Family & Relationships - 9 September 2007

all of a sudden after 4 years he has been telling me this for a whole month....
i wonder what did i do this time..thought we fought a lot in recent months..absolutely nothing made him happy.
He wanted me to lose weight ...i did
i did exactly what he wanted..gave him space..
But still all of a sudden he did this...And i know after sometime he would come back if i call him again..but i want to be strong and not call him.
Still i am not able to understand why he is doing this.

2007-09-09 23:56:25 · 6 answers · asked by gloriosa_20 1 in Singles & Dating

every time i wash it with face wash it keeps gettin oily after 5 mins...help ...i'm 14

2007-09-09 23:48:17 · 6 answers · asked by coolgal 3 in Singles & Dating

yesterday around 8 my ex broke up with me. he suggested to stay best friends but i was too upset and ran away and said no. last night i was crying so hard.
how do i get over this guy?
he was my true love.

2007-09-09 23:39:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend was talking to me on the phone last night and asked me if it was ok if she went to a dance. We've been dating 3 months and she knows I'm not a dancer. But she said she's willing to teach me. But she didn't even ask me to go to the dance she just asked if I would let her go. You see I don't want to say NO and be a party pooper here, but sometimes I really do not trust her, it's sad to say but I have my reasons. and I worry a lot and get jealous easily. Mostly my fault, not hers. But I don't know what to do. I mean even if I'm not a dancer and wouldn't have gone to the dance, an invite still would've been nice. If she asked "there's a dance coming up do you want to go?" then I would've liked it more cause at least it shows she wants me to go. I really have NO idea on what to tell her. I want her to have fun but then again it worries me when she's out like that... what should I do? She knows I don't trust her sometimes. I need some advice here.

2007-09-09 23:39:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if so , are you happy to be older than him/her?and why?

PS:i'm the youngest but i always felt i should be the oldest! : )



~have a nice day~

2007-09-09 23:33:43 · 12 answers · asked by RoChEr 5 in Family

2007-09-09 23:24:44 · 15 answers · asked by rlozaa@sbcglobal.net 1 in Weddings

I hae not had a great emotianl time with my wife over the last few years, The flame has been put out by the Fire Service and without my consent. I do still ove her & want her but she has turned into a cold, dragon, life sucking, hagg like her mother.

The spark for sex, fun times, romantic meals is all gone which is sad. When i do get excited by her after we talk about life or old times and we have just finished a nice meal at home, she always knocks me back when i try to kiss her or touch her.

She says that i should have a gentle stroke and that i should treat her vulva like i was a magician trying to get a rabbit out of a hat.

In all honestly, if i was a farmer i would get my shootgun and flush out that bloddy rabbit!

How am i meant to change the habits of a lifetime when everything seems to feel wrong. I tried to listen to her but she has so few needs than meself. I have my own wanky needs and i am a little fed up of having to do it all myself. How can i reach her?

2007-09-09 23:21:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been living together for awhile although he is only separated from his wife. We have been trying to make things work, but it's tough sometimes. He recently overheard me talking with a friend about looking for another job in another state so I can start over.

He acted distant after that and ended up hanging out with his wife and her cousin and husband. Then last night, he came home and announced that he had to move home for the sake of his daughter. We talked about it for a long time, and I told him he should pack his bags and go back home. I even told him that I could move out while he is on a trip for work.

He said that he wants to do the responsible thing and go home for his daughter. I said they should just get divorced because this isn't healthy either way.

He said that he was convinced he was going home until he saw me and talked to me. He told his wife he would be back after he talked to me, but he stayed with me. Why?

2007-09-09 23:19:37 · 18 answers · asked by torn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 22 years old and i have a 6 month old son. When i started secondary school i met my best mate we were inseperable for nearly 11 years I evenm moved in with her and her dad when her mum left them, she was there for me when i was raped and when i was trying to find my birth parents she was so supportive through all the **** i went through and we always promised to be there for each other. when i was 19 i met a lad and started dating him after 3 weeks i couldnt even be in the same room as him he was too controlling. she got together with him and we stayed frinds for a while then she cut me out of her life totally. she saw my mum who told her i had a son and after 3 years she called and came over for 10 mins then left, i miss her but she didnt explain why she cut me out of her life! Why did she turn up for 10 mins after 3 years of not talking to me!?

2007-09-09 23:12:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

because I had been helping another firend with her baby that was in the hospital. I didn't want to hang out for long. She got mad because I wanted to call it a night so she started calling me a grumpy ***** and saying mean things. She drinks, I don't so she said I needed to drink so I would lighten up. She always has to have the final say and if I don't do what she wants then she gets mad and doesn'ttalk to me for a week or so. She thinks she is the best parent and her kids are so good. Frankly, I don't like to have my daughter around her much because she always screams and cusses at her kids. I don't want my child around that.. I did away with some back child support that my daughter's sperm donor owed. She reamed me for it saying I was stupid. I really want to say something to her but I know that it is going to cause a big scene and I dont' want that. She gets mad and cusses and says horrible things about me and others. Please give some advice..

2007-09-09 22:54:09 · 4 answers · asked by southern comfort 2 in Friends

i've posted some ?s the last few days about taking my own life. i wanted to say thanks for the comments it really helped me think about alot. i talked with my mom, some friends even this girl i'm really close too. u know the important people in my life. and after all that i've decided that i still want to. my friends don't take me serious and think i'm on something. the girl pretty much is rdy to sto talking to me. not cause i told her anything. i don't want her to think that i'm pulling some stunt cause of her cause it's not. it's more of a all around feeling that i've messed up so much in life that i will never have anything worth living for. when it comes down to it i'm a drop of water in the ocean. sure there will be a few people that will notice but the world wont stop. it will make the ten o'clock news one night and that will be that. another crazy kid in an ever more crazy world. i'm sry to everyone that i will let down. i want to be strong but i'm not. idont want to feel

2007-09-09 22:39:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are you therefore:-
1) A lady of leisure
2) full time mum
3) work part time

(I work part time - have 2 young children)

2007-09-09 22:38:49 · 18 answers · asked by Raine 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

its really simple question,i like this guy a lot,im crazy about him but i still don't know about his side.we just met 3 times.whenevr we meet he ask me to wear dark colours only.coz whenever we met im always in light colour dress.but i m hesitant to ask why he say so all the time.do u have any idea?sometimes he force me to change my dress from light to dark colour.why gals?

2007-09-09 22:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by mandy 1 in Singles & Dating

so
there was this girl. i really liike!
and she was a shy girl. so i ask and i ask ans she finally say ok
we go on the date.

i order for the both of us cuz shea too dumb to order. i tell the servant she couldnt read. and bring her cloth to puta round her neck to keep the dirty away.
and the servant brought her the traditional food of mya country
and we eat from same dinner plate.
and when we eat from same dinner plate i puta my hands on her ear and i say i love you i love you the shakepeare man say it, i love you abd then i try to make a cexy time with her an she say no i shy i shy. but then i make a cexy time when we eat from same dinner and the servant he laugh at me.

hjow do i puncsh out the servant?

2007-09-09 22:29:25 · 12 answers · asked by Alfie 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf and i were kissing in his car and when we stopped I was just sitting there for a few seconds when he goes "why do u have to leave"...it REALLY seemed like he wanted to get rid of me?/
would guys generally do this??

2007-09-09 22:29:22 · 18 answers · asked by kera 2 in Singles & Dating

I and my boy frnd have a relation from 1996 Jan. we r not disturbing another families. we meet after 2-3 days and on telephone daily for 2-3 hrs he help me financlly also bcoz he is so rich and i m a working lady middle class but he love me as he says. are we wrong or right i love him very much and cant live without him i love my hubby and children also too much i m now 39 and he is 52 yrs shud we go ahead or not please tell

2007-09-09 22:25:23 · 15 answers · asked by indian 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wondering.

2007-09-09 22:22:25 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I need some help here....I have this ex that has gone bonkers....
I'm sum up the bit.
I dated tiffany, tiffany cheated on me with a girl (after a rather anti-lesbian rant the day before) and broke up with me over the internet for her, cheated on her with my best friend, dumping her for him. all that aside, I moved away and she set me up with some guy online. he was realy a girl (online, remember.), tiffany manipulated things to break us up, and has threatened both her and I many times.

I reported her after she hacked me. but she's back, and BS'd my ex's family into spreading lies about me, saying I hacked her when I have a mod letter saying she was banned.
It got so bad that I had to quote laws to them to get them to stop. But, they are continuing to rub my name through the dirt.

How do I get them to stop without going to the police?

2007-09-09 21:24:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf of 3 months & his ex called it off over a yr ago & are still friends. She calls him weekly & they were still spending time together but unattached. Also he claims she is the only person he has loved. All of this made me uneasy, but then he went out of his way to introduce us to one another & told her all about us.
I guess I thought her knowing about us would mean she'd recognise us as a couple. Maybe she'd lay off some. But she continually calls him all hours, asks to dance with him when their at the same club & recently she sent him a msg saying she'd dreamt about the two of them being intimate (WTF!).
Can someone please clarify if this is going beyond the boundaries of friendship? Clearly she holds a torch for him, but I cant help that feel what she is doing is disrespectful to myself. She & I attend the same college, so I am constantly seeing her about & it grates coz I know I wouldn't do this to my ex-bf.
Should I do anything? or see if it passes? All thoughts appreciated.

2007-09-09 21:10:36 · 8 answers · asked by muylindas 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am asking this because my bfd and I are Christians of different religious backgrounds. I believe Biblically sex outside marriage is sin and he agree with me on that. But he believes that masterbation is not sin since it is not.He wants to roove it unbiblically which I don`t agree. He wants us to masterbate with each other which I consider it immoral. We have been dating for a year now, and he is relactant to take the next step. Is he afraid to commit or he is satisfy with materbation as he approoves of it? I am fade up of too longwaiting for him to take the next step because I made it clear to him what I want. Instead he want to move in with me as co-habiation short of relation whereby we either masterbate until we legally get married or what I don`t know.I also refused because I can`t move in with a guy before we are married.It doesn`t make sense to me.Can somebody out there help me what this guy is really realyy after?I am confused because I am about to tell him to back off!!

2007-09-09 21:10:12 · 5 answers · asked by SAW 3 in Singles & Dating

This past saturday was my grandmothers 67th birthday. we had a little barbecue over her house. We all having a great time when it was time for her to open her gifts I gave her a card.In the card it was some lottery scratch off tickets lucky sevens she like that game. My Gandmother has a good sense of humor so I figured I would buy a bag of depends for her as a joke that says Happy Birthday On It. I gave it to her she looked pissed off then sad. later on that night my parents are yelling at me because I insulted her. What the ****?

2007-09-09 21:07:09 · 23 answers · asked by joe s 1 in Family

been with my bf for 3 years now. we don't live together yet and i have 3 little girls part-time that he loves very much and often babysits for me while i run errands.

we've had major issues in the past b/c i have PMDD and wasn't diagnosed with it up until 3 months ago. i am now taking medication and saw a counselor for 2 months to learn coping skills. this was the first month that i was symptom free and our relationship was great.

about a month ago, we got into a HUGE fight (almost broke up) right before he left to go to his grandpa's funeral in chicago. this was one of many before i got better. he's taken space from me (last time was about 1.5 years ago and we actually broke up for 3 weeks). while he was in chicago-i called him but he didnt answer and i left him a voicemail but sounded angry to him when he checked it so he didnt call back b/c he said he would have broke up w/me. instead he called a girl from work. more below please read...

2007-09-09 20:59:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

l no its wrong but l don't no wht to do .My boyfrnd he is not from my country he says he marrried her to get papers. Am the one whom he does everything with. this weekend l run away from his house cause l don't no wht to do l think we don't have a future pliz tell me wht to do cause am so confussed. and my ex l told you guy about l saw him yestarday he said he want to fix things out .So we decide for him to come and pick me up at my house as he dosen't no were am staying l promised him l will call him but l didn't call him.one more thing l working for my boyfrnd in his business.plesa help me on wth to do

2007-09-09 20:58:26 · 17 answers · asked by holy 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys. I have had this girl for two months now and I cannot just have an erection for more than two minutes even after romancing. She is good but we just cannot do anything and now she thinks I have a problem yet I get an erection by even hugging other girls. What could be the problem? Any way out? For the girls, what is wrong with me or this girl?

2007-09-09 20:53:05 · 13 answers · asked by quorora 1 in Singles & Dating

Long story but my Nanna died over 10 years ago and my Dad (who I do not speak to)still hasn't put a headstone on her grave so my brother and I want to buy one. Just need an idea of cost before we sort it out. Help would be really appreciated.

2007-09-09 20:49:16 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf and i split months ago and i am not yet fully over him. Recently i've been seeing this guy but he sometimes seems into me then others he seems really half-assed and it gets on my nerves and i find myself wondering what he wants from me, as a result it puts me off, as lately i feel nothing but disappointment from guys, i feel like if i don't date anyone anytime soon i'll never get over my ex, and then i am happy to be single too, if you've ever been in my situation before what happened? Should i bother fighting for a relo that is so new already?

2007-09-09 20:48:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I am a virgin, quiet and will not give them sex till marriage. And also I like to be independent and even a simple act of walking and holding hands annoys me and I feel like doing my own thing. Or even an act of going shopping and having him hanging around stifles my independence. I am not autistic, just used to being independent and doing my own thing. I find men to be pains who try to change me and constantly are after anything sexual. Am I normal? I love my own splendid isolation and men find this hard

2007-09-09 20:43:04 · 11 answers · asked by ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

well i am 39 weeks pregnant and we had a very tough time in our relationship for past couple of months because of him and finally i am ready to move on. i want to know what can i do as soon as he walks in door to blow his mind away aside from BJ. i won't strip because of stretch marks olol. specifics please?

2007-09-09 20:41:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-09 20:31:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This just happened to me. My wife just had an exhibition. After the exhibition, one of her batch mates asked to take pics with her. He knew I was just there and he put his arms around her shoulders and she let him tho she was uncomfortable. I wasnt happy about it coz I felt it was disrespectful and she should have just brush his arms off. Btw, we are all asians. Am I over reacting?

2007-09-09 20:30:36 · 15 answers · asked by Kal 1 in Other - Family & Relationships