that he didnt give a **** and that he tell me he didnt bother in our relationship
is it me or isn't that mean ?
his also to happy to tell all his mates or any one who asks how much he wasn't affected
Yes i no i need to move on and its hard but him saying that has hurt me so much any onebeen though the same thing? and what happened
2007-09-11 06:14:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but you do have to get over him. Why are you still in contact if he's being mean? Cut all ties with that vile man and find yourself a new one!!
You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince! x
2007-09-11 06:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it bothers him as well but just puts up a front, most guys are not going to go around telling people how sad they are that you two are not together. Take your time to get over the relationship and just remember that he cared or he would not of stayed for a year. You will be fine and yes it does hurt but not everyone in the world shows there emotions the same way.
2007-09-11 06:28:15 · answer #2 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can only hurt you more IF you let him. Ignore the stories/rumours/whatever, i find that men generally slag women off when the relationship has ended - regardless of who ends the relationship. I think if i listened to what the prats are saying who i have been out with, then i would never go out in public again, thinking everyone has heard rumours/lies/stories. You have to toughen up, let it go over your head and move on. You will get the hang of it. Are you going to let the silly prat affect your life now that you are out of this relationship? You need to learn to just let it go.
2007-09-15 05:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys have to act that way to save face with other guys. It is just an immature reaction. If I were you, I would just not talk about him to other people. He will get a kick out of hearing you are hurt, so don't tell people you are hurt. Tell them you feel badly that he is so upset that he has to lie about how he felt about you. Poor guy.. Aren't you really glad it's over since that is the kind of guy he is?
2007-09-11 06:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you dealt with this guy for a whole year- I'm pretty sure he's pretending
I've never known a booty call to last that long
don't let him know he's hurting you
dust yourself off and try again
2007-09-11 07:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by wonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, sorry, but maybe he cant get over you, and being cruel about you is his way of tackling these emotions. he probably took it badly when you broke up. telling his mates is very childish though. dont worry, you dont need him.
2007-09-11 06:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
men are s**t. my bf broke up with me almost 3 weeks ago. i had just had a miscarriage. don't think i will ever trust another man again.
2007-09-11 06:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by queenjoef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just trying to prove himself otherwise why behave this way my policy is simply to avoid exs and never speak about them
2007-09-11 06:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by nurgle69 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be overcompensating. Maybe he really was hurt.
2007-09-11 06:34:35 · answer #9 · answered by futuretopgun101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know revenge ,is a dish served cold . get your own back on that ;@SS .
2007-09-11 06:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋