Family & Relationships - 11 September 2007

2007-09-11 23:48:08 · 9 answers · asked by bipin s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-11 23:33:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-11 23:30:17 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you or your partner been unfaithful (once, not an affair)and you either stayed together or got back together?

If so, how did it work out? Could you trust each other again?

Was the third party someone you both knew?

We are in a long-term relationship but not married.

2007-09-11 23:26:01 · 9 answers · asked by Sammy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-11 23:22:08 · 18 answers · asked by Intellithug 3 in Singles & Dating

Well I'm going out with this guy who is totaly sweet and pretty cute. We decided to go out with each other yesterday. The thing I'm worried about is his best friend who is a girl. I learned she had told him she liked him and he said he liked her back. This was about two days ago. My friend said he still likes me more and now were going out like I said before. His friend is a major drama queen and can get anything to go her way by being this way. I'm afraid she'll get upset about us going out and then start a scene. And like another time with one of her friends, she ends up going out with the guy because he felt bad. I really don't want this to happen I like this guy so much. What should I do if she trys this stunt?

2007-09-11 23:21:19 · 1 answers · asked by Glossy Hair 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

jenny is pretty and nice, we like each other, sex is wonderful but I cant give her my heart

she has ex boyfriend she is still connected to him emotionally.she hides something to me .sometimes she lies to me not to hurt my feelings but i feel hurt.

she tells me she misses me everyday but I cant believe it..I once told her "I dont believe you, I really want to love you
but I CANT,its very desperate feeling" she replied " I tell you the truth " STILL i dont believe her but we are great in bed.

I say to myself
"If I am happy beside her why do I have to question her
making myself miserable, I know I cant love her without trusting her.but why my heartt needs that kind of trust?"

If my tongue enjoys fine wine why do I v to question its genuine french or not?

humans are fickle , what the hell is trust when it comes to love?

2007-09-11 23:13:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or party

2007-09-11 23:08:59 · 2 answers · asked by Lia♣ 3 in Weddings

my boyfriend is a successful dj, he works in different clubs around the country every weekend, he has loads of fans who adore him, most of which are girls. They are all over him when they see him, hugging and kissing him, wearing clothes with his name on etc. it really didnt bother me at first but lately i its starting to annoy me. And its really boring for me if im with him, and loads of ppl are hogging him, i dont usually know anyone so im bored out my face, while he is getting flogged.
im starting to feel a bit paranoid cos there are so many good looking girls who want him. what shall i do ? dont suppose there is any cure for paranoia is there

2007-09-11 23:03:14 · 5 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-11 22:57:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-11 22:52:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-11 22:51:05 · 13 answers · asked by Christi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this girl in my class....and well she knows my name and stuff...but we've never spoken
anyways...i wanna go out with her ....and i dont wanna spend so much time getting to know her .....casue last time i did that with a girl...i turned into her best friend.....
anyways....if i just asked her out, out of the blue
wat are my chances?
1%?
10%?
50%?
100%?
i dunno

2007-09-11 22:50:03 · 19 answers · asked by -{s0c}- 2 in Singles & Dating

when we have sex, that I always initiate, how come 99% of the time does she keep her body turned to me, never wanting to do it face to face? why when she is just "helping me out" or "finishing me" is it always one handed, reaching back towards me because her body is turned? Sure, these are dumb questions, the answers are quite obvious I guess, written down like this. She says "its not you, its me" and of course just recently admitted to having feelings for someone else and doesn't know if "we'll make it".....but when I leave she cries and wants me here, but when I come back it's only good for a week or so...then it's back to this. SO, any women out there done this? Weren't you just not 100% sure if you were making a mistake or not and not wanting to be the one who ended it? Is the best thing for me to do just walk away...make the decision for her, that she's obviously too afraid, for whatever reason, to make herself??

2007-09-11 22:37:13 · 20 answers · asked by Timothy M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-11 22:29:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My grandfather passed away on Monday and I'm having a hard time dealing with it. I last saw him in hospital at the end of last week and he was pretty bad and we were told he may not pull through the weekend but it doesnt feel any easier even though I was kinda expecting it. Any family members that have passed away in my life have all been when I was under 11 yrs old so it had a different effect on me back then

Now I keep getting an overwhelming rush of sadness and my insides feel so heavy that I can hardly breathe then I just breakdown. He was my last grandparent and it feels like then end of an era. Will it get easier after the funeral? How do other people cope with death...

2007-09-11 22:20:17 · 17 answers · asked by j~h~c~s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

When we got married 20 years ago, I had a house with a mortgage of £17,000 and 2 sons from previous marriage, he was single and had nothing but a degree in his pocket. He worked part time for years whilst he furthered his education and we hosted students in our house. I had a full time job and other book-keeping jobs plus looked after our daughter and the home/students, but he did his fair share too.
We then purchased a house together and rented out my house. We paid off the mortgage on it. For 10 years he had half of the rents from this house. Today he has a good job and earns lots of money. He said that the fact that I never offered to put his name on my other house is a sign that I don't love him and is very upset that I want to leave the house to my children when I die. The one we have together goes to him when I die. He asked me to give him £15,000 because he helped pay off the mortgage which I did but resented doing. He says my attitude drove him to have an affair.

2007-09-11 22:03:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Given a chance to choose in times of crisis and special situations, who will you choose??

2007-09-11 21:59:55 · 16 answers · asked by ma edna h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What would be the proper word to describe someone who has cheated on his wife with yours and has completely turned your kids against you.

2007-09-11 21:43:10 · 12 answers · asked by DemondRider 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This has been going on for a while now and i just dont know what to do anymore. The problem is that my husband snores and he doesnt even realize it. How can this be? It has gotten so bad that I've actully had to go and sleep in another bedroom just to my rest. I am 8 months pregnant and im so disgusted and i just need some advice to what to do about his loud snoring. I went to sleep at about 12:30 mid and i was woke by his snoring at about 2:15am and ive been up ever since. I hate having to get out of bed and go into another room just to find a good nights sleep because i love my husband and it feels so lonely when ever i do this. I even wake him and tell him to stop but he will stop for like 5-10 minutes and then start right back up and even much louder. I wake up crying because Im so frustrated and tired and i need my rest, my husband is my joy but when he snores like this im very upset with him. What can i do? I no longer want to sleep by myself in another room and i shouldnt have 2

2007-09-11 21:28:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I do not understand the older women younger men dating, and makes you think it is all about SEX.
I think older men and younger women make more sense, and make you think he has MONEY.
People will say why a double standard, here is why.
Most the time the older woman has kids of her own, hopefully a career. Yet they will date a man who is 21, with no career, no life experience. But he has a functional penis.

So you want to say you in 40s have something in common with a 20 year old? Doesn't that comment make you look bad. If men mature slower than women? If that places him in kindergarten as you graduated high school? How sad to be 40 and have common interest as a 20 year old boy?

2007-09-11 21:01:10 · 2 answers · asked by G1rL1nLA 2 in Singles & Dating

I am married t o a guy I've been with for 7 yrs married for 3.I thought I loved him enough to marry him but maybe not.He has always been a lier but he has always taken care of me and our 4 children 2 of which are not his.Aout 2 years ago I caught him doing inappropriate things to my teenage neices they never complained because they are very nasty girls.He said he would never do it again but when they come around he avoids me and them and he did come close to one of them again after he was so called saved.He is very secretive and has since started to treat my kids bad,my 11 yr old is a very pretty girl big for her age I am afraid that he will one day touch her.I am a christian and I hate to just leave my husband but i need to think of my kidsOther christians say stay worldly pple say leave .I dont love him and we daont have sex but I guess I'm just afraid to be alone with the children.Help!

2007-09-11 20:40:05 · 15 answers · asked by Lynboges 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If so, what were the circumstances and how did you react? Thank goodness I didn't catch my husband in the act. It wouldn't have been worth it but I would have probably been on the 10 o'clock news for acting a complete fool.

2007-09-11 19:34:25 · 11 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

we have a couple that have been our best friends for years, we're all married. my best freinds wife started to wear reliving tops with no bra. she has great boobs so I can understand that she is confident but.. when we all hang out together you get a eye full, not just a little bit I mean the whole rack nipple and all! to be honest it makes me really uncomfortable.I try not to look but when its right in front of your face its pretty hard not to. I mean its my best friends wife! I thought about approaching her. but I didn't know how to approach it ,what do I say "hey nice breast how about covering them up thanks.. " so instead I spoke to my best friend telling him the truth about how I felt about the whole situation. did I handle it correctly or should I off just spoke to her? I found out they han a huge fight over it, that was so not my intention.

2007-09-11 19:28:15 · 30 answers · asked by Cooter 3 in Marriage & Divorce

... are you afraid they will stab you just because their hands are touching you back?

2007-09-11 19:16:27 · 9 answers · asked by Alice in Wonderbra 7 in Friends

I currently own the house that I live in, it is heir property, given to me by my aunt in 1977. I was divorced and remarried in
2000. My husband is 14 years younger than I am. He has given an ultimatum to make a will leaving my home to him if I were to pass away instead of leaving it to my children. His parents have pushied him to making this decision. He has threatened to leave me if I don't make this will. I feel that because he did not buy this home that I should not give it to him. I believe that leaving the home to my children is a better decision. What are you opinions?

2007-09-11 18:56:33 · 16 answers · asked by jenn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I know that she finds me attractive. She is phillipino, and another woman I work with who is phillipino has told me about her and I told the lady that the girl is cute. She is so shy and doesnt speak to anyone. I have tried to innitiate conversation, but she just wants to read her book in the break room. WHen I told the lady, that the girl was cute, later that day she gave me eye contact twice. The next day I tried talking to her but she was only interested in her book. I even tried asking her questions about herself and she just gave me a yes or no answer. How do you get a shy girl to open up? I know that she finds me attractive bc I have seen her looking at me in the corner of my eye a few times, but she wont look at me if I am looking into her eyes. What can I do to get her to open up?

2007-09-11 18:54:43 · 8 answers · asked by Peter P 2 in Singles & Dating

In the context of marriage - how many secrets are allowed.
How do you decide where the boundaries are? Who decides? Discuss

2007-09-11 18:52:30 · 8 answers · asked by flip 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have heard that American girls are the most easy-to-get for sex. Is it true?I am not sure i just heard it. Is it really true?

http://nomarriage.com/fd.html

2007-09-11 18:52:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My other half thinks I don't give enough affection. What sort of affection do I need to give besides kissing, hugging, and making love?

2007-09-11 18:49:24 · 14 answers · asked by jake6969jake6969 1 in Marriage & Divorce