Family & Relationships - 11 September 2007

It's not illegal or harassment in the state of Alabama acccording to the lawyer we spoke with today. This was in response to an aswerer (Confused) of a previous question I asked by the way.

2007-09-11 17:27:00 · 7 answers · asked by weezie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If your ex cheated on you several times, got pregnant, left the other guy, came back to ex, got an abortion, left the ex for other guy, then came back, and then left AGAIN, all while the ex is the only one who knows about the abortion.

Would you tell the person she cheated on you with about the abortion?

2007-09-11 17:23:56 · 12 answers · asked by cappatown23 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this girl on an on-line dating service , and over the course of a month we were talking on the phone a lot and went out a few times. We connect on every level and are very compatable. I knew right away I wasnt overly attracted to her but since all of my past girlfriends were really attractive and they didnt work out, I figured i'd go for the compatability thing. Well, now we've slept together once and she calls & texts me all the time and is making all sorts of plans for us. I really dont know how to handle this, she is super sweet and I know she has fallen for me & I dont want to hurt her. I could probably deal with not being totally physically attracted to her, but I really didnt enjoy the sex. And just so you know, I didnt initiate the sex, but I didnt do anything to say no. Im in my 30's and am triing to have a cautious approach to a realationship, im not triing to play games or sleep around, I just wanted to know all about it. Its not what I want. How can I not hurt her now?

2007-09-11 17:13:06 · 28 answers · asked by CrAzY D 2 in Singles & Dating

she says that she does love me , but she needs time to learn and trust me completely.we been married for 2 years and have two kids. Does she have to trust me completely or am i wrong in telling her that if she doesn't that i will divorce her

2007-09-11 17:07:57 · 14 answers · asked by hope is never lost 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 17 years old and I go to high school and I must say I REALLY REALLY LIKE my History teacher! he is the funniest, most kindest and caring guy I have ever met! He is just wonderful! I don't find him sexually attractive but I just want to spend a lot of time with him..... he is more than double my age....
is this wrong?
THank you for any help!

2007-09-11 17:00:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anna G 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, my boyfriend is perfect. except im 16 and he's 23. were trying to have a baby. he's everything i want. he stands by my side, and i stick by his. his best home boy got into a bad fight last night, so i was the one in the bathroom pulling glass out of his arm. i cook, clean, do his laundry, and take care of him. he supports me, physically, sexually, emotionally, finantialy, ect.

i moved into his house because my dad beat me so bad and kicked me out.

my boyfriend is my life.

should i get married?

2007-09-11 16:57:05 · 6 answers · asked by WHITE*GIRL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he grabs my hand & drags me out the room.
he had a depressed look on his face so I asked him what was wrong, and he replies "you confuse me" and kisses me.
well, why is he so serious? was it because he was really that interested in me?

2007-09-11 16:56:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok....thiere is this guy and hes not so cute,but really nice and kinda annoying and i really dont want to go to homecoming with him! He asked me and i said if i go he will be my first pick but i tottaly dont want to go with him!?!?! How do i tell him in a nice way i dont want to go with him?

2007-09-11 16:55:06 · 25 answers · asked by lynz 2 in Singles & Dating

I was born in 1992 Macedonia. But that was called Yugoslavia before that technically macedonia became independent in september that same year. So am i born in yugoslavia or macedonia?

2007-09-11 16:54:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok so i kinda feel like venting a lot about this situation. i called this guy up because we'd been chatting on the internet and i figured he was too shy to call me. I leave him a message saying hey and asking if he wanted to hang out. he calls back and says ya id "love" to hang out , when? so i call him back and tell him when im available but he hasnt callled me back..or even tried to get in contact wiht me. i dont know if its something i did. I even tried leaving hima message on aim but he apparently ignored it... is this guy nuts or am i. is there any explaination for this? so confused/ really annoyed. aagh....

2007-09-11 16:50:06 · 5 answers · asked by snowflake14u 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-11 16:49:05 · 2 answers · asked by marcus 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a person had something happen to them when they were younger, something that they find hard to talk about or even want to acknowledge, should that person ever tell the person they are in a relationship with?

2007-09-11 16:48:31 · 2 answers · asked by MiltonGuy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I will be turning 16 years old this Sunday on the 16th.
I haven't had a boyfriend, neither a first kiss. >-<
Friends of mine have all had their first kiss, and share of boyfriends. (They started dating what in grade 7-8)
I just feel like the awkward, since I'm the only one of my friends who hasn't dated.
I’ve not rejected anybody, due to the fact I’ve never been asked out.
I think possibly because I’m quite shy plays a part in it.
It’s not like I want to have my first kiss with someone joe blow that I don’t love or care for,
I want to have a relationship with a guy and I want it to be special and meaningful
Anyways I'm blabbering on.

I just think I'm a ‘late bloomer’, I'm just dating-challenged, or I have been cursed because my parents were popular in high school and dated many people. Haha

Anyways,
If I do like someone instead of “the guy approach girl” thing, should I approach guys?
Or
Should I just enjoy the rest of my teen years, and just wait for the right guy to come along?

2007-09-11 16:47:28 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-11 16:47:22 · 36 answers · asked by bal 1 in Weddings

how can you find out what model mobile phone someone has that you cant ask them yourself?

What other methods can you do to find out?

2007-09-11 16:47:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-11 16:47:20 · 10 answers · asked by trippinggirl88 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think this gives them a vibe of you or something??

2007-09-11 16:43:06 · 1 answers · asked by J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've recently moved to a new, much smaller city so that my husband can complete his Bachelor's Degree. The city's population is predominantly Caucasian & Christian. We are African Americans of the Islamic faith.
My daughter is a very social girl (pre-teen). She's made many friends in our neighborhood, but not at school (she's in middle school & the children in our neighborhood are either in elementary or in high school--so none of her schoolmates are neighbors of ours).
Being a small town, everyone seems to know everyone and cliques have long been formed. My daughter is being left out. She tries & tries, with no avail, to make friends. She's never had this problem before. She's a SWEETHEART & everyone always LOVES HER!! Honestly, she's TOO nice--the people pleaser type.
The only time they let her with them is when they wish to be cruel. They make her the butt of every joke & they cheat to make her lose & they mock her & completely ignore her when she speaks to them! How can I help

She ends up quitting & "takes a walk" so they won't see her cry. Now they won't let her play at all. This has happened a few times already & it's just the 5th day of school! She cries every day as she walks alone (she doesn't let them see her cry). And she fights back tears on the bus & during breakfast because no one will sit with her. Please, any advice would be wonderful. How can I help her?

2007-09-11 16:42:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 17 years old. I live with my mom and sister. My parents recently got a divorce and i suffered from being in the middle of it. I don't have a relationship with my father anymore and my mother moved me away from my friends and loved ones to a city where i know no one and it is my last year of high school. Since I am 17 I am legally allowed to move out at this point and I am miserable living here. My mother doesn't do much real mothering she's just kind of there to complain to me sometimes, but other than that I'm pretty much independent. My boyfriend is 20 [yes my mother knows he is 20] and I have been with him for two years. He has two jobs and makes good money and offered to let me live with him. Would that be ridiculous of me?

2007-09-11 16:41:34 · 45 answers · asked by thespacebetween727 1 in Family

My best friend's boyfriend was talking to a girl he used to date, on Myspace. (She doesn't go to our school.) My friend is not the jealous type, but you can imagine she was a little nervous. Then, he announced that he was going to New Jersey for the summer to visit his dad. One day my friend was on Myspace, when she saw her boyfriend and this same girl, talking like she was going to New Jersey also. So my friend casually asked her boyfriend if it was true. He completely denied it. He said that she was NOT coming. In the end, she DID go to New Jersey. He would rarely call my friend, and once he was bragging about how drunk he was getting and how much fun he was having with this girl. My friend started to get aggravated, but she kept her cool. Then, one day he called her, saying the same old stuff he always said. She got fed up with it and asked him if she could trust him or not. He replied: "I can't garuntee that I'm NOT going to cheat on you. I'll probably be too drunk to care."

2007-09-11 16:41:09 · 6 answers · asked by Care Bear 2 in Friends

Ok so my friend told me this grl alexa was talking about me and i wanna know if i should confront her or let it go this girl is a complete loser and im so mad....she doesn't even kno me so what gives her the rite to...........ughhhhh this is driving me mad

2007-09-11 16:34:06 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently found out that my husband is using drugs. I left him because of this. I told him that he is not allowed to see our daughter until he gets a lawyer and the courts say I have to. They cant order me to let him see her if he is on drugs anyway (right???) I do not want my daugher (she is 2) around a drug user. I know that he can not legally come take her from me but what about when she is at my mothers house? I work and am in college and my mother watches her for me. I can not afford to work less (especially now) and want to continue my education so I wont have to worry about "getting by". At the same time I do not want to have to worry about him taking her from my mothers house. I am also 6 months pregant and do not have money for a divorce or any kind of legal work. He also basically emptied my/our bank account (without me knowing). WHAT SHOULD I DO????

2007-09-11 16:33:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been going out with this girl for about 10 months now, and last night i find out that she has been lying to me about who she is and what she does for a job entirely. she is very pretty and young.compared to me that i am older and divorced. she told me she is french-japanese, and working in finance. but last night i accidently bump into her email find out that she is chinese and university student. i really loved this girl and she really loved me. even my parents really liked her. she explain the reason she lying to me is worry that her nationality and being a student wont make us a chance to be together. the love we had for each other was reality. my parents ask me to kick her out, but i dont know if i should forgive her this time?

2007-09-11 16:31:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My childrens biological father was recently relised from prison. I gave birth to my twin daughters while he was in prison and he is not on the birth certificet. The children have my last name, and live with me. The only thing that he has is a paternity test stating he is the biological father.

They have never met their father. I have been supporting them and we do not have a child support agreement as of this moment. We do have a court date in Oct for child support to be set up.

What I am wondering is does he have any custody toward the children? Can he come and snatch them up from day care if he finds out where they are and I can do nothing about it? Do I need to go and file for custody for my children and state what visitation I want him to have if any? I live in california.

2007-09-11 16:28:21 · 12 answers · asked by kila537 4 in Family

Hi: I am planning on renewing our vows in november, but i have a problem and i would like some advice... my mom wanted me and my husband to renew our vows for our 10th wedding anniversary and we have everything taken care of right down to the wedding rings... now my mom is in the hospital having undergone some extensive hip surgery and she has to go to a rehab center to recooperate... she is going to be 83 yrs old in 2 weeks and i was wondering should we postpone the renewal ceremony or should we go on as planned???? she will be home by then but i am torn as to what to do... if u can help with the advice please let me know... god bless u all and thank u for the answers...

2007-09-11 16:26:01 · 29 answers · asked by THE UK WILDCAT FAMILY 10 6 in Weddings

My Husband & his Ex still claims to love him and also talked alot on me and how i'm not the right one and she doesnt know me at all..and His family still talks to her & probably about us...

2007-09-11 16:23:09 · 16 answers · asked by peachcory12 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Dating for 1yr, my girlfreind and I are in recovery. 13 yrs. for her,19 mo. for me. Divorced for most of her sobriety. Recently her ex has also wanted to get clean and sober, and now attends the same meetings we attend. She's very good at helping anyone who is willing to help themselfs. Her ex is part time employed. She offered him odd jobs around her house to help with monies. Her ex does not have transportation. My girlfreind cares for disabled children and cannot leave her house in the evenings. We talk at night via Instant messaging. One night she messaged that her ex was going to stay the night. I replied:" I did'nt need to here that". She asked If I trusted her. YES I do! Next day we go to her mom's for BBQ. She invited her ex , then told me. Later we dropped her ex off. It was a strange and odd feeling to me. Not in anger but now knowing I was upset, I told her that I would have asked her approval 1st if the roles were reversed. She hasn't spoke to me since, but I've tried.

2007-09-11 16:23:02 · 4 answers · asked by david 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband works so much that some days I don't see him at all.. he's such a hard working man and I love him for that but I miss him. we never have time together it just sucks! I've said a few things to him . like I told him I missed him but he doesn't say anything back... so here it goes I've been having dreams about different men, in my dreams we're kissing and all and I love having these dreams.. pretty sad huh?? I don't get much action from my husband so I'm relying on my dreams? this is not normal.. any suggestions ??

2007-09-11 16:22:59 · 16 answers · asked by sue s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Keyser Söze was a character in the Usual Suspects.

Basically, he was like the guy behind the curtain in the Wizard of Oz. The reputation far exceeds the actual man.

I've met a few Keyser Sözes.

2007-09-11 16:21:45 · 1 answers · asked by Question Monster 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Say, my spouse asked me to commit suicide while I was very ill. Or I try to love and care for my spouse but my spouse does not seem to treasure it. Or my spouse gives terrifying responses even when I says something which is plain and not meant to be hurtful. Or ...

2007-09-11 16:20:56 · 14 answers · asked by curious 1 in Marriage & Divorce