yesterday around 8 my ex broke up with me. he suggested to stay best friends but i was too upset and ran away and said no. last night i was crying so hard.
how do i get over this guy?
he was my true love.
2007-09-09 23:39:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
date one of his friends... ;)
2007-09-09 23:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, he was your ex-? AND he dumped you yesterday? Or is he NOW your ex BECAUSE he dumped you yesterday? I guess it doesn't matter it still makes you feel sad/depressed and that's ok.. Though he may be you TRUE love today that doesn't mean that he's the only one for you... Give yourself some grieving time look at old photos, mementos etc and in time hopefully you will move on.. I really, really suggest puttting things that remind you of him away somewhere... It's NOT that good to dwell.. However, you might want to write "him" a letter even if you never intend to send it about how you feel and just get it all out... I know it's tough but, things DO happen for a reason and it's best to move on... He may have been your first love but, maybe NOT "the one". So, play some sad break-up music or watch a sad movie and cry until your eyes dry out and pick yourself up and go out with your friends... That's what they are there for and I'm sure they miss you... Take care and be well....
2007-09-10 06:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll come back if he's really your true love.
just relax and enjoy your life.
you're still young, aren't you?
your life is still a long wayyyy to gooo!
i know getting over someone is a really though thing to do, but still, you must remember that you've got a life to do. you must not waste your life away just for a guy. you have friendssss!! they're precious, even more precious than a boy friend (even though you think he's your true love..)
i believe that soulmate wont come and go! =D
be strong!! jiayo *^^*
2007-09-10 07:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by little red <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling try doing things to distract you like go out with your friends and watch a movie, or focus on something important like your family life. I found out hanging out with my mother helps when having boyfriend problems.
2007-09-10 06:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well be his best friend, better to have him in your life than not at all?
Could also take some time to get over him but move on find another one =)
Maybe make him jealous? :O
kehehehee!
2007-09-10 06:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all go thru this at some point...
it is to teach u not to love anyone MORE THAN U love ur self...
yes, it is crushing...
you will survive it.. even tho it does not seem like it..
hang with ur g/f's as much as possible... stay busy... and try to make new friends...
i am sure u feel like someone is tearing ur heart out...
good luck..
2007-09-10 06:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so so so sorry to hear that :-( that is really hard, especially when they say the "lets be best friends thing"...like they honestly dont get that having to see you date other girls adn tell you about it because youre now best friends is the most awful feeling...i would give him, and YOU, some space...hang out with your girlfriends alot it will help...
if you really feel he's teh one and is making a mistake, though, i would fight like hell
2007-09-10 06:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by lilmamaOH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a day at a time...allow yourself to go thru the whole healing process, you will be fine in the end without him :-)
2007-09-10 06:50:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't allow your brain to think about him by always keeping yourself bussy with something or other.
2007-09-10 06:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by Internet addict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are young and will find another true love.
2007-09-10 06:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋