If your ex-g/f of 10 years played with your heart for a third time and because you truly loved her and you took her back AND then it ended and she went back three weeks later to the person she cheated you with, what would you do?
She cheated on me and got pregnant. I forgave her. She got an abortion. I forgave her again. We made love many times. I took great care of her for those three weeks, again, and was the perfect friend.
She owes me $1500 bucks. I am the ONLY one who knows about the abortion. If others knew no one would want anything to do with her again. If she doesn't pay should I tell everyone about the abortion? I am not angry that she left, I guess that was a blessing. What I am now angry about is something she did, which would take too much space to write.
So, what would you do? Just let it go? I guess I am stupid BUT put yourself in my shoes for a few seconds please. Thanks.
2007-09-09 14:47:09 · 5 answers · asked by cappatown23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do not tell anyone about the abortion. Being a guy, you have no idea how that feels and trust me she is punished enough by herself for that without any help from you. I'd just let her go and move on.
2007-09-09 14:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by clcs12780 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not stupid, you're a compassionate person, and since that's the case, you have to ask yourself what would a compassionate person do in a situation just such as this. Gossiping about the abortion would get back at her in a manner of speaking by tarnishing her reputation (maybe deservedly so), but it would also say something about you that may be counterproductive to you. It would speak of pettiness and bitterness that is uncharacteristic of the gentleman you've represented yourself to be...in short, it would diminish you in ways too numerous to mention. So, though it is a difficult pill to swallow, I'd take it on the chin and let it go if I were you. Living well is ultimately the best revenge. Your reward is still ahead of you in the person who will appreciate you for the qualities you embody. You had to see the bad to fully recognize and appreciate the good. Here's to the day you find her. Keep the faith, and good luck to you.
2007-09-09 21:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In some places abortions are illegal so just blackmail her by saying if she doesn't give you the money, you'll report her. And if she still doesn't, just sue her I guess if you have the evidence. But don't actually tell anyone about the abortion that can ruin the poor girl forever.
2007-09-09 21:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by Im out for dead presidents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell anyone just black mail her for a short while and shake her up until she gives you you're money back
but, if what she did was mean and it hurt you shun her
2007-09-09 21:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by prissymiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
diffent categorie idiot
2007-09-09 21:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋