I am asking this because my bfd and I are Christians of different religious backgrounds. I believe Biblically sex outside marriage is sin and he agree with me on that. But he believes that masterbation is not sin since it is not.He wants to roove it unbiblically which I don`t agree. He wants us to masterbate with each other which I consider it immoral. We have been dating for a year now, and he is relactant to take the next step. Is he afraid to commit or he is satisfy with materbation as he approoves of it? I am fade up of too longwaiting for him to take the next step because I made it clear to him what I want. Instead he want to move in with me as co-habiation short of relation whereby we either masterbate until we legally get married or what I don`t know.I also refused because I can`t move in with a guy before we are married.It doesn`t make sense to me.Can somebody out there help me what this guy is really realyy after?I am confused because I am about to tell him to back off!!
2007-09-09 21:10:12 · 5 answers · asked by SAW 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whats the big deal, I think you both need to release some unwanted tension to make the relationship stress go away... It sounds like both of yous are sexually frustrated to me and there is nothing wrong with masturbating, it is completely healthy to do..
2007-09-09 21:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm a Christian too although i hardly agree with all this sin part. Sin is to kill sb, to hurt sb, to be evil,to tell a lot of lies and all that. I can't consider the pleasure from sex a sin whether it is outside a marriage or not. I don't saythat you shouldn't believe in god but try to be logic ,you don't hurt anybody if you masturbate with your bf. It's just unnecessary details of the religion that priests has thought. Jesus never talked about these things. Your faith at god is the same regardless of what you do with your bf.If you really want to masturbate or do sex do it and forget the sin part , just try to be happy and find a balance between religion and everyday life. If you don't want to masturbate or have sex because of yourself or maybe you don't trust so much your bf stop hiding this things with the religion. Please don't reject your bf because of that. You are together 1 year you shouldn't throw him away because of that.
2007-09-09 21:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by ....................... 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm not possitive but i don't think masterbation is a sin, as a matter of fact its good for u to masterbate because it helps the prostate especially if u sit a lot and maybe its just his body telling him he needs to help his prostate. so let him crank one off and give him a hand.
2007-09-09 21:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by robert d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal, everybodys doing it everydays...
This is not sin or what..
If u do sex easy with everybodys then that is sin..
So, play "M" is normal for adult, as long as u never betraying ur lover...
Good Luck...
Cheers....
2007-09-10 20:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by WindWalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sry but ewwww jacking off should just be done alone.
2007-09-09 21:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋