Family & Relationships - 11 September 2007

I hear he likes me and wants to ask me out . He pulled my shirt and saw my bra and i pulled it back up and got red cause I was embarresed .I am not like really chesty and I am not flat either . (I am 34B btw) . My "friend" started calling me insecure . I know he is a virgin . He always flirts with me . I am a freshman in highschool. I don't want to flash him . But I know he wants to ask me out is that so he can get in my pants or is it because he really likes me . (He didn't pull my shirt that low on purpose i just backed away it went farther down and he walked a little when i got it back up)

2007-09-11 11:33:59 · 15 answers · asked by curious.asker 1 in Singles & Dating

OK so me and my boyfriend broke up and now were getting back together! but we are going to concluling dose anyone know if it will wrok? i mean we both need it but does it really work?, it is worth the money? help me!

2007-09-11 11:33:55 · 1 answers · asked by Tiffany 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my fiance have been through a lot this summer are are really rocky to say the least. We nearly broke up all summer. We live together and he left for days at a time b/c things were not good and we were fighting a lot. Anyway... we agreed that we would try to work it out and if we feel the same way in 30 days, then we break up. I'm just finding it so hard to put my best foot forward in working things out when I'm so sad that we may not end up together. We have been together for 11 years. I can't picture my life w/o him. I never thought it would come down to this. He doesn't seem to be making ANY effort which also really upsets me but if I say anything he gets really mad. Any advice... what should i do?????

2007-09-11 11:31:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey. Well things have just gotten worse in my life. I'm very young, a teenager. And a lot of times I just can't find a reason to get up, and try to make something of my life. I know I'm young, and I won't know exactly about what I want in life, but I'd like some advice on why to live. See, my sole purpose for this last decade and a half of my life was to look for this "soul mate" i thought i had. But of all the people in the world, would I really find that one person meant for me? I know I'm looking for a fairytale, and now that I know that, I don't see why I would keep on trying just for me to end up dying alone with a very lonely existence....help, advice please. Ive never heard a success story of true love, the ones ive heard are in fiction books....can you give me advice and tell me why you live and love?

2007-09-11 11:31:13 · 4 answers · asked by Caboose the vechile destroyer 3 in Singles & Dating

I told a girl that i liked that i liked her then she siad that she deosnt like me for certian reasons that she told me and its understandable,and she said that she wanted to stay freinds,and then i told her how it didnt hurt,cuase i just got rejected by my first love and i really loved her *** scince november of 04 every scince i was 12,and that i still love her and i dont know why my heart tells me shes the one for me,then after that i wrote her again,and then asked her if she liked me a agian,then she replied how it just isnt the reason she gave me,becuase shes wiating for her first love to come running back and say sorry,and shes just focusing on school and school only,i wonder if shes lying about that ****

2007-09-11 11:29:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-11 11:27:33 · 15 answers · asked by C Deezy McCain 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Today the guy I like found out that I'm stalking him by searching for his name on the internet and looking at his pictures (not actually following him around, appearing behind every corner he's in, etc.) He was telling me things about his self that I already knew and he was surprised...well he asked if I am stalking him so I admitted it. He just smiled and continued our conversation which lasted quite a long time. As the day ended I said bye to him and he winked. I guess he wasn't creeped out, was he?

2007-09-11 11:26:07 · 9 answers · asked by Chained 1 in Singles & Dating

I just went to an interview for a professional entertainment company-and by professional entertainment I mean fully naked stag party professional-. I'm wondering if I should do it because of my boyfriend.

Should I accept this job? I saw it in the paper that they will train but the guy that I interviewed with(the owner) says I just need to grow out my hair dye it back my original color(which is dark brown), gain some self-confidence and tone up my body. I'm okay with that much dancing in front of guys and what not. What's got me worried is the photo shoot. They do like completely nude shots, lesbian things, masturbation. I'm okay with the dancing part, I just don't know if I should because of my boyfriend and because of the photo shoot.

The more and more I think about it, the more and more I want to do it. If I were single it wouldn't bother me so much but because I'm dating someone, I'm worried about what will happen to our relationship. Some of you might flame me but i need advice.

2007-09-11 11:25:01 · 5 answers · asked by breathe_in2687 1 in Singles & Dating

Have u ever felt that u just dont belong to this world? Like u werent meant to be a part of this world. I mean, ever since u remember, rarely anything has gone right? You always end up hurt and stressed, no matter what u try to do? No ,I'm not being dramatic, this is a serious question. Need serious answers. Thanks in advance.

2007-09-11 11:22:21 · 1 answers · asked by trish 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend told me how this guy tried to make out with her, but he didn't want a relationship. They knew each other for YEARS, & it seems like all he wants is 1 thing from her, but he gets into relationships with chicks he barely knows & then breaks up with them after 3 or 4 months. If he's attracted to my friend, then why does he just wanna get in her pants? Why does he just wanna be friends with benefits with her, rather than having a long term relationship?

Why do people rather have long term relationships with people they hardly know, but they just want a 1-night stand with people they know a long time. I know they say that it would ruin a friendship, but what if this guy was to become the daddy & have to pay child support? That friendship would be over.

2007-09-11 11:21:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-11 11:21:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My BF moved from atlanta to get away from an abusive relationship. Shes been my bf for 18yrs. My husband and I decided to let her stay with us until she got herself together. She has been living with us for close to 9 months now. 3 months ago, we were all having a little drink and strange things started to happen. We had a 3some. Since that time we had one at least 2x's a week. Things started to get strange and I became uncomfortable, so I called it off. No More 3somes. last week my bf confessed to me that she was in love with ME! I told her I am not a lesbian & I love my husband. I told my husband about it & he then confessed that he was in love with HER! After hitting the roof about this, my BF then tells me she is pregnant! By my Husband! :( She actually wanted me and her to raise the baby. I want her 2 get abortion but she wont. As it stands, shes in love with me, pregnant by my husband, hes in love with her and Im still in love with him. what am i going to do?

2007-09-11 11:10:06 · 51 answers · asked by Simply Beautiful 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was babysitting my brother on sunday I went to change his pamper. He was fighting me all the way not listening to me I let him stay In It. My mom came home six hours later went to change him he got a real bad rash. Now I'm grounded cant go out next weekend. I suggested to my mom maybe babysitting wasn't for me she feels I did It on purpose to get out of babysitting. I wanted to change him but he was running away from me. He didnt want to stand still its only a rash no big deal. I get rashes all the time I survived. I was doing her a favor by watching him. He was sitting in a dirty diaper. GOD It's not the end of the world she should be grateful.She's ungrateful mother that has nothing better to do but ***** at me!

2007-09-11 11:08:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my sister needs advice cause she likes 2 guys and she doesnt kno who to chose and she says dat one is popular and the other one is not vutshe doesnt jno who to go with,shes 10 years old and their 10 years old too and voth of them like her!! please help my sis! p.s da v im my keyvoard doent work.

2007-09-11 11:05:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I also pay for 2 kids cell phone bills and clothes as well as whatever else I can afford. A perfect example was that my ex did not send my son with all of his Little League equipment so I went out and bought it the day before which is fine with me.We seem to get along better lately and I want to continue things that way for the kids sake. How can I tell her diplomatically that I do not have to give her money directly except what is required and that I will buy them the extras that they need when I can afford it.

2007-09-11 11:04:44 · 39 answers · asked by paco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here is the thing she works and does pay 100 dollars a month in rent, but she goes out drinking and stays gone all night and also goes and spends the weekend with her male friend. Now I have a 15 year old daughter at home as well and I thought that no matter how old you were that the rules still applied??? It really really bothers me that she is staying out all night and spending the nights with her boyfriend while living in my home. Tell me how I go about telling her that if she is going to live here she can not do those things?

2007-09-11 11:03:59 · 9 answers · asked by Sheila C 2 in Family

Would you date someone who is poor? Would you be willing to support someone who has no job?
Do you put money away into savings and stay on top of your finances while he spends everything he has and doesnt have a thing to show for it?

2007-09-11 11:03:48 · 8 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 48 year old male , been married for 21 years. The divorce is almost final how ever we can't seem to come to an agreement on our assets. I want to move out. What should I do? It scares me to think aboute the dating thing all over again.

2007-09-11 11:03:38 · 9 answers · asked by pd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-11 11:03:25 · 8 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend lives a 1000 miles away and she has been hanging out alone and smoking pot with this other guy. She tells me that they are just friends and I trust her, but I can't help being extremely jeolous and bitter about the whole situation. The more I think about it, the more frustrated I get. I love her sooooooo much. I've told her how I feel and she just reassures me that it is fine. I don't want to shound like a over-protective jerk, but I think that I should be her number one and not Brandon.

2007-09-11 11:00:22 · 1 answers · asked by cooltyler2001 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter lives with her father and she really wants to leave. He doesn't provide for her and doesn't take care of her. ie. taking her to the dr. or dentist...
She is now having extreem difficulties in school, mostly due to him not providing her with new clothing and supplies. I have contributed to her new schoool stuff but only half to see if he would provide the rest.
She wants to leave his home and live with me (2 hrs away). I want her to be with me, but have no extra money for a lawyer, but will get it if I have to. I just want to know what I can do immediately, given her age.
I have let things go for a while because I think her education would be better where she is, but it's not so important that I'm willing to let him continue to neglect her. I will do whatever I need to do at this point.

2007-09-11 10:54:10 · 5 answers · asked by witchhayzle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-11 10:43:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I really want to spend the rest of my life with him but he doesn't want to marry me. How do I turn his heart around?

2007-09-11 10:38:46 · 12 answers · asked by Autumns Mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i come from a family where none of them got a divorce in their life time and it kinda make me nervous because i have trust issues.now at present i live with a girl and she asked me to marry her and i also love her very much and we have been together for only six months.if we get married now incase if she cheats on me in future i will definitely get a divorce but my question is,is there any possibility that i will loose half of my assets eventhough she cheated on me after the divorce ,well i know how courts side with women if there is a child involved ,what will happen if we dont have a child at all.i really need an opinion on this issue .coz i earn 5 times more than her and i also have some assets from my family inheritence too whereas she dont have anything like that coz she is an orphan.

2007-09-11 10:37:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this college girl that I like at church who is very close to her family. We are not dating, but friends. She was mad at me for emailing her and asking her family stuff! We haven't really talked much. Her dad told me it was bc we are both shy and just to take things slow. Well, we got in a little argument last sunday and she told me to speak to her, but to stop emailing and calling her family. She said there is no problem and she didn't appreciate me making one. ...but still everytime I walk in, her brother and sister (both younger) keep staring at me, but she completely avoids eye contact with me. ...and her parents are exceptionally nice to me even after what happened. Its really hard to give more details without writing a book, but why might things be this way? I thought she liked me, but now it is seeming like she is rejecting me!

2007-09-11 10:36:42 · 1 answers · asked by 80srock 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to die by drowing :( wat about u?

2007-09-11 10:28:51 · 7 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/UnfortunateCircumstance/

2007-09-11 10:27:13 · 10 answers · asked by wendy v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need more, what can i txt my man to let him know of my intentions later...? yes THOSE intentions......

2007-09-11 10:24:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok,quick question...
Ive liked the same guy since 6th grade,and Im now a 10th grader.

All I want to do is admit my feelings for him,because I think at one time,[almost a year ago and maybe now cuz Ive caught him looking at me]I think he might have liked me too.

I didnt have the chance to get with him though,because his friends got him with some other girl.

He broke it off with her,and Ive caught him looking at me a few times...and I want to admit my feelings.

But his ex wants to work things out with him,and shes constantly up his butt... =(

Should I keep in my feelings or tell him[his ex will HATE me,if I tell him and we start talking or something...]

So tell him or wait?

2007-09-11 10:24:09 · 1 answers · asked by Baby<3Britt 4 in Singles & Dating

okay 2day these older guys asked me if i've ever slapped a monkey, and if i want to to ask 4 there number and call them. idk what it is. do any of u guys 14-17 know? that was the age group...anyway im sorry to have to ask this question but im 13 and not really used 2 the whole high school stuff. thanks ♥ (????)

p.s- i think its about drugs or sex or violence, but ijdk....

2007-09-11 10:23:33 · 6 answers · asked by Rollin' 2 in Singles & Dating