Family & Relationships - 9 September 2007

2007-09-09 15:06:52 · 9 answers · asked by blaster1426 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Any suggestions?

2007-09-09 15:06:18 · 54 answers · asked by ritaferron 1 in Family

ok, my aunt and uncle on my stepdads side got a divorce. that may not seem that bad, but they were like my second parents. my mom and stepdad are usually busy with work. and my aunt and uncle were the ones who took me to do fun stuff, gave me advice about growing up. my uncle especially. (hes 28) he didnt treat me like the avarage teenager. he understood that i wasnt like every other girl who cared about hollister or boyfriends, or popularity. (no offense to girls who do, its just not me). and we LOVED listening to old greenday together. he taught me a couple of their songs on guitar and everything. and now that they are divorced, i dont get to see him anymore. only my aunt. it really hurts my feelings becuase whenever i listen to my greenday cd i start crying and wishing that i could go back in time. i know it sounds sappy but whatever. i really miss seeing his band in concert and hanging out.

what can i do to get over it or to at least comfort myself?

2007-09-09 15:00:17 · 6 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

My neice and nephew were in an unhealthy environment - everyone on husband's side knew but noone did anything, everyone just accepted it and tried to help. The oldest is now 3, and nothing has changed, no matter how much help has been given.

I finally called. It seemed the right thing to do for the kids. Should I tell my husband or not? How would you feel if you were him, and if you were me?

2007-09-09 14:56:32 · 11 answers · asked by Magaroni 5 in Family

She is extremely verbaly abbusive and occasional physicly abusive even though I do everything I can for our family. She is also manipulative and great at lying.

We have 3 kids and a house. I know for my sake I need to get away from her, but I am afraid of how our kids will turn out.

We were seperated for a year and in that time I saw the trash that she invited into the house.

Im stuck between a rock and a hard place. What do I do

2007-09-09 14:55:50 · 34 answers · asked by That Guy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I "supposedly" dropped my dads laptops mouse on the ground outside, which i didnt....well, my mom says that if it was all scuffed up, that i had to buy a new one. She looked at it, saw one mark thatd been there for quite a while, and blamed it on me, and said she was going to take to the 200 $ that i gave her for my car payment, and take 60$for the mouse, and pay the minimum payment on my car....please help........why wont my parents believe me?? they wont listen to me,,,and everything is always my fault when i never did anything.........please help.............please please help

2007-09-09 14:55:22 · 2 answers · asked by lil_danca06 4 in Family

How many people have done an early wedding and later reception? How did you handle it? Many Catholic churches do not allow weddings later in the day on Saturdays because of afternoon masses. Thanks.

2007-09-09 14:53:54 · 15 answers · asked by brwneyes 6 in Weddings

were there ever any days that you ever doubted that they were your soulmate?

2007-09-09 14:53:53 · 9 answers · asked by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got a job at a grocery store store about a week ago that I realy wanted to work in for a long time and I noticed that the guys and girls that work there are very shy to me and its worse for the girls and i'm starting to get a little ticked off because I try to be friendly but they treat me like I'm a nobody or just ignore me but with the other guys there all chatting and flirting with them but not me, and even some are dating eachother and going out to parties and stuff but they don't tell me to come.
Why is this like how it is?
Will it change?
tell me what you think will happen

2007-09-09 14:51:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I am staying in different places because of our job. This might continue for some time like another 4 months. We recently got married. He told me yesterday that i dont listen what he syas, i dont love him and this that. I got upset and angry, I said i do and why is behaving like this. We had a upsetting talk, as I was hurt by that and I guess he was upset too. Then I had to cool down again and asked why he is doing like this to me, he said he misses me so much that when he go outs he feel bad looking at other couples. I said then he should not come and talk to me like this rather he shd say he missed me. But I am upset the way he behaved or talked. I do love him, but I am not able to handle him when he behaves like this. Plz help if this is normal in marriage. How shd I handle him? Wht shd I do? I cant really leave my job noe he. We both r in very very good job and well settled in our career. What shd I do? Plz help? What shd I tell him? At the end he said he loves me.

2007-09-09 14:50:22 · 9 answers · asked by jenni 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like just got divorce and she was the one that left him and last night a kind of made out with him. I just talked to him and everything seemed fine. I do think that this is a very slipper road I'm walk on. What should I do? I can't help that I like him. Believe me I have tried really hard to stop.

2007-09-09 14:47:58 · 16 answers · asked by lex83201 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Just curious....

2007-09-09 14:47:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If your ex-g/f of 10 years played with your heart for a third time and because you truly loved her and you took her back AND then it ended and she went back three weeks later to the person she cheated you with, what would you do?

She cheated on me and got pregnant. I forgave her. She got an abortion. I forgave her again. We made love many times. I took great care of her for those three weeks, again, and was the perfect friend.

She owes me $1500 bucks. I am the ONLY one who knows about the abortion. If others knew no one would want anything to do with her again. If she doesn't pay should I tell everyone about the abortion? I am not angry that she left, I guess that was a blessing. What I am now angry about is something she did, which would take too much space to write.

So, what would you do? Just let it go? I guess I am stupid BUT put yourself in my shoes for a few seconds please. Thanks.

2007-09-09 14:47:09 · 5 answers · asked by cappatown23 3 in Friends

I've seen some of the worst bulling come from the blonde haired, blue eyed little girls! Often they've socially bullied their victims into total peer alienation if they don't get their way! It also seems their parents FEED this to the child, and can't be reasoned with. (aparently they've spoiled her...like moldy and rancid milk.)

The boy that is a little more than average height and weight, who bullies (it's actually rare I ever see this stereotype) tends to be easier to understand and have very cooperative parents in behaviour modification.

What do you think?

2007-09-09 14:46:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If your ex-g/f of 10 years played with your heart for a third time and because you truly loved her and you took her back AND then it ended and she went back three weeks later to the person she cheated you with, what would you do?

She cheated on me and got pregnant. I forgave her. She got an abortion. I forgave her again. We made love many times. I took great care of her for those three weeks, again, and was the perfect friend.

She owes me $1500 bucks. I am the ONLY one who knows about the abortion. If others knew no one would want anything to do with her again. If she doesn't pay should I tell everyone about the abortion? I am not angry that she left, I guess that was a blessing. What I am now angry about is something she did, which would take too much space to write.

So, what would you do? Just let it go? I guess I am stupid BUT put yourself in my shoes for a few seconds please. Thanks.

2007-09-09 14:46:44 · 8 answers · asked by cappatown23 3 in Family

sigh...well I guess that the whole world's full of counselors but not a single one can help me with my situation

Mom: sigh where to start....well she's a good cook but that's about it....the most important thing about her is that she is someone who doesn't play fair (during arguements, it would usually start with my mom accusing me of something, then I would explain back to her about this and that and then she would have no more to say but doesn't want to lose her pride...so for the next few hours, she would just keep accusing me in front of my dad).

Dad: man.....this guy is one of those guys who had to get from poor to rich (from old China to the U.S.) he does not like to argue, in fact he is scared to argue (now don't get me wrong, it would usually start: me and mom would argue, he would interrupt saying he's going to call 911 then he would talk to my mom and tell me that im gonna have to back off or else he's gonna have to "stab both of us in the neck to make us shut up"

2007-09-09 14:46:00 · 4 answers · asked by Andy 2 in Family

Is it normally before university/ collage or some time after or is it like a long time after highschool, or after highschool...? When is it normally?

2007-09-09 14:45:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

heres a pic http://www.analogstereo.com/images/om/ford_ranger.jpg

just wondering, thanks.


o and assume the guy is normal, not a jerk, just look at the car not the guy, thats not the point of this question its not about the guy lol.

2007-09-09 14:44:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just think about my ex boyfriend so much. And i'm trying to go out on the weekends and meet people, but i always end up just thinking about him. I can't seem to get out of this funk. Any idea to help?

2007-09-09 14:43:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad left right before i was 2 years old and me and my mom wanted to try to get child support money from him but he lives in mexico, we can contact him but is there any we can get like back owed child support? if so how much can we get? its been 14 years he never paied

2007-09-09 14:42:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-09 14:41:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-09 14:41:03 · 30 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy at school who I used to be close friends with, until he disrespected me by touching me sexually. When I told him I was upset about it he only made it worse by making vulgar comments to me. The whole thing seemed really out of character for him. Before this, he was always very protective of me. He flirted at times but I always thought it was understood to be in good humor. This was before the summer.

I didn't talk to him for months, but the other day I saw him at school. He approached me in the library and was looking over my shoulder. I took off without saying anything.

The thing is, if he apologized I would forgive him right away. But he won't. I miss our friendship, and I don't want any hard feelings-- but what he did was wrong. I know a lot of girls would be flattered or would laugh it off, but I'm not like that.

What can I do to possibly make things right? Should I just leave it alone? Or should I confront him?

2007-09-09 14:38:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, me and my fiance have been together for almost 5 years. During part of that time, it was a long distance relationship. During that time, he asked other girls out on dates. They declined, but had they said yes, they would have gone out. I was under the assumption that we were exclusive, I never said otherwise, and I called him my b/f and we told each other we were in love with the other. He says he didn't consider us being exclusive at that time. But he never told me that! I'm upset that he doesn't see anything wrong with that. He says now that we're engaged to be married, marriage is sacred to him and he would never attempt to be with anyone else. But I told him, what if later down the road he decides not to be exclusive anymore? Am I right or wrong to be upset? also, others have told me that he went out on a date with someone else after I moved here and the long distance part was over. I disregarded it b/c he said he never did anything after I moved here, but now i'm not so sure

2007-09-09 14:36:11 · 3 answers · asked by BlackDahlia 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can I deal with very annoying mother and father inlaw???

2007-09-09 14:32:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I feel in love with someone's daughter. She's an energetic young girl. like her a lot. I'd do anything for her. I like playing with her and answering her questions. I even think about how nice it would be to help her with homework or pick her up from school. But she's my friends girlfriends daughter. He doesn't like to play with her at all. I guess he isn't good with kids. Why do I like the daughter? Is this a sign that I want a family of my own?

2007-09-09 14:26:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-09 14:23:57 · 12 answers · asked by MINNIE MOUSE 1 in Family

ok, so there is this guy on myspace that goes o my scholl, and we had pe last year together, but he doesnt remember what i look like, but he's seen me this year a cople times so he kinda knows what i look like, but we've been talkin on myspace all school year and i think he likes me and i like him back, he keeps complementing me and like sayin im sweet and that kinda stuff, but im worried that if he kows what i look like he might not like me,but when i check my myspace, some one wrote i love u babe on my fridge, and i think it was him,but im not sure, i hope it was, cause i really like him and m friends say they think it was him, but anywho, my friends say were a good mach and i like him alot but i dont know what to do, can someone help!!!!!!!!

2007-09-09 14:23:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently a guy I'm dating told me I kiss very sensually, what does he mean?

2007-09-09 14:20:00 · 2 answers · asked by Bored Latina 2 in Singles & Dating

I was just thinking about this so I decided to post this question do you think that some couples get everything handed to them a quick courtship a home material things an easy life? Where there are other couples had to wait a very long time to get married and earned the right to be married and also struggle?
Do you think everyone struggles in marraige including Christians?

2007-09-09 14:19:18 · 5 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Marriage & Divorce