sigh...well I guess that the whole world's full of counselors but not a single one can help me with my situation
Mom: sigh where to start....well she's a good cook but that's about it....the most important thing about her is that she is someone who doesn't play fair (during arguements, it would usually start with my mom accusing me of something, then I would explain back to her about this and that and then she would have no more to say but doesn't want to lose her pride...so for the next few hours, she would just keep accusing me in front of my dad).
Dad: man.....this guy is one of those guys who had to get from poor to rich (from old China to the U.S.) he does not like to argue, in fact he is scared to argue (now don't get me wrong, it would usually start: me and mom would argue, he would interrupt saying he's going to call 911 then he would talk to my mom and tell me that im gonna have to back off or else he's gonna have to "stab both of us in the neck to make us shut up"
2007-09-09 14:46:00 · 4 answers · asked by Andy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That sounds like you are in a scarey situation. My suggestion would be to read How to Hug a Porcupine. You are definately in this situation. It is very informational and will tell you all about how to deal with this and cope with this. Good Luck!! My mom is just like that. It does help.
2007-09-09 14:55:13 · answer #1 · answered by debepta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is probably just a bored control freak. As you grow up, she is losing control of you. I don't expect things will get better until you are out of the house.
Talk to your dad about maybe finding you a part-time job after school 3 days a week, just to get you away from your mom. You can study at friends' houses or at the library to keep your grades up. Just make sure you keep your grades up and do any assigned chores at home to stay out of trouble. You dad is a clever guy and can probably help you with some good advice on this.
Do what you can to get through school with as little static as you can.
2007-09-09 21:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to a teacher or other trusted adult and see what kind of help you can get with family counseling or just plain being removed from their care. It's pretty immature for a mother to sit there and argue with her child and repeatedly falsely accuse him of things. Your father should never threaten you with physical harm and saying he'll stab you both in the neck is just plain psychotic! Get help! Good Luck.
2007-09-10 01:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by brutally honest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is actually "terraristic threatening" and illegal. And don't even bother to stir up your mom with arguing with her cause you know what happens..........
if it's not important ...don't argue...go to your room.
God bless...............
2007-09-09 22:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by cecstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋