Why do many people believe a 'bully' is a boy?

Question

I've seen some of the worst bulling come from the blonde haired, blue eyed little girls! Often they've socially bullied their victims into total peer alienation if they don't get their way! It also seems their parents FEED this to the child, and can't be reasoned with. (aparently they've spoiled her...like moldy and rancid milk.)

The boy that is a little more than average height and weight, who bullies (it's actually rare I ever see this stereotype) tends to be easier to understand and have very cooperative parents in behaviour modification.

What do you think?

Answer 1

They are called Queen Bees: Mean girls who bully other girls. They aren't new, but more and more people are taking a stand against it.

Girls aren't typically the bullies who beat each other up on the playground or steal milk money.

The Queen Bees use social savvy for what some call "relational aggression." They use friendships as leverage and sometimes as a weapon. They get other girls to spread gossip.

Read More:http://www.azcentral.com/families/education/articles/0226edgirlbullies0226.html

~faith

Answer 2

When I was about 14 years old,there was a female bully at my school (Althea). She bullied everyone,including me!. She basically wanted what eveyone else had (lunch money,candy,etc). I use to give it up,to keep from her hitting me. (Now!) One day I decided that I was'nt giving her anything else,and she said she was going to kick my a.s.s after school, (But!) I ended up kickin hers!. After that,she wanted to be friends,but I did'nt,and she never bullied anyone again. (THE MORAL OF THIS STORY?)
Stand up to a bully!. Ignoring them makes them think your afraid of them,and they keep bothering you.
(Note:) Althea passes away a few years ago, and now her daughter is a bully!. Looks like the apple did'nt fall to far from the tree.