Family & Relationships - 12 September 2007

2007-09-12 10:28:35 · 31 answers · asked by . 7 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are at a crossroads because the house I am in has been sold and I have to move. My 14 yrs. old son , hates his daughter who's also 14 yrs. old, and she hates him. They have no relationship, although they do go to the same big high school and know some people in common. I'm sure it's a jealousy-competitive thing, but really who knows but the kids??? My fiance says they'll work it out, especially if they're in close proximity to each other, they'll learn to get along, so we should move in with them!!! I say we need to have things worked out BEFORE we move in!!! Please, what do you think or know about this blended family stuff? Tips, experiences? Thank You!

2007-09-12 10:25:09 · 7 answers · asked by LuckyEddie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-12 10:24:12 · 1 answers · asked by annonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

OK I know of younger girls that go for older guys, all with money and men that go for older women normally good looking, is there more to this or isnt there, this is your chance to confess :)

2007-09-12 10:23:32 · 9 answers · asked by Sam k 4 in Singles & Dating

im going to get a new set of nails but everybody has the same thing. i want something different but not to wild any ideas????

2007-09-12 10:22:53 · 1 answers · asked by nrivera_11 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He confessed to me last night that he "messed around" with another woman and for the last year has been flirting with other women also. I don't know what to do...he has been non-stop lying to me.I don't even know what to believe any more...HELP! I am scared to leave him but I just don't know...

2007-09-12 10:21:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-12 10:21:35 · 4 answers · asked by joy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Our divorced was final over 9 years ago, but recently we have been spending a lot of time together. See, we have two children together and we are both very active in their lives. We take them on vacation together (separate rooms), school functions, dinner, etc. Although he has dated other women, there has never been anything too serious. And yes, I have dated as well, a couple of serious relationships but I seem to always compare them to my ex. Neither one of us has crossed that line. What do I do? Should I tell him how I feel about him?

2007-09-12 10:20:07 · 15 answers · asked by Ms. Fay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ho would you be with, the guy/girl of your deams or thelove of your life?

2007-09-12 10:18:11 · 5 answers · asked by Theater Chick 2 in Singles & Dating

for example
our homecoming is oct 6th
when is the earliest and latest i should ask?

2007-09-12 10:14:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-12 10:11:47 · 13 answers · asked by Kitty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I gues my mom never got over the fact I grew up because she is now staying with me for a few months and is treating me like a baby. Let's see,she calls me the babyish nicknames she called me before I left for college, she pinches my cheeks, smoothers me with kisses and hugs me tight. She insists on doing everything for me and says that I need help raising my 2 kids and my niece that lives with me. She says I'm just a little girl and I don't know how I can stop this. What can I do?

2007-09-12 10:09:14 · 8 answers · asked by Jasmine 4 in Family

when you marry a guy who happens to be the youngest of 3,is it common for the mother to always want to run you and your husbands life?
she is constantly at the house wanting me to change my curtains..move my computer from one room to the other and telling me how the kids need to be taken care of
any advice?

2007-09-12 10:08:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well at school her and her friends gave me a note and it showed a kid that they found on the internet lil like me they put bunny ears devil eye brouls and a mustatch so then i showed the note to the yard duty then she might of suspended her i dont no if i should be HAPPY cuz i fell HAPPY rite now!!

P.S. IM in 5TH grade shes in 4th grade

2007-09-12 10:08:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Lately me and my best friends mom have been seeing each other under the radar, she is currently married, and a total knockout. We meet up with each other for late night rendezvous, candle light dinners and long moonlight walks on the beach. She wants to be with me and leave her current husband and whole life behind, how can she break this to her family, we are madly in love with each other and want to live a bonnie and clyde lifestyle together, how can she break the bad news to her husband of 23 years that she is going to leave him for a young exciting studmuffin like myself?

2007-09-12 10:06:42 · 16 answers · asked by raffy b baby 2 in Singles & Dating

i went to a wedding and a guest wore a white tube top dress that was soo white and she must have been 8 months preggo. hey I know how uncomforatable pregnancy can be, but shouldn't she have chose something else? Excused or Unexcused?

2007-09-12 10:06:37 · 29 answers · asked by ♥poppy honey♥ 4 in Weddings

My husband and I are going thru a divorce and recently my 3 year and 5 year spent the weekend with him. My 5 year told me that she slept in a room with the daughter of the woman's house they stayed in and that daddy slept with the little girl's mommy. I asked my ex about it and he said that she is lying. I didn't prompt her to give me any of the details and my friends don't believe she would just flat out say something like that. I believe my daughter but want to make sure this is not normal behaviour for a 5 year to make up something like that without being asked.

2007-09-12 10:06:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i have been together for 14 months and throughout the whole relationship, he'll ignore me from 1-3 days when a little issue arises. the thing is, it'll be something just as simple as me not being able to answer the phone because i'm busy and he'll refuse to listen when i try to explain that i couldn't come to the phone even though i call him right back about 5-10 minutes later. i'll call him hundreds of times, text him hundreds of time and i checked his voicemail because i feel crazy!! he just deletes the messages and doesn't return my calls, voicemails or texts. then a few days later, i'm absolutely stressed, i'm worried about the status of our relationship, i've apologized for not even doing anything wrong hundreds of times, i beg and plead for him to talk to me and he'll text me out of the blue and say "hi" and talks like nothing happened and sometimes if i question what it was all for, he'll say "well bye" and there's round 2! or he'll act like nothing happened!!!!

2007-09-12 10:05:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay ive been married for a few years and my husband has not worked since weve been together....long story short, he knows that i cannot afford certain luxuries and yet adds to the bills each month. To top it all off, this month his cell bill was far too much for me to pay and we talked about the fact that I could not pay it... I went to check my account to see what we had left and HE PAID THE BILL WITHOUT TELLING ME>...now my account is going to be so negative that i wont have any money to pay bills or take care of the kids as i need to...we have no other family and no other way to make it..He always puts this guilt thing on me by getting frustrated when im upset when he does this(not the first time)i changed my acct & I didnt even know he had access to it until I saw the payment posted...every time we get into it, it allways ends up being my fault and im the one to carry the guilt and stress when my kids needs arent met, he sleeps easy, im tired...i cant leave so what to do?

2007-09-12 10:05:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have recently split with my G.F. I work long hours which she could not adapt to. Is there anyone out there who might be interested in chatting on I.M. I am sincere and at the moment a little mixed up.

2007-09-12 09:56:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In her eyes ? or not only ?

2007-09-12 09:52:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If my husband calls me out of the blue(we have not talked in 9 months) and said that he has divorce papers that need to be signed and notarized by a notary public . Do I need to be worried? We have no kids. He said that he wants to marry is new girlfriend. Do I need to get a lawyer? I have nothing in my name its all in my sister name, so that he could not try and take my stuff.

2007-09-12 09:49:29 · 7 answers · asked by luvtohateyou 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Don't you think that getting to know someone more then marrying the devils or angel you know makes a marriage last long, as most people who marry before really knowing each other always get a rude shock. Sometimes love is not enough.

2007-09-12 09:49:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My B/f gave me a diamond ring as a gift for x-mas. It was NOT an engagement ring, etc. By PA State law am I required to give the ring back if we break up?

2007-09-12 09:49:22 · 7 answers · asked by Amy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently ran into an old friend on myspace, we started talking alot, phone calls, text messaging,emailing. He lives in NC and me in SC 4hrs away. we have since started a relationship since Apr-present. but he is a marine and has been deployed since july, we both were in fostercare as children and know each others struggles, we also both want to start a foundation for our families, something that most other families already have like family traditions, he has a daughter by a previous girl and i have a daughter too, his is 6 mine is 5. we both are tired of playing the field and are ready for marriage& another baby, he was not there for a lot of his daughters young life due to him just joining the marines. i was not there for about 1 1/2 yrs with my daughter due to me being in school and trying to get us an apartment and such, now we are ready to do it again and we both will be there 100% but he wont get home until Feb. and we just started talking in apr. is that to soon?

2007-09-12 09:44:25 · 13 answers · asked by becky1 1 in Family

in bed..It's the most hurtfull feeling I feel so rejected...and now I'm wondering what is wrong with me if he's not interested anymore.

2007-09-12 09:42:43 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The only time I am happy is when I am with my 5 year old son.
Money or even my husband can not compare to that happiness.

2007-09-12 09:42:29 · 14 answers · asked by Melissa T 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-12 09:42:12 · 7 answers · asked by LoViiN iiT 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I did " so that make me a fool right?

2007-09-12 09:41:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have not been driving for the past 4 weeks and im with a man that wants to marry me but he said he is not going to marry me intil i get over my fear of briges.i have not been on a brige over 5 years i can not live like this anymore tell me please how i can get over this i dont want to be a homebody for the rest of my life

2007-09-12 09:36:18 · 3 answers · asked by lil mama 1 in Marriage & Divorce