I hae not had a great emotianl time with my wife over the last few years, The flame has been put out by the Fire Service and without my consent. I do still ove her & want her but she has turned into a cold, dragon, life sucking, hagg like her mother.
The spark for sex, fun times, romantic meals is all gone which is sad. When i do get excited by her after we talk about life or old times and we have just finished a nice meal at home, she always knocks me back when i try to kiss her or touch her.
She says that i should have a gentle stroke and that i should treat her vulva like i was a magician trying to get a rabbit out of a hat.
In all honestly, if i was a farmer i would get my shootgun and flush out that bloddy rabbit!
How am i meant to change the habits of a lifetime when everything seems to feel wrong. I tried to listen to her but she has so few needs than meself. I have my own wanky needs and i am a little fed up of having to do it all myself. How can i reach her?
2007-09-09 23:21:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if u really want to save this marriage.
. go on your own to a sex counselor and learn some new tricks...
u have not found the g spot.. and she is not gonna tell ya... don't be embarrassed...millon of men are in ur shoes...
(as for the other lady will get tired of u too after a while if u don't no... sure she will fake it for a while...)
but ur wife loves u... she doesn't want to go there after all these years and not get hers...
men are so simple to do..women aren't... u have to work at it in order to please them.. but once u do.. she will want it as much as u...
you asked?... i answered... !!!
2007-09-09 23:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Which David Copperfield?
2016-04-04 00:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't happy and are too lazy to work for it, get out and leave. Why all of the bitc#ing? You sound like a whiny little kid. What's the matter, don't know how to follow directions. There is nothing worse than a fumbling idiot in bed. If you can't do it right learn how. If you don't want to learn how, quit!!! At least quit bitc#ing about it.
2007-09-09 23:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to romance her, and make her feel loved. She wants you to be gentle.
She doesn't want you to say, lets go do it., she doesn't want sex to be rough, if you have rough hands, maybe it hurts when your touching her in those sensitive areas. She doesn't want a wham bam thank you ma'am. That's what she's trying to tell you.
Think of HER and her feelings and needs before your own. You sound like a VERY selfish person who's only thinking about what he wants and needs and not about his wife and her feelings and needs.
Try thinking about her, and listen to her, and talk with her. Who knows, you might actually get some results that your looking for, but DON'T expect them. Do things for her expecting NOTHING in return. It's called UNCONDTIONAL LOVE!
2007-09-09 23:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what she is saying is disappear that what David and Blane do
play some games(talk dirty on the phone ) /tell her you love her send her flowers
buy her new dress take her to some were nice and make her
confidence shine if she feels better maybe you will
you can only try don't give up
if all fails do a blane
2007-09-09 23:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blah blah blah you're starting to rant. Stop trying to cover your poor excuse for a husband routine with a whole heap of crap.
What ever happened to being an estate agent who got his leg over the other woman.
2007-09-09 23:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
go back to wineing and dining her, re-in-act your first night as a couple courting, take her to the same place or try to buy the same things as that night, pay her lots of compliments tell her she looks nice. be gentle with her don`t over do it but reassure her. good luck its not all about sex, but the fun back into love making :-)
2007-09-09 23:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by sara d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try reading 'mars and venus in the bedroom', that will explain where you are going wrong.
2007-09-10 02:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wasn't you just cheating on you wife with a client! you deserve everything you get
2007-09-11 03:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another pathetic attention seeking pack of lies from this idiot.
2007-09-10 00:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by mainwoolly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋