Family & Relationships - 11 September 2007

My gf broke up with me last night! I couldn't sleep, eat and work. Today I called her and spent almost 1 hour on the phone just to win her back. She was crying but said I disappointed her. I know she still loves but I hurt her. I didn't cheat on her but I just couldn't go back to my home country for the moment!

How do I win her back or get over her!! Help!!

2007-09-11 07:32:39 · 1 answers · asked by White Shooting Star of HK 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

as usual he was not clear so i asked him to tell me on a scale of 1 to 10 how happy he was with me and he said 7. how do u rate 7 as ok or happy

2007-09-11 07:31:42 · 36 answers · asked by blueocean 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I really can't stand law school. I think I made the worst mistake of my entire life. My parents are not happy and won't let me drop out. Please help!!!!!!!

2007-09-11 07:29:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i know this grl whos boyfriend cheats on her like crazy...the guy is friends with my husband and my husband tells me all of their business...He cheats on her so bad that he's afraid to go places bc he doesnt know if hes slept with someone their or not...girls always come up to her and tell her they've slept with him and she fights them but stays with him...they are supposed to get married but are kind of seperated(she moved out on him but they are still dating) but now he lives with a female roomate who he is sleeping with plus hes sleeping with the woman upstairs, and his girlfriend has no idea...i feel bad for her she is too blind to see what is going on...i want to say something but i dnt kno her like that and i dnt want to ruin my husbands relationship with his friend...but that is nasty...what should i do?????

2007-09-11 07:27:44 · 17 answers · asked by CoCoBrown 2 in Friends

2007-09-11 07:25:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Although this is no reflection on your relationship, do you think you could sleep better if there was no-one else in there with you?

2007-09-11 07:24:36 · 57 answers · asked by Bone 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my boyfriend about 6 weeks - He is stationed in Wilshire so at the moment i can speak to him and see him quite often. The trouble is he is being sent to Afganistan in a few months which he wasn't anticipating! My question is do i stay with him, put my life on hold and hope that he comes home in 9 months or do we finnish things and move on? Either way i will be worrying about him and be praying he is safe and want to keep in contact with him. I just can't imagine being with anyone else when i know where he is and what he is doing?

Anyone been in a similar position who could advise me? Or if you just have a point of view it would rellay help! I'm so confused!!

2007-09-11 07:24:30 · 13 answers · asked by bird_in_a_bubble 1 in Singles & Dating

and give advice to your non-custodial parent, what would you say?

2007-09-11 07:23:55 · 6 answers · asked by metanoia 3 in Family

he just left me,ignored my phone calls wondering wat went wrong with him n if i ever did anything wrong to him....but he never called me back and he never told me why.

he called me after 3 months lost of contact with him
he told me that the reason he neva contacted me was bcoz he was cheatting on me n he didnt know how he would tell me n he thought if he told me why i would break up with him.......which i would.....but he says he stil luvs me as much as he always did.

i met this wonderful guy four weeks ago n i already went four dates with him....but im stil in luv with my ex who already made me suffer enought!!!!....... he was my fiance at the same time the one the only man i trully luved.......i still didnt decide to give him achance cuz he doesnt deserve one..

i would really appreciate your ideas
tell me wat i should do please??

thank you

2007-09-11 07:11:59 · 11 answers · asked by Sahro A 1 in Singles & Dating

during the summer holidays we had a fight because he though i was still hooked up on my ex. Last week at school he pretty much avoided me so i texted him asking if we were cool and what was going on between us. he replied 'You broke my heart but i still cant help loving you'
Whats that suppose to mean? Are we talking or are we not? He doesnt understand at all that i was over my ex long ago.

2007-09-11 07:11:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you do if your mother sat in each class with you, held your hand just to make sure you did what you are supposed to be doing? Would this motivate you to make the grades that you are capable to make?

2007-09-11 07:10:46 · 8 answers · asked by southernvixin00 4 in Family

it can do posible?

2007-09-11 07:08:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-11 07:07:24 · 27 answers · asked by EM J 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-11 07:07:22 · 19 answers · asked by I'm single wanna mingle? 1 in Singles & Dating

You still were in love with someone but you knew the relationship could never work. My ex still calls me to hang out with her and im trying to get over her cause i don't think i will ever find someone else if shes still in my life and i don't want to tell her to quit talking to me cause I think that would really hurt her. Im just really confused as to what to do. We have been broken up for 3 weeks and I don't kno if i will ever get over her at this rate.

2007-09-11 07:07:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 24 now, but last yr., I was living back with my former foster family after Hurricane Katrina so I can finish up my college degree, since my home was destroyed. My former foster sister & her husband DEMANDED that I let her use my car, & 1 day, they didn't come & tell me, but snuck behind my back & told my former foster mom that I don't change my oil in my car, & my former foster mom went off on me & told me I shouldn't ever have kids since I didn't know how to take care of my car. My car was sort of new, but no one told me that I had to change the oil every 3,000 miles. What did changing the oil in my car have to do with raising kids? & from that day forward, they kept harrassing & threatening me about changing my oil, when they KNEW I received a fixed income. Did they have a right to do this? & why did they need MY car when their truck was running fine? & when I asked to use their truck, they said, "Why?"

2007-09-11 07:03:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do shy guys, nerds and level-headed guys think of sex as often as the rest of mankind?

2007-09-11 06:56:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it ok?

2007-09-11 06:55:41 · 28 answers · asked by ladydia756 2 in Singles & Dating

I was recently invited to a wedding, and I'm not sure if I'm allowed to bring a date or not. Usually the envelope would be addresseed to myself plus guest, but it just had my name on it. I was confused whether or not to bring my bf, so I called my friend who's a bridesmaid. Hers also just had her name on it. How do you know what to do if it doesn't say on the envelope or the rsvp card? Thanks!

2007-09-11 06:53:28 · 30 answers · asked by mystiflaur 2 in Weddings

2007-09-11 06:53:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-11 06:52:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do u think they dont care about how smart a girl is or how snotty she is, as long as their pretty?

2007-09-11 06:51:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

! i really like this guy and he found out but hasnt said anything?I tried to get him to say something but he skirted the issue but was suddenly really sweet and nice he always smiles and gets this glazed look in his eyes when he see's me and would talk really soft and look straight in my eyes then suddenly he starts avoiding me when he see's me he gets really quiet and ignores me but smiles and looks at me when he thinks i'm not looking when i say something to him though he always is really sweet and looks either straight in my eyes or down but tries to get away as soon as possible it seems everyone else i know hates him & thinks he's a total *** and i know he is but never to me .. wtf is going on!! frustration grrr

2007-09-11 06:44:23 · 12 answers · asked by LeSha 3 in Singles & Dating

We know a lot of people and would love for them to be at our wedding but we can't invite everyone to the reception.

2007-09-11 06:43:12 · 27 answers · asked by lulu 3 in Weddings

this is something we have talked aboput but at the same time is wounding what it will do to our marriage

2007-09-11 06:29:31 · 36 answers · asked by new_york_coyote 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it's kind of funny to me that my husband still doesn't know after living here for 2 years! Haha!

2007-09-11 06:28:50 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay my boyfriend gets mad when I do stuff for my family…. I mean its not like anything bad its just when I am over his house my mom or sister will call and need something and ill run and jump to it… he seems to think they are using me and trying to keep me from him cuz last night I was suppose to go by walmart and get some meat and when I made it half way home my sister changed her mind and said she wasn’t going to cook that…. Well, he got pretty mad cuz I left his house….

He has been taking everything out on me lately, like he is ragging… he makes me cry then he says he is sorry and he loves me he just has a lot on his mind… I love him with all my heart and I don’t want to lose him. Then they other day we kinda got into it because he likes to drink a lot and go to bars and honestly bars are not my thing.. I don’t see the fun in it….. then he told me he was going to stop drinking because he didn’t want to lose me and he knew I would leave him if he didn’t. I told him it’s okay sometimes just not all the time!!!!!

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What do I do??????????

2007-09-11 06:25:23 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wat does it mean if a girl always wants to hang out with you and is really touchy and flirty and calls you and texts you everyday but she says she jus wants to be friends rite now?? is she screwing with me or playin hard to get?? wat do i do?

2007-09-11 06:25:19 · 15 answers · asked by basketball 1 in Singles & Dating

that he didnt give a **** and that he tell me he didnt bother in our relationship
is it me or isn't that mean ?
his also to happy to tell all his mates or any one who asks how much he wasn't affected

Yes i no i need to move on and its hard but him saying that has hurt me so much any onebeen though the same thing? and what happened

2007-09-11 06:14:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just got out of an abusive relationship that I endured for almost 8 years. What I didn't realize is the toll that it took on my daughter. At 6 years old she is kind of a loner. Her father and I share custody but at the same time I don't know what to do because she hates to go to his house and she says it makes her sick because her dad is always asking about me and my new life. It's almost like he is forcing her to be an adult with his adult conversations. I don't know how to reverse the loneliness that she seems to have she always wants to be by herself. I try to do a lot of one on one activities with her but she has no patience. She mouths back at me and other adults as well. I give her love, affection, and everything she possibly wants but with no result. She is very smart and some of the things she brings out of her mouth surprises me. I know some say show her who's the parent but I am healing myself. It hurts to see that no one likes to be around my child what to do?

2007-09-11 06:12:26 · 14 answers · asked by t_tneal27 1 in Other - Family & Relationships