Family & Relationships - 12 September 2007

OLDER GUY CHECKS OUT 15 yr old AT THE GYM!?
i have been going to the gym for about 2 months now and ever since then, one of the trainers there check me out every day, all the time.

I know im only 15 but I can tell when someone is checking me out. I know I look alittle older since im 5.8" 136 pounds. I can tell he is atleast in his mid 20's. But when he looks at me he makes eye contact with me for like 2-4 secounds long....which freaks me out but i just try to act like im really into my work out (which i am).


I have to say, i kinda like the attention, he is really good looking. But i know if he gets into me to much or something that that would not be ok.


There was even this time were he was looking at me, walked straight to me but at the slightest sec. he turn somewhere else (i thought he was going to come up and talk to me). That freaked me out like he was playing hard to get or somethin!
What should i do?

2007-09-12 14:01:13 · 21 answers · asked by marina_703 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Anyone?

2007-09-12 13:59:36 · 25 answers · asked by Colin 4 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl at my school, but Im kind of shy, and I am wondering what i can do to find out if she likes me, other than ask her.

I am wondering what I can do to see, not signes she gives.

Thanks!!

2007-09-12 13:58:29 · 2 answers · asked by helix 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey guys I need a good giggle the first person to make me laugh gets easy points!

2007-09-12 13:56:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, just to start off with, i've liked him for a really long time, even though he's become really popular lately and way out of my league...=/

ok, so i thought he would be happy and all, b/c he's going out with this super-popular girl and he scored like five touch downs at the last few football games and his popularity is like soaring and all

but when i talk to him, he seems really sad/ angry. my other friends have noticed it also, they ask me about it because they think i'm the one he confides in. if i ask him whats wrong he doesnt answer no or yes.

his parents are kind of getting divorced... but anyway the reason i'm kind of worried about him is because he was about to get in a fight and got in-school suspension. and he's not usually that kind of person. he's failling all his classes and i just dont know whats up or if anything is up at all.

is there anything i can or should do? or should i just stay out of it?

2007-09-12 13:53:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is it different then if u lose it to someone who is a virgin ?

did anyone lose their virginty to someone who wasnt a virgin ?

2007-09-12 13:52:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

any good stories or tips for kissing

2007-09-12 13:52:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay here is my story. I am a newlywed and i love my husband with all my heart. Before me and my husband got together i was seeing this guy for about 4 years(it was never serious because he had a girlfriend) anyways i completely stopped talking to him and everything,avoiding his calls, and tryed to avoid seeing him all together--wellllllllll the other day i bumped into him and his old lady and of course we meet eyes for a hot minute. Now he is all i think about---and i do not want to call him because i love my husband. But on the other hand i want to talk to him just to talk!!!What do I do?is this a normal feeling??and please no mean answers i know it is wrong that he has a girl-so do not waste time judging me--i just need advice on what to do--i am so confused??i love my husband but still i am think about this other man------please help??????

2007-09-12 13:51:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what exactly will he do to show he likes you
because their a guy that always talk to my guy friends and every time i talk to him he has to come over and talk also. But he sort of ignores my guy friend if im not around me. I mean he will still talk to him he just doesnt seem like he is trying to impress anyone. Also he seems to stair at me and be interested in what im doing when im not even around him

2007-09-12 13:50:56 · 1 answers · asked by ??? 2 in Singles & Dating

There are 3 childern two boys and one girl and youngest is 2 years old and the oldest is 5 years old and the middle is 4 years old i known since they moved here I Played with this summer and they loved me though i am just nerorous PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!! serious awnders

2007-09-12 13:50:37 · 9 answers · asked by softballgirl294@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family

I feel stupid... there is this girl that always give me **** and never really care that I care... Whenever she is feeling bumbed thats the only reason she comes to me... I sjould have thought that I should have learned by now.. I always fall for her... I believe everything she tells me... Not good... even though i tell myself no more... but when she come around i am there... **** I have it bad... (I can say we dated b4)


Should I just give up... I tell myself that all the time but i never do

2007-09-12 13:47:56 · 1 answers · asked by spontanious 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 13:44:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 27 and dont now if i want to live i fel stupid and usless. i lived with my parents wanted to live on my own got ssi but i got on my own and figerd out i cant live alone i gradated high school no colege. i would like to live on my own my parents are suportiv of me but fel helples i just need some hope to now i wil make it

2007-09-12 13:39:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend wants to marry me. I am from a different country.
He hasnt told his parents about me yet. Not sure if they will accept me. He thinks they will. Is it acceptable for a guy in India that has never been married to marry a divorced mother? Thank you

2007-09-12 13:38:15 · 18 answers · asked by megansmom06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, there's this guy and he rides my bus and we used to go out in the 6th grade and now we're in the 10th. You see I like again,but the thing is he won't talk on the bus unless it's to his friend and it would only be who he would talk to. I wanna talk to him so bad, but he won't talk back. I mean we talked b-4. So what can I say to make him talk back? PLEASE help me!!!

2007-09-12 13:36:58 · 7 answers · asked by Twinkie 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel stupid... there is this girl that always give me **** and never really care that I care... Whenever she is feeling bumbed thats the only reason she comes to me... I sjould have thought that I should have learned by now.. I always fall for her... I believe everything she tells me... Not good... even though i tell myself no more... but when she come around i am there... **** I have it bad... (I can say we dated b4)

2007-09-12 13:36:51 · 4 answers · asked by spontanious 1 in Singles & Dating

If I don't try to keep my good friend from eating microwave pizzas? I want him to have a long and happy life, free of high blood pressure, but he is addicted to microwave pizza.

2007-09-12 13:36:48 · 18 answers · asked by Patrick the Carpathian, CaFO 7 in Friends

ok so this friend-like person of mine. first he hated me, he deleted me from his msn, and phone and said some pretty nasty things to me. now he doesnt hate me anymore? and yesterday as soon as another guy walked over to my desk, he was there, RIGHT away! he used to like me..but doesnt anymore due to recent events.but the problem is,i like him now, eventhough everyone else doesnt, i think hes cute, his hair, voice, clothing, and he grew overthe summer :) (im still a little taller, but i dont care)

why is he doing this?
did he just want attention? > he knows i will care if hes mad/upset with me.

2007-09-12 13:36:18 · 1 answers · asked by ain't nobody but me.. 2 in Singles & Dating

Sorry I need to give more detail on the relationship on line thing. Yes we live between 1 1/2 to 2 hours away. I'm in an ending marriage & I believe he is in an unhappy one too. We both seen eachother on cam so there are no suprises. And yes..I do trust this man with my safety. At one point we were ready to meet till I got goofy cause I realised I had a connection with him. Things got worse because of ME. we took time off for a bit. Came back and it's still going no where tho he is dealing with personal stuff now & I'm ok with the "break" he is taking. We all need those at times. This whole thing happen by accident neither of us was looking for love. We were to meet back in May..but it got called off do to me being stupid. At that point I asked to meet again sometime but I wasn't gonna be the one to bring it up again. I let the ball in his court. We are both busy ppl I realise but my god......how long do I have to wait at least for a date?

2007-09-12 13:32:08 · 4 answers · asked by casey 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 13:31:43 · 8 answers · asked by pd 1 in Singles & Dating

about virgins and dead arising and a Heaven with golden streets and a Hell with fire and a mystical Satan and an egotistical God who wants to be worshipped and judges us while telling us we shouldn't do the same and all the other goofy stuff? Why not just say there is a God, and leave it at that? When you embellish it, you just turn thinking people off!

I know preachers like the fairy tales so they have something to talk about on Sundays and can earn their salaries, but I found when I attended a Catholic service that they can put in the time quite satisfactorily without talking about all that goofy stuff.

2007-09-12 13:30:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

As his natural mother would I need to adopt him as he wants to have the same surname as my ex-husband and I? Would my parental rights be affected if my son is adopted by my ex.

2007-09-12 13:28:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

about 4 years ago(in november), i knew him really well, and now his mom is my teacher, and i wanted to make them a card or something, but i dont know what to put!

2007-09-12 13:27:38 · 4 answers · asked by Sabrina Devareoux 4 in Family

kk im turnin 11 soon and i dont kno wat i should ask for... it is in less than a week...i was going to ask for money but i changed my mind to here... wat should i get that is usefull and entertaining or watever a 11 supposed to get idk... i need answers fast people fast

2007-09-12 13:25:54 · 1 answers · asked by Benjamin S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

No man is a failure when he has friends.*

2007-09-12 13:25:24 · 1 answers · asked by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 in Marriage & Divorce

when ever i sit in front of a guy in class or even on the bus they always play with my hair or poke my head i know there just messin with me but whats the point of touching my hair... i dont mind it its just i dont get why they do it

2007-09-12 13:21:25 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does all get them dating things in there mail,,box? yes im jealus, Hes with me 24/ 7 & i have anxiety & pannic attacks. what should i do? not worry? we have each others pass words to our mail, but im scared because of thouse stupid dating services, im jealus i & its not funny. so where now?

2007-09-12 13:20:26 · 5 answers · asked by little sparrow 2 in Family

Today he gave my sister this big lecture about how sacred marriage is and how its important for kids to not be born out of wedlock. Which is fine but my dad has been married 5 times. And he has seven kids and apparently he takes pride in never concieving a child out of wedlock, my mom divorced him before my brother was born so they were not married when he was born. Now granted for the most part he praticed what he preached but how can a man on his 5th wife that cant stay married for more then 6 years preach to someone else about how sacred marriage is? I told her she should have laughed in his damn face.

2007-09-12 13:11:59 · 10 answers · asked by MJMGrand 6 in Family

I have a nephew that hates his younger brother because he is a good kid and is really active in sports. So he walks up to him, calls him the "golden child" and punches him right in the face. Now my younger nephew is threatening to run away because he can't deal with it. Would you have called the cops on your older son? Isn't it still considered accessory to child abuse if you don't report it? If you were at your wits end with the problem child...wouldn't you just want to call the cops and hope it teaches him a lesson?

2007-09-12 13:06:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am in a situation and I don't know what to do. I have been with my kids father for 6 years, and we have two kids together. He constantly accuses me of cheating, every man that comes around me, he thinks I want them. I am so miserable, he never wants me to go anywhere, he calls me 20 times and hour. Everywhere I go, he thinks I am going to meet a man or find a man. There have been times that I have told him that I will leave him and find someone else. But I feel like I don't have the strength, I don't have any family or anywhere else to go. The good things about him is that he works, he makes good money, he help me with the bills, and he take care of his kids. But he makes me feel like crap. He always call me a b*tch and he makes me feel really low. I am tired of being unhappy and miserable, but on the other hand I stay because we been together for so long and we have two beautiful little boys together. But I don't have any freedom. Can someone please give me some advice?

2007-09-12 13:04:37 · 12 answers · asked by Ms. C 1 in Marriage & Divorce