Family & Relationships - 11 September 2007

I am moving way out of state and I have 3 sisters and a brother that I am leaving behind, they are all younger than me and I would really like to get them a keepsake type thing so that they can always be reminded of me. I am going to take a picture of me and them individually and frame it, but I would like to get some customized jewlery...if you know of any websites where I might be able to do that..i'd really like to know..

thanks a lot everyone!!

2007-09-11 06:11:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We are the typical 'surburbia family'. Kids, house, nice things, friends, good jobs, I am an attractive woman who NEVER denys my husband sex, and he still cheats on me. I dont know why. I almost feel like its ME. I do EVERYTHING for this man and affairs is what i get in return. Why do you suppose he is like this? (BTW, I threw him out last night....so, no, i am not puting up with it anymore) I'm just so hurt and confused and am kinda feeling 'why me'? what did i do to him to deserve this? I am totally crushed right now and dont know what to do. Most people will cheat for sex, but i screw that mans brains out every freaking day...lol.... I would thing he wouldnt have the energy for sex with someone else.....but he does.....I just dont understand.

2007-09-11 06:10:00 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

lets see. i have been with my bf for almost a year. i dont want to break up with my bf but we are going to seperate schools now. i broke up last week but got right back eith him cus i dont think i can be without him. its just that the intial spark that i had for him has started fading. i dont know what to do. he can be mean, and he has a different faith than i do. pease help!

2007-09-11 06:08:42 · 1 answers · asked by Deni T 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi there, I am currently in a Long distance Relationship with a girl who is 23 and i am 24. she used to live in my city but relocated back to her mothers 86 miles away (2 hours drive). shes busy during the week working and we both have weekends but i am a student and i need to work 7-8 hours whenever i like at the weekend...i make my own hours. I plan on graduating and next summer moving near her. I know i am going to find it a bit of a strain every weekend to travel to see her so we agreed we stay over once a week rotational she come here and i see her. our parents are fine with it but our parents are retired. We will not get the chance to do our romantic stuff although things have been done at hers when her mother down stairs. Will she lose interest in LD relationship? I am in fear she will meet some one else as shes is very attractive. We keep in touch with texts and calls and visits...i went to meet her mum last week and saw thier house, we are both keen but how can i secure us?

2007-09-11 06:01:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-11 05:57:14 · 6 answers · asked by monkey's mom 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-11 05:56:15 · 13 answers · asked by go_april_go 3 in Friends

It's kind of a rediculous question. Anyways, I've been married for 4 years now and a lot of my cousins and friends who got married after me either have kids already or are pregnant. My husband and I are not completely ready to have kids yet, but sometimes I feel bad when I am around my friends and family because they have kids and I don't. I want kids but not right now. Why do I feel this way?

2007-09-11 05:51:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I consider my boyfriend very attractive. But almost everyday after he gets home from work he tells me stories about female customers hitting up on him and flirting w/ him at work. Could he be lying just to make me feel how lucky i am to be w/ him? Could all his stories be true??

2007-09-11 05:50:35 · 20 answers · asked by ~JUST ME~ 2 in Singles & Dating

My family has never found out about the abuse i suffered at the hands of my father and my cousin. It began when i was 2 and lasted till 3rd grade when my mom divorced my dad and my cousin committed suicide. Growing up my family always just considered me the "bad seed," and never really tried to figure out why a 2 yr old would begin acting the way that i did. I didn't straighten myself out until around 18 years of age, I worked through the feelings about my abuse and have moved on.

I want to share with my family what I went through so that maybe they can begin to understand who I am a little better, but honestly do not feel it is my responsibility to help them through the feelings they will inevitably have about the abuse and myself. I don't feel it is my job to help them, they never helped me. Is this selfish of me, should I share with them and make myself available to talk about their feelings or keep it to myself and let them continue to think negatively about me?

2007-09-11 05:50:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

also i was told that my boyfriend could wear a nice shirt and nice khaki pants to the wedding but he feels that he is going to be the only one under dressed? should he dress more formal?

2007-09-11 05:45:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My fiance has a 16 yr old daughter who lives with her mother 4 hours away. His ex is very manipulative woman who puts the daughter in the middle of every situation. They have been divorced 12 years and both had been remarried but when my fiance was going through his 2nd divorce, she divorced her husband and did everything she could to get back with him. So Im not the cause of the divorce or anything like that but I am already the "evil step mom" his daughter didnt like me before she ever met me. She is disrespectful to me. I have tried for a year and a half to do everything in my power to be her friend. Her mother sends me nasty emails and then when I respond and stick up for myself - the daughter reads them and responds back to me in a way I would NEVER allow my teenage daughter to speak. My fiance and I have a great relationship really. WE get along and I couldnt be happier but I foresee this being a big problem but I dont her to split us up but this is his lil girl.

2007-09-11 05:40:09 · 46 answers · asked by spoildrotn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I seperated early in my pregnancy due to him cheating. We have a 3yr old together already. He is military, lives 3 hours away, and barely manages to visit her once a month. Now that it's getting close to my due date he tells me he is going to get a court order for a paternity test for the baby. I have no objections to this, it's his child. I think he's just doing it to hurt me. I want to tell him, "Fine then don't bother seeing the baby until you have your results!" but I'm not sure if that's because I'm hurt and angry or if it is a legit request. I know I shouldn't bring my feelings into it, because it's most important for the children to have a relationship with their father. He's already agreed on not being there for the birth but says he wants to see the baby after it's born... do I allow this? He has made life very stressful for me, and our daughter. I don't want to see another child get attached to him, just to be abandoned. Any suggestions? Thank you.

2007-09-11 05:29:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-11 05:29:32 · 4 answers · asked by Jolie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife felt necessary 2 tell me last night this guy friend she has been texting with text her and told her this. "I need 2 talk 2 you soon about something I am worried about" Then she says she is worried about what he needs to confide in her. I sat and acted calm but I know what this is leading to. She is setting the stage for her 2 go out one evening to meet up w/him or go 2 the bar or somehing like that. I have agreed that she can go out and do things she wants & I dont have to be present but it begins to bother me when in my eyes it appears there is so much wk being put into it. The guy friend, who I have met a few times is overweight, 10+ years older and I dont bel there is any affair taking place physically. I've read about emotional affairs though & I feel this may be that. I watch her when she gets text fm him and she smiles 2 herself and then continues bk & forth w/the texting. It makes me feel empty & hurt inside. Is this sometype of emotional affair?

2007-09-11 05:27:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-11 05:26:16 · 7 answers · asked by prem v 1 in Family

at the cost of putting people down ?

2007-09-11 05:25:00 · 23 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6 in Marriage & Divorce

A man friend of mine & I were going to meet for the movies, instead he calls me a half hr before we are to meet and tells me he is in the hospital, that his BP was 159 over 120, and that the doctor's tell him he could very well have a stroke. So I am really scared for him, he tells me not to go to the hospital, he will call me when he gets out. Later on, I called the hospital to check on him and he never was admitted - what? So 2 hrs later he leaves me a msg that says he lied. His apt. got broken into and he had to "take care of business". I am livid over the fact that he lied to me number one, and number two, what kind of business is he referring to?

2007-09-11 05:23:09 · 7 answers · asked by Angelheart♥ 5 in Friends

ive been suicidal, but im not going to do it. the only reason is my parents. every so often two people my mom knows dies, i dont want to be one of them, and i dont think i could do that to my dad. so im wondering if its loyalty, love, obligation, or a little bit of all? what's your opinion?

2007-09-11 05:21:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i tottally hate porn, i think its so disrespectful, and just plain disgusting. my boyfriend loves it and i cant seem to get over him looking at it, its ruining our relationship.....its not that i think he wants them, its just the fact i think its disrespectful for him to get turned on by another female, and want to look at other girls naked. it really hurts....anyone else gone threw this? what did u do? how i get over it...

2007-09-11 05:21:30 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-11 05:16:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-11 05:16:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A good friend of mine joined Yahoo Personals earlier this year because of a dating rut. Well, she met someone on there and they have been casually seeing each other from time to time. She says they have good chemistry and I have met him and he seems like a good person. Here's the issue: Now, she says they haven't been nothing more than good friends getting to know each other better and she thinks that he is the "one" but doesn't want to rush into anything. When she decided to check out her personal's account the other day, she noticed that he had been active in last 24 hours. She was a little sad, thinking that maybe he only considers her as nothing more than a friend and was still searching for his right "one."
As a friend I told her not to read to much into anything. They have built a good friendship out of it and nothing romantic has been done, so I do not seem the harm in him continuing to use the service. Was I wrong to say this or do you think she should look elsewhere?

2007-09-11 05:14:14 · 4 answers · asked by Tag 2 in Singles & Dating

was feuding with your mother, and say they didn't like each other, always arguing, and calling each other names, and your wife or husband told you to get rid of the mother or they will divorce you, what would you do?

2007-09-11 05:14:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was currious about your reactions ladies... If you had or do have Hairy arms, and if a random guy would walk up to you and say something like... "Wow your arms are nice!" or "I like your arms, they are hairy" or something along those lines... what would you say to that man?
And if he asked if he could feel your armhair, what would you say to him?
Is there a polite way to do this?

2007-09-11 05:11:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In the last month he has moved back after leaving by his choice 9 months ago, his 17 yo 9th grade drop out gf is 4 months preg, he works about 15 hrs week with his mother as direct boss. When he left the first time I was relieved because he was smoking pot in the house and drinking in his room that he shares with my son (three years younger). His mom blamed me for him leaving and kept trying to convince him to come back because he really couldn't afford to live on his own or with roommates for that matter. Well, now he is back because he has dug himself into a financial mess with a baby on the way. I have asked his mother, my gf, what has he changed that he should be back in our house .. she says nothing, but, that he is still trying to figure things out. He has flunked out of comm. college, has no car so even his mom says how can he work more hours with no ride? I'm just disgusted with the whole mess but my gf seems to think I am making a mountain out of a molehill. Is the prob me?

2007-09-11 05:02:45 · 5 answers · asked by Subi 2 in Family

Hi,
My BF and I recently watched the movie Octopussy. Seeing all those women in sarees filled him with various thoughts. He now wants me to wear a saree, so that he can undress me, and we can make love. I find it bizzare. I am chinese and have never worn a saree. Some women look ravishing in a saree but I can't imagine wearing one myself. I don't mind trying out a sarong or something familiar. And all of it for just enough long time for him to undress me...I love him and want to accommodate his wishes. What do I do...

2007-09-11 05:01:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to know how far in advance I should order my wedding favors. I am inviting 175 people, with the expectation that some people won't be able to come, so I'm hoping to have between 150 and 160 people. I thought that I should maybe order 150 of them now, just to know I have them, and then if we end up having 10-15 more people RSVP, I would just have to rush order that 10 or 15 favors. Is this a good idea or should I just wait?

2007-09-11 04:53:05 · 7 answers · asked by Smash 2 in Weddings

I've been dating this guy for about 6 months and I really want to break up with him. But I have a problem.....I'm not good a sweet break-ups. Normally if I want to break up with a guy I just tell them it's over or pick a fight and never answer their calls again. I don't want to wait for this guys to do something wrong. I just want him to leave me alone.
He hs never been married has no kids and my good money. I have 3 kids and make okay money ( enough to support me and my kids). But everytime we do anything or I take my kids somewhere he wants to go and i end up paying his way. He borrows money from me. He will act like he has left his debt card at home or something and will ask if I can pay and he will pay me back when we get home. I NEVER get it back.
And now that I'm looking for another house he is kind-of hinting around that he wants to stay with me....NO WAY. I know I'd end up taking care of the bills.
So, I can I tell him to screw off in a way the will actully work.

2007-09-11 04:52:53 · 14 answers · asked by okay,okay....i give up 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex fiance and I have been split up for over a week now and it still hurts. I havent talked to him since last Thursday either and he hasnt tried to get ahold of me to see his daughter. The thing is I'm still hurting so bad (emotionally) I miss him so much, but it doesnt look like we'll be working anything out soon.
One night he went out and got hickies from somone else and that just killed me.
I miss him so much...what can I do?

2007-09-11 04:52:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just cant seem to get along with the dog. I think it is because it continues to cost me so much money because she insist that he have the best of everything and he destroys what he does have. I swear I have spent more on the dog than my own children in the past few months. That is another issue. She says the dog is just like a child. I can honestly say I do not see for anyone who has children (she does not) to feel the same way about an animal as they do they're kids. Maybe like she says, " it's just you, most everyone else feels the way I do."

2007-09-11 04:52:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating