Are there any men alive on the earth today that are trustworthy as far as to their spouse? I mean for those of you who do not actually cheat, do you do things online like chat with women or look at them online lustfully? You know, things that you know your spouse would not approve of? If so, WHY???
2007-09-11 08:42:58 · 11 answers · asked by Stacy C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Can't help you -- I feel lust for one or more other women nearly every single day of my life. I also feel lust toward my wife, but to someone like you, that doesn't matter, and neither does the fact that I don't act on my lust toward others. No, you want not only to police a man's behavior, you want to police his thoughts and feelings. Your best bet is to find a man who tells you only what you want to hear. "Yes, honey, you are the only woman for me -- nobody in the world is attractive but you." I'm sure there are plenty of men out there who would be willing to *say* that to you.
2007-09-11 09:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think when a man finds the right woman he becomes trustworthy. It's either out of sheer love or the fear of losing something good. Some guys I know are so loyal I wonder if they are human because they don't look at other women. But I know it's because they are happy with who they have. And some guys are cheats no matter what. It's like they should fear losing what they have but their lust knows no bounds. Not all guys are the same.
2007-09-11 09:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by SpeedyGonz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been wondering the same thing. It seems to me that the men that you think are trustworthy are just lying to you, and the ones that are honest, well, just break your heart 'cause they are always looking out to see who's hot out there.
Kudos to the second answer, i feel like that when i'm in love too, but i thought men were incapable of seeing it that way.
2007-09-11 08:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by jade 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a spouse, but yes i am very trustworthy.. it's been the last 2 gf's that i have had that seemed to be the untrustworthy sort.
Really sours you on relationships for awhile though doesn't it.
When i am in love with a woman though it's like all other women are in black in white compared to my brightly colored Lady.
2007-09-11 08:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by umannjo 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
there are trustworthy men, just like there are trustworthy women. i think the problem is women who overlook the red flags in a relationship or think they can make a bad boy turn good.
2007-09-11 08:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of us do a little that bothers the other. But that is life and some things need to be over looked while some things need more attention. If you let everything bother you you will be miserable. Let some go and let your partnr know about the big tuff to work on.
2007-09-11 08:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should go read a few books about how the male brain works. It's really not rocket science, they are not quite as complicated as us but by no means simple either. Once you learn what they're all about it's much easier to deal with.....good luck :)
2007-09-11 08:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are upset. Yes there are men who do not do things behind their wife's back. If this is a constant problem for you it could be that you keep picking the wrong men.
2007-09-11 08:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by Brent S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there are men out there who can be trusted. They're just hard to find. But, at the first sign of pornography use, you need to be gone.
2007-09-11 13:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's MY damn sexuality, not hers. I'll look at who I want, thank you. I'll fantacize about who I want to, thank you. If she doesn't like it, she should put out more. THEN she might have a case.
2007-09-11 08:55:34 · answer #10 · answered by terry m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋