! i really like this guy and he found out but hasnt said anything?I tried to get him to say something but he skirted the issue but was suddenly really sweet and nice he always smiles and gets this glazed look in his eyes when he see's me and would talk really soft and look straight in my eyes then suddenly he starts avoiding me when he see's me he gets really quiet and ignores me but smiles and looks at me when he thinks i'm not looking when i say something to him though he always is really sweet and looks either straight in my eyes or down but tries to get away as soon as possible it seems everyone else i know hates him & thinks he's a total *** and i know he is but never to me .. wtf is going on!! frustration grrr
2007-09-11 06:44:23 · 12 answers · asked by LeSha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is just checking u out, whether u r the girl of his dream.Make sure, u put ur best front or he will run from u.
2007-09-11 07:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ben B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the first thing i have to say is forget what everyone else thinks of him... what matters is what you think of him and how he treats you....
The boy may be shy and not really know what to do since you have shown some type of intrerest in him. Usually the hardest part of starting a conversation with someone that you like is the fact that you dont want to say something that you feel may make you look stupid. So if he isnt going to say something.... maybe thats the sign that says that you should.. you would be suprised to know how many guys like to see girls take charge and step up to the plate when it comes to asking someone out or saying that you like him... that may be all that it takes.. and then hes all yours! :)
good luck
2007-09-19 13:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by chicagocubbie82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason he is keeping you at a distance. You could ask him but my guess is if it were that simple then he would have come out with it by now. With draw and get on with your life and see what happens. If he does draw you back find the right time and place, tell him what you told us and if he isnt forth right with his answers move on.
2007-09-19 13:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm going through the same situation and don't know what to do either but to tell you the truth nothing is better thatn playing hard to get when you really like the guy.
2007-09-19 13:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..... let me just tell you this, what ever you do dont chase him. if he really likes you whether he is shy or not he will make a move. what ever you do ,do not go to him...just keep smiling at him and flirting from a distance. give him about a month or two then if he doesn't make a move and ask you out on a date then i suggest that you move on. i seems like he likes for girls to chase him so if you want him to fall for you and fall hard....play his game and flirt from distance, so let the games began....oh yea good luck although i am sure that you wont need it.
2007-09-19 13:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Faye 2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look out...dont just trust him with out him proving that he is trustworthy. There is a reason why people think he's a jerk.
If you want to get to the point. Just ask him out. If it clicks and you thik it is not full of s**t than continue otherwise move on.
2007-09-19 13:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ernie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda going through the same thing except the guy i like tells me he loves me when hes had a drink but when hes sober, hes just really sweet to me n tells me I'm his best mate n that we will always be mates. we have known each other for 11-12yrs n iv always loved him but iv stopped waiting for him n hes now coming to me. my advice is, just be yourself n wait for him to make the moves. if he doesn't then move on cos you cant get hung up over a guy.
2007-09-19 12:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe once he found out that you liked him he got gun shy....maybe it makes him nervous....it's a possibility...try a little light flirting see how it goes....so many times today people are so afraid of rejection that they are not even willing to speak to someone of the opposite sex....how would anyone ever find a mate if the whole world was like this...
2007-09-19 02:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all the others are right.....He isnt worth your frustrations or any thoughts
2007-09-19 06:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by ajal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get new one....have many guys in the world
2007-09-19 13:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by NAZHAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋