all of a sudden after 4 years he has been telling me this for a whole month....
i wonder what did i do this time..thought we fought a lot in recent months..absolutely nothing made him happy.
He wanted me to lose weight ...i did
i did exactly what he wanted..gave him space..
But still all of a sudden he did this...And i know after sometime he would come back if i call him again..but i want to be strong and not call him.
Still i am not able to understand why he is doing this.
2007-09-09 23:56:25 · 6 answers · asked by gloriosa_20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's life. Move on you will find someone who will appreciate you for you. He probably has more issues than you want to deal with now anyway. Just continue being the best you. Keep dieting and exercising and loosing weight. Get a new outfit or two. Start looking for a better job and or some new hobbies. Soon enough you will have so many new friends you wont have time to worry about him. Good Luck.
2007-09-10 00:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by ARM 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about HIS loss it's probably best that you move on and find someone who is worthy of your attention and affection.. If you were together for 4 yrs. that's tough but, it's NOT you entire purpose to MAKE someone happy it's to be happy together. I would TRY very, very hard to NOT call him and "pine" after him. Although I know that it will be tough he's a BIG part of your life and has "shaped" a very small part of you. I would try as hard as it might be to NOT think about him and try going out and doing things with your friends whom you've probably lost touch with and get your life going in the right direction w/o him. Sadly, he won't know what he lost until it's completely GONE from his life. I would NOT call him... There's usually a reason for his "needing space" and it's best just to let a DOG go ! So, go ahead have yourself a good cry, pack up all his junk and put it away and go on with your life.. In time you will have his memory but, be a stronger person w/o him.. Good luck and be well.
2007-09-10 00:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not your loss. Its very hard to move on but you have to. As of now dont try to understand the sudden twist of your bf...Someday you will find out the real reason.
2007-09-10 00:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by Zsaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Details r mandatory...when asking imp. questions! 4 yrs. ...fine, lost weight..ok, PINING/ YEARNING/LANGUISHING IS NOT OK! Unless u r hideous looking & he's a super stud...surely it can't be so 'P'thetic...Stand up princess, do not disgrace u'r nobility-'the fairer sex'- shed the tears BUT ONCE & FOR ALL! Dear DAMSEL IN DISTRESS....DARE NOT CALL HIM OR EVEN THINK OF DOING SO....IT'S A SIN...BLASPHEMY! Do this & wait few weeks & then watch....'The return of the door mat.'
2007-09-10 00:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some things are better left alone, in this case say it was not your fault, if you did all he wanted and he still pushed you away, this says a lot about the person he is, love does not live in that house anymore.
2007-09-10 00:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by sword_maker_samurai 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u lost weight for him? that's so sad. he doesn't deserve u. he's sounds like a total dirtbag. get him back and go with someone else.
2007-09-10 00:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋