Family & Relationships - 11 September 2007

I havent been getting along with my family -- i NEED to move out00 I have been thinking of moving into my uncles house-- but how do i tell her that i want to leave? This isnt just somne teenage thing-- its been like this FOREVER -- and when i really think of it-- my family and I arent ever going to work out-- i desperatly need help with this-- please help me

2007-09-11 08:49:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

One thing after another with ex. It is hard to know that he will get someone else and treat them better.

2007-09-11 08:48:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So i went out with this boy for a year. i found out he was cheating on me with this other girl so i broke it off with him. He ended up going out with this girl (the one he cheated on me). two weeks after going out with this girl she broke up with him. Now he wants so badly to go back out with me but i am scared that he will do the same thing. what should i do? go back out with him or just say no?

2007-09-11 08:48:04 · 25 answers · asked by M 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, do u look at porn pics on the internet? If so how does it make u feel? My sex life has gotten rave reviews after I take my fill of the pics and I also get ideas. The older you get the more adventourous you get!

2007-09-11 08:48:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is alway's around me trying to look cool in front of his friends. He is soooo horrible I hate him! I kinda came home som upset, and just cracked, I exploded with tears and anger and I hated myself, If possible even ,more. I haven't exploded like that in front of people for so long considering I'm 16. My brother is 14. HELP!!

2007-09-11 08:47:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i've been in 4 weddings in the past 2 and a half years...and guess what? i have another one that i'm in on friday!!!!!!!!
i love doing it, it's always a great time, but my bf and i have been together for 2 and a half years now and i definitely wonder if i'll always be a bridesmaid, and never a bride :(
he's finishing grad school in may...i guess we are young to go and get married right now... but when do you think i should put my foot down and ask if it will ever happen??

2007-09-11 08:46:35 · 13 answers · asked by notsolucky 3 in Weddings

Help. My Friend REALLLLYYY like this Girl. However he's discovered she's a Jehovah's Witness.

He hasn't really got a belief, and therefore he is under the impression she'd never date him.


He understand certain rules, like no dating Non-Believers and No Sex before Marriage, and Dating is meant to be with the view of Marriage in the Future, however this is a young age, where Marriage is beyond Dating currently, and Sex is no problem.

What should he do? He really wants to be with this Girl, and he feels he may have fallen in love, can anybody help in this TOUGH situation?

2007-09-11 08:43:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wanted to hold some hotel rooms for my out of town guest, but they want me to sign a contract, and I have not even sent the invites out yet, I was trying to be ahead of the game but I don't want to sign a contract and my out of town guest don't show up, then I am responsible for paying for the rooms. What do I do or how far in advanced do I take care of the hotel attangements

2007-09-11 08:43:29 · 16 answers · asked by ucme 1 in Weddings

Are there any men alive on the earth today that are trustworthy as far as to their spouse? I mean for those of you who do not actually cheat, do you do things online like chat with women or look at them online lustfully? You know, things that you know your spouse would not approve of? If so, WHY???

2007-09-11 08:42:58 · 11 answers · asked by Stacy C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-11 08:42:17 · 14 answers · asked by doODADOO 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend says I keep probing her for answers, and it's really irritating her. What does that mean?

2007-09-11 08:41:28 · 13 answers · asked by Steve-O 2 in Singles & Dating

and when you got back to your place and started messing around more, you found out she had some extra euipment under her skirt and panties?

2007-09-11 08:39:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

alright i went out with this girl and we dated for 2 months. a week ago she says she needs a break because her school started and its really stressful and she needs to get used to it and she isnt used to being in a relationship while in school. she said its only temporary. I asked her if she wanted her stuff back and she said no. we were texting one day and i needed to talk to her about a problem i was having and she said i crossed the line and i need to give the key back. so i said fine then give me back all of my stuff and ill give you all yours. i went up there this morning and returned the key and we talked about it and i asked her if she wanted to get back into this relationship again and she said well talk about it. when we left we hugged eachother and she gave me a kiss on the cheek i then kissed her. any thoughts on what i should do? what i should have done? any thoughts on how to get her back? serious answers only please.

2007-09-11 08:39:38 · 15 answers · asked by truespartan2005 2 in Singles & Dating

without spending a ton of money, and without going over the top, what would you say it is?

2007-09-11 08:38:39 · 19 answers · asked by Taken by a Texan 6 in Singles & Dating

Okay so a long and somewhat pointless story is coming up but hey, I'm randomly picking an answer for 5 stars! Points! So in english class I sit behind these two girls and next to another girl, they all seem to be friends. Today just randomly one of them asked the girl next to me "so, have you seen any hot guys yet?". Then another girl said "I haven't really seen any hot guys yet, I'm so dissapointed". THEN the girl in front of me said "hey what about that guy you sit next to in english" and the other girl said "yeah that guy you sit next to in language is pretty hot" or something. Then she looked over at me and was like "oops, did you just hear all that? blush blush." and she was smiling like she wanted me to hear it. SO are they just messing with me or what. It's not like I haven't been called "hot" in the past so I know I'm not UGLY. They do seem flirty in general with different guys.

2007-09-11 08:37:31 · 6 answers · asked by Alex S 1 in Singles & Dating

Our daughter is 7 weeks old and I'm currently working on a divorce. At this age, how should I propose visitation? I want to give him his fair share of course, but I worry about her since she is so little. She is both breast-fed and bottle fed, so feeding isn't an issue. He has two other children from a previous relationship (7 and 8).

Is she too little to stay overnight right now? Should I just allow day visits? I'm not going thru a lawyer as I don't have the spare money. I just would like to know others experiences and how it may affect her. Any ideas?

2007-09-11 08:33:32 · 34 answers · asked by boz4425 4 in Marriage & Divorce

disloyalty is rejection and insult, or failure especially if someone tried real hard.how to heal the wound? should i see a psychologist. they charge so much just for listening quietly with an expressionless face

2007-09-11 08:32:30 · 15 answers · asked by jenny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-11 08:31:59 · 11 answers · asked by mimi ^____^ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 72 yrs old and one day was watching about 6 little kids all playing football in my old crack neighborhood. They were all falling around not doing anything right. My husband was a football coach for 40 years. So I was giving them tips and they were very polite and thankful. Sometimes when I walk by, I go over there and make them catch and throw a little while I give them suggestions, etc. They like it, learned a lot, and god knows in my neighborhood none of their crappy parents would go out there and play with them. Anyway, my daughter told me I look ridiculous doing it. Should I stop? Should I tell my daughter to shut the hell up? What would you do if you saw some 70 yr old woman out there with them? They're all about 7-11 yrs old.

2007-09-11 08:31:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-11 08:31:06 · 21 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

called a good behavior warrant. This can be helpful in most situations, but the possibility of this right being abused exists and is being done. Not all people who raise thier right hand and swear to tell the truth is really telling the truth. This became evident in my life recently and the consequences have been devastating. Without any evidence a person is arrested, booked forced to obtain a $1000 Property bond, and thier name printed in the paper in the police blotter. Can you imagine the effects these events can have on a person's life. You don't have to be guilty, you don't get a trial, you can request a hearing but a judge doesn't want to drop it because he would have to admit he was taken in by someone with an ax to grind. A son can do this to his mother, a husband to his wife, a neighbor to a neighbor. Is this really the way to settle a domestic dispute that perpetrated no violence? Do lives have to be forever changed and families destroyed? What can I do

2007-09-11 08:31:02 · 4 answers · asked by Mamaw 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my live in girlfriend are down to having sex only 2-3 times amonth. Is that grounds to breakup with her
We just moved in together inApril. we had sex muxh more frequentlt before. Between her headaches and other incidental things that do not allow us to be intimate more often we are down to 2-3 time s month. She refuses to give me hand release because she thinks it is disgusting. And oral is fleeting and never to completion. We get along Ok otherwise but I have had much better relationships. I have voiced my concern several times but to no avail. Is this grounds to break up with her?

2007-09-11 08:30:35 · 11 answers · asked by bob l 1 in Singles & Dating

well im 13 and well i have a younger brother that is 4..5 this month, and well im not being selfish or anything because i know he needs attention but sometimes it feels like im not even part of the family...and when he does something like hits me he starts crying so that my mum thinks i've did something to him and my mum doesnt let me explain..and before i know it im being sent to my room for nothing!...sometimes i cant wait to go to school because i know i can leave all the stress behind..i have a dad but he doesnt live with me and i got to see him on weekends but when i do see him i hardly speak about my mum because he hates her and my stepdad who lives with my mum and brother would probubly tell me to stop being spoiled..no one cares about me and im really sick of it
i dont see the point in saying anything really

so please help me!

its really getting me down..

thankyou x x x

2007-09-11 08:30:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't

2007-09-11 08:28:12 · 25 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it possible for a man's penis to be to small to have intercourse?

2007-09-11 08:27:54 · 14 answers · asked by Marygoroun(d) 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-11 08:27:09 · 3 answers · asked by BT_HMS is my messenger id 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is my previous question:

My wife is having a mini mid life crisis. She feels old and out of shape. I think that she is beautiful and in good shape for 48. She is five years older than I am. We have three kids. I love her very much. But she has started losing weight and her face is getting drawn and she is starting to look unsexy and unattractive and more wrinkled. I love her normal and contrary to what she believes, she actually looks older and sick the skinnier she gets. How do I tell her?

Additional Details

5 hours ago
I love a woman with curves and she knows this! Juliiete Binoche, Britney Spears, Susan Sarandon, Madonna in her early years. I guess I have to be patient and just love her.

UPDATE:

I took her to lunch and politely told her. She said that all of her girlfriends think that she looks better. I asked her what do men in her office say? She didn't say anything. Any suggestions now?

2007-09-11 08:27:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok. so there's this guy that lives near me (and near as in 40 feet). i moved to the neighborhood not too long ago, and for some reason since i first saw him i had a feeling he had an attraction to me (fyi, im an "intuitive" person). anyways, so this year school started, and ive seen him go from his bus to his house the first few days. then later on him and his friend started taking the sidewalk i take, only going towards me (like in the opposite direction). the first few times i didnt look at him as they passed me (and he did), only from the corner of my eye. but yesterday, i looked directly at him, and the sun was in my eyes so i was squinting and i may have looked mean, like i was scowling at him. and so today i didnt even see them going to their houses (they probably took a different direction or something) and at lunch, he sat sideways so that his back is to me (he doesnt sit near me, like two tables down and on the other end, but still). and also he didnt go up into the lunch line

2007-09-11 08:25:49 · 8 answers · asked by AngeSurTerre ♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I get married next march and I've been with my fiance for 4 and a half years. I can't get having one last fling out of my head. I'd rather do it now before I'm married but I don't know if I should? He would never find out and I could live with myself for it. I know it's wrong but is it the only way for me to stop thinking about it?

2007-09-11 08:24:54 · 48 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok all my life growing up i have dated blakc men an people all ways told me if i got pregnet no one would want to be around my baby because it would not be black or white. they said the the white kids at school wouldnt want to be around him/her nore the black kids. i never belived it was true. so can someone with kids tell me do they really care these days?!?!

2007-09-11 08:24:50 · 8 answers · asked by memphischick 3 in Other - Family & Relationships