do you think im wrong of this?

Question

I told a girl that i liked that i liked her then she siad that she deosnt like me for certian reasons that she told me and its understandable,and she said that she wanted to stay freinds,and then i told her how it didnt hurt,cuase i just got rejected by my first love and i really loved her *** scince november of 04 every scince i was 12,and that i still love her and i dont know why my heart tells me shes the one for me,then after that i wrote her again,and then asked her if she liked me a agian,then she replied how it just isnt the reason she gave me,becuase shes wiating for her first love to come running back and say sorry,and shes just focusing on school and school only,i wonder if shes lying about that ****

and plus she keeps telling me how she deosnt like me,and i belive it but why did she all of a sudden say that thats what i said to her,after she rejected me how i wanted to focus on school

and how i didnt wanna be with anyone for a couple of years im 15 and shes 17

but then i told her that she deosnt understand me,becuase she really deosnt,and how i wanted our freindship to end peacefully,and i didnt want it to end like my last freindship,and i told her i wish you have a life full of peace and harmony

and then i told her good bye

all of this was through email

Answer 1

Well I am sure you can certainly see the back handed comment you made to her, would come off as rude.

You told a girl you liked her and she turned you down.
You said OH, well it doesn't hurt, because you have someone else you love.

She is only letting you know in a back handed comment that your comment was rude and unnecessary. She is going about it the wrong way, just like you.

I guess you must have hurt her feeling in a way. You was saying that she would have been second best if she would have said she liked you too.

~faith