its really simple question,i like this guy a lot,im crazy about him but i still don't know about his side.we just met 3 times.whenevr we meet he ask me to wear dark colours only.coz whenever we met im always in light colour dress.but i m hesitant to ask why he say so all the time.do u have any idea?sometimes he force me to change my dress from light to dark colour.why gals?
2007-09-09 22:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by mandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a girlfriend who only wore jeans I asked her to let me see her in a dress it's no big deal he seen you in all light colors now it's not gonna kill you to wear some dark colors one time.
2007-09-09 22:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like he is into dark colors. I wouldn't worry about it, but you mentioned he forces you to wear dark clothes every time you met. Well may be he is in some cult? I don't mean to insult you or him, but maybe he is and doesn't want to tell you. But still wants you to get into these things. I don't know. If I were you, I would ask him. What this is about. Me it is just a simple explantion. Maybe he likes black on you or he himself is afraid to wear dark close. Sometimes guys are weird. I would say, ask him. So you know for sure what's going on with him.
2007-09-10 05:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is why are you letting this boy change you to someone you are not. You say that you are the one crazy for him yet you do not know if he feels the same way, yet you will let him force you to change you dress.
I would encourage you to not get involved with this boy, be who you are, do not change for some guy just because you like him. Be yourself.
2007-09-10 05:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by laurie o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BIG RED FLAG!!!! Anytime they start telling you what to wear, there are going to be other problems. Tell him that if he wants to date you, you will wear whatever you want. It's clothes now, the next thing he will be telling you who you can be friends with, where you can go, etc... That is the sign of a controlling person. You really don't want to even see him. I promise it is going to be big problems later.
2007-09-10 05:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sound's domaneering. Dark colour's,he doesn't want any one to see you. he force you what will he be force you to do next. I would wonder about this.I agree with alot of the answers above mine.He's mean and obtrusive.
2007-09-10 05:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from this man! He's a manipulative jerk. He'd tell you to change anything just to see if you'd do it.
Take my word for it: This is a bad sign, and he is even worse news.
2007-09-10 05:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by Ciaoenrico 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
l think he is trying to hint that your clothes are not that fashionable so he prefers you in dark coloured clothes, then again this is a guess why not raise this for discussion with him and see what he says..
2007-09-10 06:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by judie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because he thinks you will look better in darker colours, or that he just wants to see you in something else.
2007-09-10 05:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I think you need to have a talk with him about this "wear only this color around me" bit. You shouldn't have to put up with that. I find it very silly, actually.
2007-09-10 05:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by aliengirl83 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps his former girl friend wore light clothes, and he don't want to be reminded of her.
2007-09-10 05:41:28 · answer #10 · answered by joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋