Ok so my friend told me this grl alexa was talking about me and i wanna know if i should confront her or let it go this girl is a complete loser and im so mad....she doesn't even kno me so what gives her the rite to...........ughhhhh this is driving me mad
2007-09-11 16:34:06 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Walk away from it,it's not worth the hassle.
2007-09-11 16:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey kiddo one way of looking at it, and a pretty mature way actually, is to realize that if she is indeed talking trash about you then she is saving someone else's skin. Besides by the time this news got to you that she was talking about you the real story has probably grown quite a bit and gotten exeraterd a lot. If you feel that you can talk with this girl in a honest and open and mature manner then it would not hurt to confront her and ask what she has been saying about you and why. But if you think you may be in need of an anger management course before or after talking with her then don't waste your time as it could become ugly. This girl might actually be saying nice things about you and may even want to befriend you. It doesn't sound like you are too keen on gaining a new friend with her though so just let sleeping dogs rest. Soon enough there will be someone else who is being talked about. Besides in reality if you were to be 100% honest about things there are many times when you have probably spoke of others when in fact you shouldn't have. Best of luck and fact is that I do kinda hope that you speak with her and find out that she isn't such a bad kid afterall and then the pair of you do become (something none of us can have too many of) friends.
2007-09-11 16:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. She doesn't know you, you don't really know her. Anyone that believes the crap she is spewing isn't worth worrying about. She isn't worth worrying about. I'm sure you've heard that bullies pick on others to make themselves feel better, right? Well, the same thing goes for gossip. People start and spread it to make themselves feel better. So, you know who you are. You know that what she says isn't true. Yes, it is frustrating, aggravating and really you just want to SCREAM, but what's the point? It won't change anything. Be the better person. At the end of the day, you have to be able to look at yourself in the mirror and be happy with what you see.
2007-09-11 16:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. You catch more bees with honey. Don't stoop to her level. If you confront her than people may think you are just a big of loser you say she is. Think about it. Besides is she really worth your time? Good luck
2007-09-11 16:41:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is people talk. it is really no loss to you at all unless she is dragging down your name and if this is true then I would confront her. Like haven't you talked about anyone before? I bet you have. We all have. So it is freedom of speech unless they are putting you down to others and this is against you personally and can affect what others may think of you. So.. if this is happening then I would certainly confront her and ask her why she was doing this..
2007-09-11 16:44:07 · answer #5 · answered by craft painter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you might be hearing is gossip..plain and simple.
Maybe nothing was said about you...how can you know for sure something was said unless YOU heard it.?
Wouldn't you look like a complete dumb a s s confronting an Innocent person?..You don't know her..sh doesn't know you...Do you really think she is spending her time talking about someone she doesn't know?
And..if she is..she is the dumb a s s..
let it be...
2007-09-11 16:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's such a loser then why are you letting it bother you this much? DON'T its not worth it to be mad over nothing. if the loser doesn't like you she doesn't like you. you cant be everyones best friend it just doesn't work that way. and plus girls hardly ever get along anyways. dont sweat it k. . . . good luck
2007-09-11 16:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes a loser dont even acknowledge her. If you just ignore her then she will look like even more of a loser. If your friends say what are you going to do say "I dont think she is worth the time of day" or "She isnt worth a second of my time" something along those lines will frustrate the **** out of the loser
2007-09-11 16:41:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, by the way your acting it sounds like you really value her opinion! Don’t give a damn. The next day you go to school keep your head high in the air, have fun with your friends and completely ignore her!!! You don’t wont to show her that you care, do you? So ignore her. If somebody ignored me and “MY” opinion I would be furious!
2007-09-11 16:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by Me M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This immature girl obviously has nothing better to do with her life and someone as low as her shouldn't be trying to start anything stupid or anything she can't back up.
She's not worth your time, she's really not worth anyone's time. I'd feel bad for anyone that gets sucked into her own personal drama because nothing ever happens to her in her pathetic life.
2007-09-11 16:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give her the time of day. My question to you is if your friend is really a good friend, what is she doing around Alexa anyway..Don't waste your energy on Alexa
2007-09-11 16:44:52 · answer #11 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋