .

2007-09-12 22:53:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i get the feeling he thinks it's dirty or something. but this is actually when i feel most sexy and want sex a lot. ok, maybe he "doesn't like it". but i often have sex with him WHEN I DON'T WANT TO,,just to please him. i feel really hurt, like he's rejecting a part of me/my womanhood. shall i tell him i'm jst not gonna see him AT ALL during my period, if he can't deal with it?

2007-09-12 22:53:14 · 13 answers · asked by ellen s 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello guys?Am in a very tight spot n i so much need you help.I don't know how 2 deal with issue i've about a gal am very much crazy about.I meet this girl in the internet about an yr ago n we hooked up.we slowly grew fond of each other n we fell in luv wit each other-atleast i do luv her,but am not sure about her...but she say she does luv me.We have never meet n this is cuz we live very much apart from each other.....like in different countries n different continents.But we've talked so much how we will meet each other after her schoolin.I do luv her so much,and infact i think i've never luved anyone this much.But the thing is she does makes me doubt of her luv 4 ma.She is sometimes very cold 2 me and she closes me out when it comes 2 talking about her family.Recently her father died,but she didn't let me kno about it!I found out about her father after his funeral.This has changed ma alot lately that she has taken notice.She says am not the same.But i don't know how 2 tell her of this

2007-09-12 22:52:39 · 6 answers · asked by steve 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 22:52:01 · 40 answers · asked by JanJan 7 in Singles & Dating

i been talkin to this girl for 5 months already. seen her about 8 times only cus she lives 4 hours away. im certain she really likes me and of course i like her. i know theres no certain way to keep a relationship good or strong but since this is a long distance one, what are a few things i need to keep in mind as well as she? what do i need to do, what does she need to do? what can and cant or do and the other way around to make this last and work?

2007-09-12 22:52:00 · 9 answers · asked by JV 1 in Singles & Dating

i love some one but his mother u must wait ur old sis first . that right or no we love each other so much we 24 years old

2007-09-12 22:34:20 · 4 answers · asked by ema_awaad2050 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex is mad that i'm talking to my other ex. He was like, you loved him more then me. and that he hate me and that he wish that he never met me! what that he** was that? I never loved my other ex!!! How can i make him understand that i still have feelings for him not the other one? Can anyone help ME understand what happend? The guy that i still have feeling for say that he didnt want to be with me! so y is he so mad? And no i didnt tell him that i was talking to the other guy! one of my friend told him that!!! HELP!!! I'M LOSING MY MIND!!!!! Can take it anymore!

2007-09-12 22:33:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I have been spoiled in my past relationships - with thoughtful men.
My current boyfriend, who I have been seeing for 10 months, has never really done the whole romance thing, which I accept because that is just the way he is. However I started to get a bit fed up because I have been really helping him out the last few months - taking him to work at 5am, picking him up etc, without so much as a thank you really.
I came outright and said to him "I think you should buy me a present or something!" "Some flowers wouldn't go amiss, you hav never bought me flowers"
Last night he presented me with a bunch of flowers and said "whatever you ask me I will do". However I dont' really want to have to ask him to do nice things for me. What do you think?

2007-09-12 22:25:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1.a romantic kiss
2.a call
3.ask for next date
4.or else?

2007-09-12 22:24:12 · 9 answers · asked by •°¤*♫*¤°•fisco 2 in Singles & Dating