my boyfriend and i have been together for 14 months and throughout the whole relationship, he'll ignore me from 1-3 days when a little issue arises. the thing is, it'll be something just as simple as me not being able to answer the phone because i'm busy and he'll refuse to listen when i try to explain that i couldn't come to the phone even though i call him right back about 5-10 minutes later. i'll call him hundreds of times, text him hundreds of time and i checked his voicemail because i feel crazy!! he just deletes the messages and doesn't return my calls, voicemails or texts. then a few days later, i'm absolutely stressed, i'm worried about the status of our relationship, i've apologized for not even doing anything wrong hundreds of times, i beg and plead for him to talk to me and he'll text me out of the blue and say "hi" and talks like nothing happened and sometimes if i question what it was all for, he'll say "well bye" and there's round 2! or he'll act like nothing happened!!!!
2007-09-12 10:05:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like a manipulative ********. Tell him you can do without his childish mind games and if he carries on then dump him.
He will make your life a misery.
2007-09-12 10:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by Freddy Benson 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but you need to send that loser packing. He is playing serious mind games with you and you have not done anything that requires a begging apology. Life is not worth stressing and being miserable in a relationship. I am now 55 and would not ever waste my time in a relationship that stresses me, belittles me, or wastes my time. You will feel a zillion percent better when you do not have this miserable relationship in your life. He is very manipulative and not worth the trouble. Good luck!!
2007-09-12 10:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by Don Drapers woman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is a sticky situation. I know u don't want this advice but break up with him. If he ignores you for no reason then something isn't right. He might be 2 timing u and looking for excuses to not talk to u. Or he is really sensitive in a bad way.
2007-09-12 10:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should walk away. You don't need him. If you didn't do anything wrong, why are you begging him and going crazy? He'll just keep doing it to you. Just get rid of that headache and find someone else.
2007-09-12 10:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh-oh! not a good relationship, you really need to talk to him about this or else your relationship is going to fail, ask him why he does this and that you dont like it, you shouldnt be apolpogizing a hundred times...once or twice is fine but after that no more, he's just stubborn
hes thinking about himself only, if he ignores you then ignore him back, even if its really hard you have to do it, if you call him to apologize and hes mad then dont call him back wait until he calls you, he has to learn that its not all about him.
goodluck!
2007-09-12 10:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by cute as a button!.♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a boyfriend that use to do the exact same thing to me but he was actually a couple years older than me.He would ignore me over petty little things. It was very immature and he acted like he wanted me to approach the issue but when i finally did he acted like all was good. I realized that I wasnt crazy...even after convincing myself it had to be my actions that promoted his behavior...and he was the one that was absolutely nuts and craving too much attention. One day he began to ignore me because I got mad about calling his phone and his ex girlfriend answered and told me he was asleep the night before. He got mad at me because i was upset about his ex spending the night. I told him he was wayy to much for me to deal with and i broke up with him because he was causing me more stress than it was worth. Especially because when we were talking he never treated me that great to begin with.
2007-09-12 10:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by mezoconstante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not privy as to what your boyfriend have done for you in the past or present for you to put up with such a relationship; as well as for him to be playing ( Mind Games with your Psyche )
The choice is yours to make as no body should live in such a way at all just to say they have a boyfriend !
2007-09-12 10:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out with a guy like that and he messed me around big time! My self esteem went really low. I'd get out of that relationship if I were you and find someone who loves and respects you and treats you right.
2007-09-12 10:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's playing games with you...he gets off somehow by making you crazy like this. Like he is in control. He isn't ignoring you...he is seeing what he can get you to do. And you are falling for it.
2007-09-12 10:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just wants all your attention and no problems. He's no good if i were u he would long gone. Stop pleading him because thats what he wants and ur letting him walk all over you.
2007-09-12 10:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋